adaptability is a crazy skill

[32yearoldcel]

just a thing i found out

any advice works not if you go around looking for a perfect solution , but if you try to make any of them work for you

people will dismiss most advice giving an edge case saying it wont work for me , but what actually matters is how you change yourself to make it work for you


example : if someone tells another person to lose fat , there will be an excuse like " im too busy for that" , or "bad metabolism" seeing those as unchangeable facts
meanwhile you can always make up time somehow and you can always increase your metabolism by gaining muscle or eating different kinds of food or taking drugs for it

or when normies say i wont get this girl cause im naturally ugly instead of working on how they look


i want everyone here to remember that looksmaxxing started as a way of adaptability so keep it that way instead of claiming its over for you or saying youre autistic so looks wont help you or saying you wont reach what you want unless you get this 'one' surgery

 

[osteochondromyxoma]

Yes adaptation is just changing your costume, I change my personality, the way I speak, my hobbies , my thoughts, everything basically except me, my body, my skin, meat,etc . If you cant change your costume you wont thrive in multiple societies at once. But if you're talking about looks you cant change them except maybe changing your bf %. You're looks cannot adapt or really change much but the way you act and your fitting in with society can change. Yes it's a lot of work for autists to do this and It's high cortisol but this is the way life is for 99% of men. Adaptation or die, this is entirely how it is in nature but we've still evolved partly in temrs of societies and "laws".

 

[32yearoldcel]

Yes adaptation is just changing your costume, I change my personality, the way I speak, my hobbies , my thoughts, everything basically except me, my body, my skin, meat,etc . If you cant change your costume you wont thrive in multiple societies at once. But if you're talking about looks you cant change them except maybe changing your bf %. You're looks cannot adapt or really change much but the way you act and your fitting in with society can change. Yes it's a lot of work for autists to do this and It's high cortisol but this is the way life is for 99% of men. Adaptation or die, this is entirely how it is in nature but we've still evolved partly in temrs of societies and "laws".

looks def can change , i aint saying everyone can be chadlite

but i think most people can at least be somewhat decent looking and non repulsive

but yk , todays people / generation dont want to adapt

 

[Whitepill]

Nah