Tips for improving looks

[G0n3r]

can you tell me how I could possibly improve how I look? I still like being alternative so I don't wanna hear "go natural " blah blah blah
be as harsh as you want, I think at this point I genuinely need to hear it

Thanks!

 

[Clone]

Don't ever do the red hair again keep it blonde or black

 

[G0n3r]

Don't ever do the red hair again keep it blonde or black

based asf, red hair looked atrocious on me tbh, its currently black

 

[Whitepill]

wym by dont say go natural?

 

[Whitepill]

wym by dont say go natural?

hair color or diet

 

[G0n3r]

wym by dont say go natural?

like, go back to my natural hair ( I say this bc my nat color is dishwater blond ) or take out my piercings

 

[Whitepill]

like, go back to my natural hair ( I say this bc my nat color is dishwater blond ) or take out my piercings

understandable

 

[Slicer]

Lose a little bit of weight
Get rid of piercings
Die hair natural color
Grow hair longer
Debloat through gua Sha, water intake, and increased potassium with less sodium intake.
Exercise

 

[G0n3r]

Lose a little bit of weight
Get rid of piercings
Die hair natural color
Grow hair longer
Debloat through gua Sha, water intake, and increased potassium with less sodium intake.
Exercise

L take

 

[James Othy]

can you tell me how I could possibly improve how I look? I still like being alternative so I don't wanna hear "go natural " blah blah blah
be as harsh as you want, I think at this point I genuinely need to hear it

Thanks!

Just let's you take out that nose ring. Makes you look like a gull darn steer. And that red hair makes ya look like Ronald Mai Dang Lao. Mai Dang Lao is a good place to eat from time to time but nobody wants to look like it's flippin mascot.

 

[G0n3r]

Just let's you take out that nose ring. Makes you look like a gull darn steer. And that red hair makes ya look like Ronald Mai Dang Lao. Mai Dang Lao is a good place to eat from time to time but nobody wants to look like it's flippin mascot.

I might actually size up my ring out of spite :3 but I agree on the red hair thing , fuck Ronnie

 

[James Othy]

I might actually size up my ring out of spite :3 but I agree on the red hair thing , fuck Ronnie

I don't feel spite over what other people do with their appearances. Actually, on second thought, I do. Especially can't stand to see women over 60 years old with blue hair. Seeing them I think to myself, "What kind of husband would allow that garbage. Probably lets her do yoga as well."

 

[G0n3r]

I don't feel spite over what other people do with their appearances. Actually, on second thought, I do. Especially can't stand to see women over 60 years old with blue hair. Seeing them I think to myself, "What kind of husband would allow that garbage. Probably lets her do yoga as well."

ay nothing wrong with yoga (to an extent)

 

[James Othy]

ay nothing wrong with yoga (to an extent)

Oh yes there is. Show me a couple where the woman is involved in stupid shit like yoga and I'll show you a couple where the man is a nervous little mouse whenever she's around. You can't make any sandwiches in a yoga studio.

 

[sigma]

emphasize hair health and volume over color, but also try to keep a color that is natural to humans. the bright red is not realistic and looks weird. maybe a dirty blonde or dark brown?
your nose ring does not look appealing, maybe a different type of nose piercing, if you are insistent on having them?
be healthy

 

[G0n3r]

emphasize hair health and volume over color, but also try to keep a color that is natural to humans. the bright red is not realistic and looks weird. maybe a dirty blonde or dark brown?
your nose ring does not look appealing, maybe a different type of nose piercing, if you are insistent on having them?
be healthy

yeah im planning on growing it out
agreed on the red
okay thx

 

[G0n3r]

Oh yes there is. Show me a couple where the woman is involved in stupid shit like yoga and I'll show you a couple where the man is a nervous little mouse whenever she's around. You can't make any sandwiches in a yoga studio.

ay maybe he's mouse like cuz shes leaner than him with that milf yoga bod

 

[James Othy]

ay maybe he's mouse like cuz shes leaner than him with that milf yoga bod

Not at all.

 

[G0n3r]

Not at all.

L

 

[Aluminineiuemiumeam]

can you tell me how I could possibly improve how I look? I still like being alternative so I don't wanna hear "go natural " blah blah blah
be as harsh as you want, I think at this point I genuinely need to hear it

Thanks!

I see there's some asymmetry in your eyes, one seems more shut than the other. Also it seems one of your shoulders is held lower than the other. This is usually a sign of physical or emotional pain, or an injury.

Do you have a chronic injury to your neck or shoulder, and are you on anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medications?

 

[G0n3r]

I see there's some asymmetry in your eyes, one seems more shut than the other. Also it seems one of your shoulders is held lower than the other. This is usually a sign of physical or emotional pain, or an injury.

Do you have a chronic injury to your neck or shoulder, and are you on anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medications?

Im on antidepressants

 

[Aluminineiuemiumeam]

Im on antidepressants

Antidepressants tend to make people fat and don't really solve depression so much as turn you into a zombie. Being fat is bad for your mental and physical health.



From what I've read the best anti-depressant is dancing and the third best is CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, not Cock & Ball Torture). I recommend you slowly wean yourself off them by halving your dose once a month or so for about 6 months. Talk to your doctor about this and don't take the advice of a cat on the internet.

Hormonal birth control can also cause severe physical and emotional problems too. You're basically shrinking your uterus by supplementing hormones it produces, similar to how bodybuilders who roid can shrink their nuts. This leads to sterility. When combined with antidepressants, hormonal birth control seems to create a chemically-induced Borderline Personality Disorder in women. I recommend you get off both of them for these reasons.

As for dealing with emotional issues, you are a normal young person who has a natural drive to find a mate and reproduce just like every other living thing that reproduces sexually on this planet. If you are depressed, it's because you are doing something very unnatural and your body is sending you a signal that you should change your behavior, rather than suppress that instinct. You should ignore what social media says and listen to your instincts.

Women are extremely competitive with one another, and routinely sabotage one another in the dating sphere. You should only trust women who have a biological incentive to see you succeed in life: women are are closely related to you and have a proven track record of good advice given to you.

For finding a man your best bet is to avoid competing with other women over men who are already successful, and instead find a man who could be successful with the right guidance and then drag him home like a stray kitten to your male family members to help him skill up and get his shit together should it not already be together.

Guys generally end up like their dads, so when evaluating a guy ask him about his dad, what his dad does, look at photos and videos of his dad. If his dad is successful, attractive, charismatic, and so on then lock down the son because he will be too. You'll know you have a catch when other women try to steal him from you.

 

[G0n3r]

Antidepressants tend to make people fat and don't really solve depression so much as turn you into a zombie. Being fat is bad for your mental and physical health.

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From what I've read the best anti-depressant is dancing and the third best is CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, not Cock & Ball Torture). I recommend you slowly wean yourself off them by halving your dose once a month or so for about 6 months. Talk to your doctor about this and don't take the advice of a cat on the internet.

Hormonal birth control can also cause severe physical and emotional problems too. You're basically shrinking your uterus by supplementing hormones it produces, similar to how bodybuilders who roid can shrink their nuts. This leads to sterility. When combined with antidepressants, hormonal birth control seems to create a chemically-induced Borderline Personality Disorder in women. I recommend you get off both of them for these reasons.

As for dealing with emotional issues, you are a normal young person who has a natural drive to find a mate and reproduce just like every other living thing that reproduces sexually on this planet. If you are depressed, it's because you are doing something very unnatural and your body is sending you a signal that you should change your behavior, rather than suppress that instinct. You should ignore what social media says and listen to your instincts.

Women are extremely competitive with one another, and routinely sabotage one another in the dating sphere. You should only trust women who have a biological incentive to see you succeed in life: women are are closely related to you and have a proven track record of good advice given to you.

For finding a man your best bet is to avoid competing with other women over men who are already successful, and instead find a man who could be successful with the right guidance and then drag him home like a stray kitten to your male family members to help him skill up and get his shit together should it not already be together.

Guys generally end up like their dads, so when evaluating a guy ask him about his dad, what his dad does, look at photos and videos of his dad. If his dad is successful, attractive, charismatic, and so on then lock down the son because he will be too. You'll know you have a catch when other women try to steal him from you.

Goddamn bro

 

[Aluminineiuemiumeam]

Goddamn bro

Be sure to go dancing when you feel down, and talk to your shrink about CBT and weaning yourself off drugs.

 

[Frax]

debloat

 

[Ceisriel]

I like the shape of your face, it looks soft, I like soft cheeks, some guys or gals might prefer skinnier cheeks and a bonier face.... just do more exercise if you want that.

Got nothing else to say, you are just gorgeous.
Have a nice day.