no tbf there are a lot of non self-hating asian women, there is just more than other ethnicities yk, maybe only latina comes close. i would say with asian women it's like 60/40 normie-weird ratio which is like 10x black/white women, it doesn't help when on social media if i click on arbitrary asian girl there's a good chance it's about her wishing she was white...
Also you know Mitski, I just realized all her music was about not being a white woman; thus, not being the ideal partner for a white guy