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i don’t care if you dnr, click off this post now. i’m posting this for my own sake and the people who care.
nothing is good if it’s in excess.
and you probably know that.
when this phrase is used, the usual contexts for it are for consuming drugs or food, but this sentence also stands true for relationships between people, you force two people that don’t like each other for much time together, they’ll either get a long a little better or the situation gets worse.
if you put two people that love each other for too much time together, they mold their own personalities and change as people until they’re incompatible anymore.
and some people try to force it.
right now i’m in a situation where both scenarios stand true, but it is my fault.
first one is, bassicaly, i am unwanted in my dad’s family. sure, my dad and my stepbrother may love me and still want mme in their lives, but as of now it only damages them.
because of ME, my dad fights with his new wife because she believes my dad treats me (14) better than my stepbrother (7) and then they fight and call each other ruthless things in front of my stepbrother, who just stands there begging them to stop. (not gonna write the whole thing again, i already wrote it in 01/01/2026).
forcing people together that don’t get along because of a reason under a “happy family” illusion only creates more harm than good and some people are stupid enough to be blinder by it.
i wish i spent less time with them.
they’re happier without me.
this christmas vacation has been the shittiest one i ever had, filled with fake smiles and fake laughs to make everything seem okay.
and my stepbrother’s parents wonder why he spends so much time with my uncle next doors.
i wish my mom would've taken me to Tenerife too.
nothing is good if it’s in excess.
and you probably know that.
when this phrase is used, the usual contexts for it are for consuming drugs or food, but this sentence also stands true for relationships between people, you force two people that don’t like each other for much time together, they’ll either get a long a little better or the situation gets worse.
if you put two people that love each other for too much time together, they mold their own personalities and change as people until they’re incompatible anymore.
and some people try to force it.
right now i’m in a situation where both scenarios stand true, but it is my fault.
first one is, bassicaly, i am unwanted in my dad’s family. sure, my dad and my stepbrother may love me and still want mme in their lives, but as of now it only damages them.
because of ME, my dad fights with his new wife because she believes my dad treats me (14) better than my stepbrother (7) and then they fight and call each other ruthless things in front of my stepbrother, who just stands there begging them to stop. (not gonna write the whole thing again, i already wrote it in 01/01/2026).
forcing people together that don’t get along because of a reason under a “happy family” illusion only creates more harm than good and some people are stupid enough to be blinder by it.
i wish i spent less time with them.
they’re happier without me.
this christmas vacation has been the shittiest one i ever had, filled with fake smiles and fake laughs to make everything seem okay.
and my stepbrother’s parents wonder why he spends so much time with my uncle next doors.
i wish my mom would've taken me to Tenerife too.
