And I Quote, @siennavoss: Let me drop what I did here 
make him scared you will leave for yourself, not for another man because thats the ultimate proof that he is a loser 
he will invest in you because when you hate men he knows you wont cheat 
show love but make his presence in your life feel annoying AF like you would rather be single thats why mastering emotions and be stable by yourself is important, yes he has to love you more than you do so choose a man you arent too attracted to and talk a lot about your feelings, thats the secret yall, my man is doing everything cooking cleaning after work providing and im not doing shxt but focusing on my dreams, he protects me and want me to succeed he actually provided hard while I became a nurse. I used to be a pick me doing everything for a man but not anymore lmao I tell him cooking is a survival skill, “what would you do if I wasnt here” ? Dude works 2 jobs with a side hustle makes 300k per year and give me 100k per year so im building my business and investment accounts and he says im his motivation to go to work every morning and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. What helps is showing that im sad complaining about his behavior and my dreams and the money that I need and make him feel inadequate to follow me to the next step of my life. what helps is before him I was already making a lot of money so he has to outclass that or get gone so babe level up first 
Hypergamy exists and it’s all your fault
make him scared you will leave for yourself, not for another man because thats the ultimate proof that he is a loser he will invest in you because when you hate men he knows you wont cheat show love but make his presence in your life feel annoying AF like you would rather be single thats why mastering emotions and be stable by yourself is important, yes he has to love you more than you do so choose a man you arent too attracted to and talk a lot about your feelings, thats the secret yall, my man is doing everything cooking cleaning after work providing and im not doing shxt but focusing on my dreams, he protects me and want me to succeed he actually provided hard while I became a nurse. I used to be a pick me doing everything for a man but not anymore lmao I tell him cooking is a survival skill, “what would you do if I wasnt here” ? Dude works 2 jobs with a side hustle makes 300k per year and give me 100k per year so im building my business and investment accounts and he says im his motivation to go to work every morning and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. What helps is showing that im sad complaining about his behavior and my dreams and the money that I need and make him feel inadequate to follow me to the next step of my life. what helps is before him I was already making a lot of money so he has to outclass that or get gone so babe level up first Hypergamy exists and it’s all your fault
