Are you depressed?

[Incognito]

When I say depressed, I mean a feeling that lingers for at least two days. I don’t mean sad I mean a hopeless feeling.

 

[pompompurino]

most of the time everyday, but i try to keep up my good habits and routine because without them im sure id wanna rope.

 

[Incognito]

most of the time everyday, but i try to keep up my good habits and routine because without them im sure id wanna rope.

Do you know the reason, or is it something you can't quite figure out?

 

[pompompurino]

Do you know the reason, or is it something you can't quite figure out?

i don’t like anything about myself and i feel like a failure, very hard to get up and do things but i do what i must

 

[Incognito]

i don’t like anything about myself and i feel like a failure, very hard to get up and do things but i do what i must

Why do you consider yourself a failure? What does success look like to you?

 

[Incognito]

@Clone brother what happened?

 

[Whitepill]

Every day bro

 

[Clone]

@Clone brother what happened?

Ah its Just life man
No father
No older brother
No friends
Environment
Money
I love my mother to death but she can sometimes treat me like absolute shit

 

[cookie-cel]

I might be sad at times but that’s about it.
Could be cuz umm I am used to my boring ass life.
If somebody else where to live it, they would die from the boredom fr.

 

[cookie-cel]

Every day bro

Why bhai

 

[Incognito]

Every day bro

Why brother,

 

[Incognito]

Ah its Just life man
No father
No older brother
No friends
Environment
Money
I love my mother to death but she can sometimes treat me like absolute shit

You've got us, bro, and as you grow older, you'll have yourself, your mom, and eventually your own family too.

 

[Incognito]

I might be sad at times but that’s about it.
Could be cuz umm I am used to my boring ass life.
If somebody else where to live it, they would die from the boredom fr.

How can you be bored in India?

 

[pompompurino]

Why do you consider yourself a failure? What does success look like to you?

i just find myself comparing myself to others in terms of everything. looks, status, money, etc. my brain just makes endless comparisons.

 

[Clone]

You've got us, bro, and as you grow older, you'll have yourself, your mom, and eventually your own family too.

Appreciate it man more than you know

 

[Whitepill]

Why brother,

It’s Jova until I get lean, and I haven’t been lean since first grade

 

[Whitepill]

Well I’ve been skinny fat at some stages but never really lean tbh

 

[Incognito]

i just find myself comparing myself to others in terms of everything. looks, status, money, etc. my brain just makes endless comparisons.

See your own success, even if it's not obvious. Delete social media and remember, there will always be a bigger fish in the world anyway. Comparison is the thief of joy, and everyone moves at their own pace.

 

[Incognito]

Appreciate it man more than you know

I meant it bro

 

[Incognito]

It’s Jova until I get lean, and I haven’t been lean since first grade

The only way to make this happen is by taking action, not waiting. Download a calorie tracker app, get a food scale, and use an online calorie maintenance calculator to plan your intake. Stick to it for 3 months, and you'll see significant changes, enough to impact your life.

 

[choripan]

Always hopeful about the future but somedays I get down

 

[Incognito]

Always hopeful about the future but somedays I get down

I feel the same way about life. No matter what you do, that feeling can sometimes come out of nowhere, without any clear reason. I think it's just a natural part of life. There's no morning without night. Just aim to be 80% happy, and that’s already a win.

 

[dextermogin]

Delete social media

i wanna do this bc whenever i see anyone that even slightly mogs me i feel like shit but if i delete those apps i will have nothing to do ngl, all i do is rot and my situation rn doesnt help i have way too much free time. i could get a job but my social skills r so shit and i really hate this skinnyfat physique i rarely ever go outside with just a shirt on

 

[Incognito]

i wanna do this bc whenever i see anyone that even slightly mogs me i feel like shit but if i delete those apps i will have nothing to do ngl, all i do is rot and my situation rn doesnt help i have way too much free time. i could get a job but my social skills r so shit and i really hate this skinnyfat physique i rarely ever go outside with just a shirt on

Hop in the gym and you will automatically rot less and use social media. You should not only avoid triggers but also change your mindset. Think about the saying ‘we suffer more in our heads than we do in real life.’ Don’t fear something just do it.

 

[dextermogin]

Hop in the gym and you will automatically rot less and use social media. You should not only avoid triggers but also change your mindset. Think about the saying ‘we suffer more in our heads than we do in real life.’ Don’t fear something just do it.

yeah ive been in the gym for almost 3 weeks now. usually 3 hours cause of the walk to and back from the gym is long asf

 

[N30N]

Occasionally. I have fallen into depressive states, especially last winter, where all I did was gymcel, lurk on forums, watch bp videos, was full of rage, and rot. I often don't feel like enough, I hate the fact that I'm unattractive to girls, and genetically look angry all the time with my resting face. To this day, there are times where I will be rather depressed for many days at a time, but I have found that trying to get closer to God has helped me feel better. It really hurts me knowing that I wasted so much time, I'm not enough, all girls in my school hate me, and that it was over before it ever began. Me and a friend were heavily blackpilled and depressed at a point, and we would vent to each other on the daily. It's just hard to cope, but I have trust in God; maybe not enough.

 

[Whitepill]

The only way to make this happen is by taking action, not waiting. Download a calorie tracker app, get a food scale, and use an online calorie maintenance calculator to plan your intake. Stick to it for 3 months, and you'll see significant changes, enough to impact your life.

Also trying to catch up with school after not wanting to do it due to depression is suifuel

 

[Incognito]

Occasionally. I have fallen into depressive states, especially last winter, where all I did was gymcel, lurk on forums, watch bp videos, was full of rage, and rot. I often don't feel like enough, I hate the fact that I'm unattractive to girls, and genetically look angry all the time with my resting face. To this day, there are times where I will be rather depressed for many days at a time, but I have found that trying to get closer to God has helped me feel better. It really hurts me knowing that I wasted so much time, I'm not enough, all girls in my school hate me, and that it was over before it ever began. Me and a friend were heavily blackpilled and depressed at a point, and we would vent to each other on the daily. It's just hard to cope, but I have trust in God; maybe not enough.

Stay on the path of god. Stay away from the blackpill, it’s poison and flawed reasoning.

 

[Incognito]

Also trying to catch up with school after not wanting to do it due to depression is suifuel

Extra bagage to carry after a hard period. Maybe talk to school councillors could get you exempt from some if it’s really a lot.

 

[Whitepill]

Extra bagage to carry after a hard period. Maybe talk to school councillors could get you exempt from some if it’s really a lot.

Imma just try to grind it all out tonight, I can't keep having work hang over me

 

[N30N]

Stay on the path of god. Stay away from the blackpill, it’s poison and flawed reasoning.

I get what you're trying to say, but once you take the blackpill, there is no unseeing it. Everywhere I go, I get constant reminders, and it's ingrained into my mind, I can't forget it. Also, although it may not be the total 100% truth, it is correct in nearly all cases, and was really a wake up call; the blackpill is simply the understanding of human nature.

 

[N30N]

I'm grateful for my friends, family, and God. Without them I would've roped tbh.

 

[Incognito]

I get what you're trying to say, but once you take the blackpill, there is no unseeing it. Everywhere I go, I get constant reminders, and it's ingrained into my mind, I can't forget it. Also, although it may not be the total 100% truth, it is correct in nearly all cases, and was really a wake up call; the blackpill is simply the understanding of human nature.

I have to disagree with it being correct in almost all cases. The only thing I agree with is that it’s true for hookups and flings. But when it comes to meaningful relationships, it’s not. Looks are definitely important, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. But are they the most important? That’s the real question, and I would say no. How you carry yourself is just as important, if not more, for relationships.

The only way to detox from this mindset is to debunk it, but it will be hard if you keep believing it’s the truth, because you can’t escape from what you think is true.

 

[Incognito]

Imma just try to grind it all out tonight, I can't keep having work hang over me

Good luck bro.

 

[N30N]

I have to disagree with it being correct in almost all cases. The only thing I agree with is that it’s true for hookups and flings. But when it comes to meaningful relationships, it’s not. Looks are definitely important, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. But are they the most important? That’s the real question, and I would say no. How you carry yourself is just as important, if not more, for relationships.

The only way to detox from this mindset is to debunk it, but it will be hard if you keep believing it’s the truth, because you can’t escape from what you think is true.

How I carry myself would matter more if a girl would talk to me without being turned off in 2 seconds.

 

[Incognito]

How I carry myself would matter more if a girl would talk to me without being turned off in 2 seconds.

Are you below mtn?

 

[N30N]

Are you below mtn?

I'm around mid mtn imo. Based off many other people's ratings.

 

[N30N]

I'm around mid mtn imo. Based off many other people's ratings.

But lowtrustfeaturecel so it's over.

 

[Incognito]

I'm around mid mtn imo. Based off many other people's ratings.

In that case, it’s not about your looks, unless you have an extremely untrustworthy face, in which case you’ll need to approach things differently. This brings us back to how you carry yourself.

 

[n9wiff]

I have maladaptive daydreams it's impossible for me to stay stressed for more than an hour

 

[Incognito]

I have maladaptive daydreams it's impossible for me to stay stressed for more than an hour

What do you fantasise about?

 

[N30N]

In that case, it’s not about your looks, unless you have an extremely untrustworthy face, in which case you’ll need to approach things differently. This brings us back to how you carry yourself.

How's this? Without revealing my face, this is more or less how I look. Polish Slavic pheno, with downturned lips, and positively tilted eyebrows. Pretty untrustworthy.

 

[n9wiff]

What do you fantasise about?

I mostly fantasize about some situation I was in before but the different outcomes it could have had

Or I just simulate conversations with interesting people.

Typically happens if I spend about 5 mins or more doing nothing

 

[N30N]

I mostly fantasize about some situation I was in before but the different outcomes it could have had

Or I just simulate conversations with interesting people.

Typically happens if I spend about 5 mins or more doing nothing

Interesting.

 

[pompompurino]

I'm around mid mtn imo. Based off many other people's ratings.

i’d like to see what you look like

 

[pompompurino]

How's this? Without revealing my face, this is more or less how I look. Polish Slavic pheno, with downturned lips, and positively tilted eyebrows. Pretty untrustworthy.

the downturned lips are better untrustworthy, but the picture looks like it’s being exaggerated. are they actually THAT downturned?

 

[N30N]

i’d like to see what you look like

Idk, I might reveal. Most likely only in pms tbh.

 

[N30N]

the downturned lips are better untrustworthy, but the picture looks like it’s being exaggerated. are they actually THAT downturned?

Pretty damn close.

 

[pompompurino]

Idk, I might reveal. Most likely only in pms tbh.

reveal when you’d like, i feel like you’re exaggerating

 

[N30N]

i’d like to see what you look like

I've been told my eyes are scary.