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intro
There's a patern in people who seem to discourage sexual promiscuity (mainly in women), and by no means is it something I encourage myself but these people all tend to not have an exact reason as to why they dislike it or atleast if they do its full of logical fallacies and hypocrisy
my thoughts
I came to the conclusion that it is simply nature. If you have an interest in someone who is sexually active or has been more sexually active that means increased competition and higher standards. This is simply mate guarding.
Mate guarding in humans - Wikipedia https://share.google/VBc9gGExSh8hA0Eqk
Of course these people like to write it off with some bullshit reason like decreased value, or her pussy is loose now (false this isnt how it works) but that's simply because they don't want to admit that's simply the way they are hardwired, this opinion doesn't make them smart or unique like they try to make out
promiscuity and hook up cultures flaws
Sexual promiscuity is something I disagree with for a few reasons and this is mainly in the context of hook up culture.
I'd like to preface that this is about both genders
See recently there has been a normalisation and even glamourisation of a lack of protection being used during sexual intercourse. In fact out of all the people I have ever known who have gone into any detail about the sexual encounters they have had they have not once wore a condom or been on any birth control.
Now of course these people would like to rationalise it by claiming things like "they're a virgin I can't get stds" and the pull out method
For the first point aforementioned, you don't know that and in other instances these same people have sex with sexualy active folk and engage in the same activity (unprotected intercourse)
Most people don't get sexually tested regularly and the lack of protection is especially rampant during teen years in which sexual promiscuity and hook up culture has been increasing. Apparently the stats say 1 in 5 teens contract stds (estimate on my end)
The Growing Epidemic of Sexually Transmitted Infections in Adolescents: A Neglected Population - PMC https://share.google/YpV6t9oKcr4ZzKC9J
To add on most stds tend to be asymptomatic a majority of the time
6 Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) you may have without knowing it | Ohio State Health & Discovery https://share.google/trlOfKjL4QbQi73ii
For the second point this is often ineffective and even if so there's that risk there that I'd rather not deal with
There are many more minor issues like how sex has evolutionarily became romantic and a form of bonding that I think should be shared with caution, but also factors like the risk of r**e and false accusations or being recorded against your knowledge
Sex bonds us together like glue | Article | Woman Alive https://share.google/lpAccUcJVJ5Se9uiD
This is one of the large reasons I hate humanity, though I know my train of thought is largely down to my demisexuality (sexual orientation in which a person only experiences sexual attraction after an emotional bond has been formed with someone) and I personally am Incappable of acting as the titular people have and do.
conclusion
The lack of sexual promiscuity in a partner should not be something we expect but a preference that I see as suitable for other non promiscuous individuals as the lack of experience can cause issues - though we like to think of sexual gratification on both ends as somehow not a big deal in relationships, which once again is a reason I dislike humanity (selfishness)
If you are someone who is sexually promiscuous you simply should not expect a holy virgin to be your future spouse, this does not directly cause any issues (correlation does not equal causation) and is simply weak minded hypocrisy. You get in life what you are worth and to add virginity and/or lack of sexual promiscuouity is becoming less and less common with time as it is, it's something most people will have to accept if you want a LTR.
solution
Be with someone of similar experience, problem solved
TLDR;
Hypocrisy is bad, hold yourself to the morals you set
@BlendedBulge
@Jess
intro
There's a patern in people who seem to discourage sexual promiscuity (mainly in women), and by no means is it something I encourage myself but these people all tend to not have an exact reason as to why they dislike it or atleast if they do its full of logical fallacies and hypocrisy
my thoughts
I came to the conclusion that it is simply nature. If you have an interest in someone who is sexually active or has been more sexually active that means increased competition and higher standards. This is simply mate guarding.
Mate guarding in humans - Wikipedia https://share.google/VBc9gGExSh8hA0Eqk
Of course these people like to write it off with some bullshit reason like decreased value, or her pussy is loose now (false this isnt how it works) but that's simply because they don't want to admit that's simply the way they are hardwired, this opinion doesn't make them smart or unique like they try to make out
promiscuity and hook up cultures flaws
Sexual promiscuity is something I disagree with for a few reasons and this is mainly in the context of hook up culture.
I'd like to preface that this is about both genders
See recently there has been a normalisation and even glamourisation of a lack of protection being used during sexual intercourse. In fact out of all the people I have ever known who have gone into any detail about the sexual encounters they have had they have not once wore a condom or been on any birth control.
Now of course these people would like to rationalise it by claiming things like "they're a virgin I can't get stds" and the pull out method
For the first point aforementioned, you don't know that and in other instances these same people have sex with sexualy active folk and engage in the same activity (unprotected intercourse)
Most people don't get sexually tested regularly and the lack of protection is especially rampant during teen years in which sexual promiscuity and hook up culture has been increasing. Apparently the stats say 1 in 5 teens contract stds (estimate on my end)
The Growing Epidemic of Sexually Transmitted Infections in Adolescents: A Neglected Population - PMC https://share.google/YpV6t9oKcr4ZzKC9J
To add on most stds tend to be asymptomatic a majority of the time
6 Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) you may have without knowing it | Ohio State Health & Discovery https://share.google/trlOfKjL4QbQi73ii
For the second point this is often ineffective and even if so there's that risk there that I'd rather not deal with
There are many more minor issues like how sex has evolutionarily became romantic and a form of bonding that I think should be shared with caution, but also factors like the risk of r**e and false accusations or being recorded against your knowledge
Sex bonds us together like glue | Article | Woman Alive https://share.google/lpAccUcJVJ5Se9uiD
This is one of the large reasons I hate humanity, though I know my train of thought is largely down to my demisexuality (sexual orientation in which a person only experiences sexual attraction after an emotional bond has been formed with someone) and I personally am Incappable of acting as the titular people have and do.
conclusion
The lack of sexual promiscuity in a partner should not be something we expect but a preference that I see as suitable for other non promiscuous individuals as the lack of experience can cause issues - though we like to think of sexual gratification on both ends as somehow not a big deal in relationships, which once again is a reason I dislike humanity (selfishness)
If you are someone who is sexually promiscuous you simply should not expect a holy virgin to be your future spouse, this does not directly cause any issues (correlation does not equal causation) and is simply weak minded hypocrisy. You get in life what you are worth and to add virginity and/or lack of sexual promiscuouity is becoming less and less common with time as it is, it's something most people will have to accept if you want a LTR.
solution
Be with someone of similar experience, problem solved
TLDR;
Hypocrisy is bad, hold yourself to the morals you set
@BlendedBulge
@Jess
