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21F, want to look better, at least match with my husband. Advice?

idkwhatiam111 said:
boy thats like tens of thousands of dollars i am broke as hell
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Well you can’t move your mandible and your maxilla with orthodontics because your too old for it to work I would let even worrry much about your looks you look fine
 
idkwhatiam111 said:
Hi guys, i’m 21F and going to start medical school in a year. I really want to look prettier before i start because I know i’m gonna be so stressed and tired all the time. My husband and I were talking and he said objectively, he would rate himself an 8, and me about a 6.5-7.5, and it made me really sad. He said if my arms and legs were skinnier i’d look better. But i know there’s stuff wrong with my face too. I just feel so embarrassed now that if we’re in public people look at him and think, “wow, why is he with her? he could do so much better.” I put in a lot of effort to look good when we go out. But i just want him to think i look good. I go to the gym, and am losing weight, i’ve lost about 5 pounds recently. I’m 5’3 and 115. What can i do so that i’m at least almost as attractive as him? I’m going to get lipo on my arms later this year. Rn i use volufiline and a lash serum. Also, would you guys think he’s way more attractive than me, or do we match well? I’m just so in my head about this. He said he cares the most about personality and he loves me for how i look and thinks i’m pretty, but his objective rating really hurt me. How can i match with him?? Also, i’m considering getting botox to fix my smile, the last pic is me at the dentist when half my face was numb lol. Oh also, i forgot to add, what would you guys rate me with the letter stuff? From what I saw i feel like a ltb or if that is what its called
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Yo wtf is he on about. Your body and face are beautiful! I'd really reconsider the lipo cause your arms look good and the lips would only age them. Work on your confidence and stop giving negative comments about your appearance any attention. Maybe you where bullied during adolescence, because you seem to be really insecure about your looks. All I can say is dont worry about it, dont get any surgeries you'd regret later on( believe me you will, natural is always better) stay positive and move on from this topic and forum altogether. Good luck ❤️ you seem like a sweet person so dont be too hard on yourself
 
his psl is ass
 
idkwhatiam111 said:
Hi guys, i’m 21F and going to start medical school in a year. I really want to look prettier before i start because I know i’m gonna be so stressed and tired all the time. My husband and I were talking and he said objectively, he would rate himself an 8, and me about a 6.5-7.5, and it made me really sad. He said if my arms and legs were skinnier i’d look better. But i know there’s stuff wrong with my face too. I just feel so embarrassed now that if we’re in public people look at him and think, “wow, why is he with her? he could do so much better.” I put in a lot of effort to look good when we go out. But i just want him to think i look good. I go to the gym, and am losing weight, i’ve lost about 5 pounds recently. I’m 5’3 and 115. What can i do so that i’m at least almost as attractive as him? I’m going to get lipo on my arms later this year. Rn i use volufiline and a lash serum. Also, would you guys think he’s way more attractive than me, or do we match well? I’m just so in my head about this. He said he cares the most about personality and he loves me for how i look and thinks i’m pretty, but his objective rating really hurt me. How can i match with him?? Also, i’m considering getting botox to fix my smile, the last pic is me at the dentist when half my face was numb lol. Oh also, i forgot to add, what would you guys rate me with the letter stuff? From what I saw i feel like a ltb or if that is what its called
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you mog dw
 
Youre stunning, and in my opinion u look better than him
If you do want to improve though, do it. And then leave his toxic ass he doesnt deserve you
If a man truly loves u, he will see u as the most gorgeous woman in the world, even if u arent. The fact that he thinks youre inferior to him lookswise says enough.
A man that isnt fully satisfied with u will find somewhere else to fulfill his dreams, and im telling u this from my experience
I know a divorce is hard, especially after this many years, but do u want to lose 8 years of time or another 20? You can always find someone that knows your worth and that doesnt make you feel insecure
 
truthhhhh00 said:
Yo wtf is he on about. Your body and face are beautiful! I'd really reconsider the lipo cause your arms look good and the lips would only age them. Work on your confidence and stop giving negative comments about your appearance any attention. Maybe you where bullied during adolescence, because you seem to be really insecure about your looks. All I can say is dont worry about it, dont get any surgeries you'd regret later on( believe me you will, natural is always better) stay positive and move on from this topic and forum altogether. Good luck ❤️ you seem like a sweet person so dont be too hard on yourself
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I never got bullied bc i went to such a small school in middle school, and i was friends with everyone in my class bc i was funny. But i was really ugly and had no sense of style or trend whatsoever, so i always felt different. whenever i had a crush on a guy, the guy would get made fun of. it made me so insecure bc i never got any sort of positive feedback or encouragement and i used to stand in front of the mirror and hit my jaw with a hairbrush to try and change my face shape and stuff like that. I was soo insecure and i don't think itll ever go away tbh
 
aspiringstacy said:
Youre stunning, and in my opinion u look better than him
If you do want to improve though, do it. And then leave his toxic ass he doesnt deserve you
If a man truly loves u, he will see u as the most gorgeous woman in the world, even if u arent. The fact that he thinks youre inferior to him lookswise says enough.
A man that isnt fully satisfied with u will find somewhere else to fulfill his dreams, and im telling u this from my experience
I know a divorce is hard, especially after this many years, but do u want to lose 8 years of time or another 20? You can always find someone that knows your worth and that doesnt make you feel insecure
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yeah he always said he was a perfectionist about looks but he always compliments me and calls me beautiful, bla bla bla. I feel like hes loyal but i just hate that he thinks hes objectively more attractive then me. I wish he saw me as objectively pretty
 
idkwhatiam111 said:
he would rate himself an 8, and me about a 6.5-7.5
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What the fuck is his issue
I hate when people tell couples online to break up but you actually need to leave him lol

But like if you wanna look better
- dye your hair brown
- use minox on brows then shape them straighter
- minox on lashes + lash lift
- tret + azelaic acid for skin
- lose weight and tone up
 
idkwhatiam111 said:
yeah he always said he was a perfectionist about looks
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yes thats the worst part
dating a lmer is fine in my opinion if he just wants to improve his looks but rating your partner directly is a big red flag
if he thinks youre imperfect, one day he will find someone he thinks is perfect or worthy of him
at the end of the day its your choice what you do next but dont be shocked if he leaves you or finds someone else. since hes such a perfectionist he will always look for better even if it doesnt look like it
he didnt even try to hide his superiority complex
 
idkwhatiam111 said:
Hi guys, i’m 21F and going to start medical school in a year. I really want to look prettier before i start because I know i’m gonna be so stressed and tired all the time. My husband and I were talking and he said objectively, he would rate himself an 8, and me about a 6.5-7.5, and it made me really sad. He said if my arms and legs were skinnier i’d look better. But i know there’s stuff wrong with my face too. I just feel so embarrassed now that if we’re in public people look at him and think, “wow, why is he with her? he could do so much better.” I put in a lot of effort to look good when we go out. But i just want him to think i look good. I go to the gym, and am losing weight, i’ve lost about 5 pounds recently. I’m 5’3 and 115. What can i do so that i’m at least almost as attractive as him? I’m going to get lipo on my arms later this year. Rn i use volufiline and a lash serum. Also, would you guys think he’s way more attractive than me, or do we match well? I’m just so in my head about this. He said he cares the most about personality and he loves me for how i look and thinks i’m pretty, but his objective rating really hurt me. How can i match with him?? Also, i’m considering getting botox to fix my smile, the last pic is me at the dentist when half my face was numb lol. Oh also, i forgot to add, what would you guys rate me with the letter stuff? From what I saw i feel like a ltb or if that is what its called
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first married person i see on this forum
 
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