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a guy that i like

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when school started i saw a really cute guy, i asked for his ig and all that shit, texted and then he ghosted me, a week after someone from his class told me that he and his brother were making fun of me then weeks later the guy tells a friend of mine that he likes me,but now all i can think is that hes just making fun of me and humiliating me

i do think his brother is making fun of me because of my appereance, i just need to debloat and lose weight but i cant, nothing is making me focus on improving myself, i just wanna change evrything about me literally every detail
 
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when school started i saw a really cute guy, i asked for his ig and all that shit, texted and then he ghosted me, a week after someone from his class told me that he and his brother were making fun of me then weeks later the guy tells a friend of mine that he likes me,but now all i can think is that hes just making fun of me and humiliating me

i do think his brother is making fun of me because of my appereance, i just need to debloat and lose weight but i cant, nothing is making me focus on improving myself, i just wanna change evrything about me literally every detail
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don't worry about him love, if he's already disrespected you like that, don't disrespect yourself more by being stuck on him. i personally wouldn't want to be friends let alone romantic with someone that makes fun of me. if you really do want to improve try to make a plan for it instead of just looking at the end goal of what you want.

you can debloat and lose weight even if it takes a little more time, put in the effort that you have to give. even a little bit of progress is better than nothing. there's some easy stuff you can do like just watching the amount of salt you put on/have in your food, going for a small walk after school, or even looking up some videos of simple workouts to do in your room. what do you feel like is stopping you?
 
, i just need to debloat and lose weight but i cant, nothing is making me focus on improving myself, i just wanna change evrything about me literally every detail
i don't understand this juxtaposition
complaining about being treated about being ugly whilst knowing why ur ugly
then proceeding to say u cant focus on improving urself
do u want it or not
 
when school started i saw a really cute guy, i asked for his ig and all that shit, texted and then he ghosted me, a week after someone from his class told me that he and his brother were making fun of me then weeks later the guy tells a friend of mine that he likes me,but now all i can think is that hes just making fun of me and humiliating me

i do think his brother is making fun of me because of my appereance, i just need to debloat and lose weight but i cant, nothing is making me focus on improving myself, i just wanna change evrything about me literally every detail
just look at yourself in the mirror that should be enough motivation
 
don't worry about him love, if he's already disrespected you like that, don't disrespect yourself more by being stuck on him. i personally wouldn't want to be friends let alone romantic with someone that makes fun of me. if you really do want to improve try to make a plan for it instead of just looking at the end goal of what you want.

you can debloat and lose weight even if it takes a little more time, put in the effort that you have to give. even a little bit of progress is better than nothing. there's some easy stuff you can do like just watching the amount of salt you put on/have in your food, going for a small walk after school, or even looking up some videos of simple workouts to do in your room. what do you feel like is stopping you?
thank u cutie

i dont really know whats stopping me, maybe is the lack of motivating or i just dont really believe in me
 
i don't understand this juxtaposition
complaining about being treated about being ugly whilst knowing why ur ugly
then proceeding to say u cant focus on improving urself
do u want it or not
yea i want but i cant and dont know how to do it
 
thank u cutie

i dont really know whats stopping me, maybe is the lack of motivating or i just dont really believe in me
well the only way to gain motivation is to do it even when you don't have the motivation. you'll feel really satisfied after you cross that first hurdle and it only gets easier from there. the only way to know if you can do it is to do it anways
 
do you want advice or are you just venting?
 

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