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JFL “OMG I want a man who can speak 3 languages”

Jova

Jova

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THEIR DATING POOL EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY:

Expectation:
  • English-French-Italian
  • English-German-Spanish

Reality:
  • English-Yoruba-Pidgin
  • English-Hindi-Gujurati
  • English-Arabic-French (on a visibly brown or black man)
  • English-French/Spanish-Caribbean Patois
  • English-Pashto-Dari (even though some of those men are turbomoggers with the Med aesthetics they want)
 
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TonyDr said:
Finding an arab who speak french & english ? They can found it in France without problems if they "bow down"


Idk why i wish i could speak portuguese
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Portuguese mogs cause when u speak Portuguese it’s easy to learn Spanish, Italian and even French

Even a person who speaks Portuguese and never heard those languages can already read at least 50% of it
 
TonyDr said:
With my spanish & italian i've learnt i can understand few words in Portuguese
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Yeah Latin languages are very easy and since I speak Brazilian Portuguese pronouncing Italian words isn’t hard we had a lot of Italian immigration back in the late 1800s so a lot of Italian influence in the language more than Portugal Portuguese
 
LASACRKO said:
Yeah Latin languages are very easy and since I speak Brazilian Portuguese pronouncing Italian words isn’t hard we had a lot of Italian immigration back in the late 1800s so a lot of Italian influence in the language more than Portugal Portuguese
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TonyDr said:
With my spanish & italian i've learnt i can understand few words in Portuguese
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📖 THE WHITE WOMAN’S “3 LANGUAGES” FANTASY VS YOOKAY REALITY​


Fantasy (Expectation)Reality (YOOKAY-core)
Visual AestheticHandsome Mediterranean guy; slight tan, crisp shirt, hair tousled just right.Brown-skinned Deliveroo driver in a Nike puffer and AirPods, handing you chicken shop chips.
Language ComboEnglish ✚ French ✚ Italian (luxury, cinema, wine bar energy)English ✚ Yoruba ✚ Pidgin (vibrant, but far from Chanel No. 5 commercial vibes)
Where She Meets HimA wine-tasting tour in TuscanyUber Eats drop-off outside a Primark
What She Imagines“Buongiorno, cara. Shall we holiday in Amalfi?”“Wagwan darling, you alright? Where’s the flat innit?”
Romantic DreamSoft-spoken guy quoting Rimbaud or serenading her with Spanish guitarTikTok-famous roadman who codeswitches between Jamaican Patois, Somali slang, and Gen Z memes
Social Media Bio📚 Fluent in French & Italian. Cinephile. Looking for a muse.🚲 Just tryna make p 💷 / 🇳🇬 Naija to da world 🌍 / Allah above all 🙏
Cultural TensionNone (everyone “white-coded European”)Maximal (he’s culturally louder, more masculine, less “Instagram aesthetic”)
Emotional ReactionEnamored, whimsical, “I’m living in a rom-com.”Confused, disoriented, hesitant: “Uhh this isn’t the vibe I thought… but he is multilingual.”




🎯 Why This Happens (Linked to YOOKAY AESTHETICS)​


In a YOOKAY-core world (post-demographic shift Britain, 2020s urban America):

  • The “multilingual man” pool is increasingly not white European.
  • Multilingualism now often means diaspora survival skillsets (English + immigrant mother tongue + colonial lingua franca like French).
  • Aesthetic dissonance kicks in because the fantasy didn’t account for the remix of who’s actually multilingual now.
It’s the same emotional jolt as:
  • Seeing Urdu writing on a Irish pub,
  • Seeing “Hurricane Humberto” smash Louisiana,
  • Walking into a Tesco with Ramadan offers, Afro haircare, Pride flags, and Chinese lanterns all jammed together.

🧠 ​

Summary:​


In her mind: Chalamet x Amalfi Coast x Espresso

In reality: Mandem x Chicken Shop x “trust me g”

And that’s peak YOOKAY AESTHETICS: fantasy vs the new real.
 
Jova said:

📖 THE WHITE WOMAN’S “3 LANGUAGES” FANTASY VS YOOKAY REALITY​



Fantasy (Expectation)Reality (YOOKAY-core)
Visual AestheticHandsome Mediterranean guy; slight tan, crisp shirt, hair tousled just right.Brown-skinned Deliveroo driver in a Nike puffer and AirPods, handing you chicken shop chips.
Language ComboEnglish ✚ French ✚ Italian (luxury, cinema, wine bar energy)English ✚ Yoruba ✚ Pidgin (vibrant, but far from Chanel No. 5 commercial vibes)
Where She Meets HimA wine-tasting tour in TuscanyUber Eats drop-off outside a Primark
What She Imagines“Buongiorno, cara. Shall we holiday in Amalfi?”“Wagwan darling, you alright? Where’s the flat innit?”
Romantic DreamSoft-spoken guy quoting Rimbaud or serenading her with Spanish guitarTikTok-famous roadman who codeswitches between Jamaican Patois, Somali slang, and Gen Z memes
Social Media Bio📚 Fluent in French & Italian. Cinephile. Looking for a muse.🚲 Just tryna make p 💷 / 🇳🇬 Naija to da world 🌍 / Allah above all 🙏
Cultural TensionNone (everyone “white-coded European”)Maximal (he’s culturally louder, more masculine, less “Instagram aesthetic”)
Emotional ReactionEnamored, whimsical, “I’m living in a rom-com.”Confused, disoriented, hesitant: “Uhh this isn’t the vibe I thought… but he is multilingual.”




🎯 Why This Happens (Linked to YOOKAY AESTHETICS)​


In a YOOKAY-core world (post-demographic shift Britain, 2020s urban America):

  • The “multilingual man” pool is increasingly not white European.
  • Multilingualism now often means diaspora survival skillsets (English + immigrant mother tongue + colonial lingua franca like French).
  • Aesthetic dissonance kicks in because the fantasy didn’t account for the remix of who’s actually multilingual now.
It’s the same emotional jolt as:

  • Seeing Urdu writing on a Irish pub,
  • Seeing “Hurricane Humberto” smash Louisiana,
  • Walking into a Tesco with Ramadan offers, Afro haircare, Pride flags, and Chinese lanterns all jammed together.

🧠​

Summary:​


In her mind: Chalamet x Amalfi Coast x Espresso

In reality: Mandem x Chicken Shop x “trust me g”

And that’s peak YOOKAY AESTHETICS: fantasy vs the new real.
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I mean I’m kinda a genius with languages so most languages I speak u can’t really tell I’m not a native speaker
 
Jova said:
why do white anglo women want this shit so much
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Women find guys with experience in general attractive

Like if u have a passion for history, art, language etc

It’s usually the opposite of what guys want women want someone to look up to in every way
 
My ex spoke
Chinese-English-French-arabic
 
lifeisfinal said:
he sounds like a real catch

i bet you think of him everyday and before you go to sleep
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I think of him multiple times a day and he doesn't have me blocked so I occasionally text him
 
Scenehikikomori said:
My ex spoke
Chinese-English-French-arabic
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failo to most anglos
LASACRKO said:
Women find guys with experience in general attractive

Like if u have a passion for history, art, language etc

It’s usually the opposite of what guys want women want someone to look up to in every way
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Most of the male dating pool aren't like that, and a lot of foids bend over backwards to do this shit only to end up with 5'10 Tom from Deloitte
 
Jova said:
failo to most anglos

Most of the male dating pool aren't like that, and a lot of foids bend over backwards to do this shit only to end up with 5'10 Tom from Deloitte
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Ofc there’s a list of important factors ideally women want a guy that is experienced

But ofc if there’s a chad he will come in front face is still more important

But the more positives u have the more u can mog ur equal competition like even if the guy slightly mogs u in looks u can compensate with the other factors money is second but there’s a list of these other things us
 
LASACRKO said:
Ofc there’s a list of important factors ideally women want a guy that is experienced

But ofc if there’s a chad he will come in front face is still more important

But the more positives u have the more u can mog ur equal competition like even if the guy slightly mogs u in looks u can compensate with the other factors money is second but there’s a list of these other things us
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I'm gonna bring another thread up about this same shit later on
some shit I noted in London
 
Being eloquent in your native language > "knowing" X foreign languages at the level of a 12 yo.

Lol at those people thinking they are the shit
 
Becky4L said:
im so pulling women TODAY
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Altruist said:
Being eloquent in your native language > "knowing" X foreign languages at the level of a 12 yo.

Lol at those people thinking they are the shit
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