managedecline
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If you are a youngcel, and just despair at your ugly coupon, or experiences with women you like. It might not get any better, if you are incredibly unlucky ugly/crap genetics but it will get easier, but you need discipline, structure, and routine to feel any sense of accomplishment.
You'll be down to about 4 or 5 genuine friends (if lucky) by 40. You'll have a lot of people you went to high school, who you'll say are your friends but most of them you have grown so far apart and different from that, you just end up being bored being around a lot of them. They all have families, mortgages, kids, some are great people and hang on to the ones you feel natural around even if you haven't spoke in 5 years ; the ones you didn't care for either way, just let those relationships fizzle out or if they are incredibly toxic and abusive to you, then well, you need to tell them to fuck off - they'll be shocked, especially if they walked all over you for years. You shouldn't have to do that though , but let all those tiring relationships pass. Don't be a dick though, just be you and if people turn their nose up, then its not meant to be, don't chase it.
Diet is huge. Fish, eggs, meat, fruits, nuts, some grain/bread if you can tolerate it well, dairy. Stress too. Even if you are an incel, work your ass off. Even if uneducated work 2 jobs, bar work can be great extra work at the weekends especially drunken tips. Buckle down, eat well, work hard and enjoy yourself when you can. Do chase a passion either, it will come to you (if it does) Not everyone has to be someone, but you can still earn money if you work hard.
Exercise, even just 8k steps a day. It'll keep your body physically young which will give you at least something to be proud of - people can talk about gymcel cope etc, and there's an element of that being true ; but the mental benefits from exercise be it lifting, golfing, running, hiking can give some of the most depressed blackpillers something to be happy or proud of.
I'm 41, ugly, but started really eating well about 8-9 months ago and my skin has cleared up a lot. Less blotchy, tired looking as well. I see people my age struggling to get out of their chair without making noises or grunts, or huge pot-bellied guys looking ten years older.
It is boring though, and you will end up eating something unhealthy every now and again, but it can also make a huge difference to face bloat as well.
It gets easier as you age, if you are a young incel, you'll see the prom king and queen balloon up in weight or be stressed to their eyeballs chasing the dream they cannot afford.
Eat well. I've seen people eat themselves up to 300 pounds in just 10 years, and not just a few many. Everyone is depressed and fat, so its not hard to stay at least in shape when older.
Balding is a bitch, espeically if you aren't that attractive and northern European. I see a huge difference in iois etc when I hear a beanie or cat or walk around my ugly balding dome. Yet, I'm 41, norwood 4.5. I don't have the balls to rock a hair system nor the inclination being an oldcell now too, they look great on pictures but I wouldn't be sure of the up close or them matching your side hair colour. Unless you can afford Turkish hairlines, or can be bothered with cost, money, effort of rogaine etc - hop on it if young though - at my age, just try and get the head as tanned as I can really.
I wear hats a lot, I can afford to workwise, and noticing more and more 30s and 40s men are wearing hats, so at least its not the social tabooo it once was - in my 20s, some bars woudn't let you in wearing one - you should take it off though now and again if you are balding, its not a great look ; but you'll be known as the guy who always wears a cap if you never expose your head once and again. Knew a guy who wore a bandana to a wedding to hide his receding hairline at 38 haha.
Have hobbies, interests and be yourself. Can't emphasis this enough, I spent years people pleasing as an incel and it go me absolutely nowhere, yes I might have went to the odd wedding or the cool party, but I was a hanger on, I was basically a NPC to make the numbers up and a bit of a jestermaxx - you might capture the room when telling a funny tale, yet you'll be mogged/back to the bottom then minute they've had their bit of fun.
So don't do it. Don't be sickly sweet with people who are blatantly using you, ignore you, passive aggressive or rude to you.
Too much maybe for first post.
You'll be down to about 4 or 5 genuine friends (if lucky) by 40. You'll have a lot of people you went to high school, who you'll say are your friends but most of them you have grown so far apart and different from that, you just end up being bored being around a lot of them. They all have families, mortgages, kids, some are great people and hang on to the ones you feel natural around even if you haven't spoke in 5 years ; the ones you didn't care for either way, just let those relationships fizzle out or if they are incredibly toxic and abusive to you, then well, you need to tell them to fuck off - they'll be shocked, especially if they walked all over you for years. You shouldn't have to do that though , but let all those tiring relationships pass. Don't be a dick though, just be you and if people turn their nose up, then its not meant to be, don't chase it.
Diet is huge. Fish, eggs, meat, fruits, nuts, some grain/bread if you can tolerate it well, dairy. Stress too. Even if you are an incel, work your ass off. Even if uneducated work 2 jobs, bar work can be great extra work at the weekends especially drunken tips. Buckle down, eat well, work hard and enjoy yourself when you can. Do chase a passion either, it will come to you (if it does) Not everyone has to be someone, but you can still earn money if you work hard.
Exercise, even just 8k steps a day. It'll keep your body physically young which will give you at least something to be proud of - people can talk about gymcel cope etc, and there's an element of that being true ; but the mental benefits from exercise be it lifting, golfing, running, hiking can give some of the most depressed blackpillers something to be happy or proud of.
I'm 41, ugly, but started really eating well about 8-9 months ago and my skin has cleared up a lot. Less blotchy, tired looking as well. I see people my age struggling to get out of their chair without making noises or grunts, or huge pot-bellied guys looking ten years older.
It is boring though, and you will end up eating something unhealthy every now and again, but it can also make a huge difference to face bloat as well.
It gets easier as you age, if you are a young incel, you'll see the prom king and queen balloon up in weight or be stressed to their eyeballs chasing the dream they cannot afford.
Eat well. I've seen people eat themselves up to 300 pounds in just 10 years, and not just a few many. Everyone is depressed and fat, so its not hard to stay at least in shape when older.
Balding is a bitch, espeically if you aren't that attractive and northern European. I see a huge difference in iois etc when I hear a beanie or cat or walk around my ugly balding dome. Yet, I'm 41, norwood 4.5. I don't have the balls to rock a hair system nor the inclination being an oldcell now too, they look great on pictures but I wouldn't be sure of the up close or them matching your side hair colour. Unless you can afford Turkish hairlines, or can be bothered with cost, money, effort of rogaine etc - hop on it if young though - at my age, just try and get the head as tanned as I can really.
I wear hats a lot, I can afford to workwise, and noticing more and more 30s and 40s men are wearing hats, so at least its not the social tabooo it once was - in my 20s, some bars woudn't let you in wearing one - you should take it off though now and again if you are balding, its not a great look ; but you'll be known as the guy who always wears a cap if you never expose your head once and again. Knew a guy who wore a bandana to a wedding to hide his receding hairline at 38 haha.
Have hobbies, interests and be yourself. Can't emphasis this enough, I spent years people pleasing as an incel and it go me absolutely nowhere, yes I might have went to the odd wedding or the cool party, but I was a hanger on, I was basically a NPC to make the numbers up and a bit of a jestermaxx - you might capture the room when telling a funny tale, yet you'll be mogged/back to the bottom then minute they've had their bit of fun.
So don't do it. Don't be sickly sweet with people who are blatantly using you, ignore you, passive aggressive or rude to you.
Too much maybe for first post.
