Serious At What Point Are Standards Too High

[Jeezy]

Is it not too high of standards if you are dropping super below your looksmatch? Not talking ltr btw

 

[Blackpillirony]

Standards are too high when it's when way over a tier higher than your own PSL

 

[BigDihDiddy]

foids are on the tipping point of actually settling for nothing other than superman himself from another planet and with superpowers

 

[Deleted Member 82545]

if you have a list then it's too high

 

[kifykify]

if you have a list then it's too high

 

[Jeezy]

Standards are too high when it's when way over a tier higher than your own PSL

what if it’s like 3+ tiers BELOW your own?

 

[Blackpillirony]

what if it’s like 3+ tiers BELOW your own?

Well that means your standards are low but if the other person has a great personality and y'all are compatible it's good too

 

[Jeezy]

Well that means your standards are low but if the other person has a great personality and y'all are compatible it's good too

what if this isn’t for ltr like i said in post?

 

[jkcwakcjw]

what if it’s like 3+ tiers BELOW your own?

a ltb thinking she can date a cl would be crazy
i dont think there is a world that would happen

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Feelings happen randomly.
Having standards in general is weird asf and in the relationship you label things with such standards (you don't label in relationships.) One day they will change and you might get tired since it's not up to date with your selfish standards.

 

[Jeezy]

a ltb thinking she can date a cl would be crazy
i dont think there is a world that would happen

i guess my question is would you smash a bigger woman if it was a one time thing?

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

Haven't blatent standards isn't worth it. You'll be looking for your Rapunzel for an eternity.
If she's attractive, she's attractive. Don't base your dating life off 7 or above.

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Haven't blatent standards isn't worth it. You'll be looking for your Rapunzel for an eternity.
If she's attractive, she's attractive. Don't base your dating life off 7 or above.

It's also the fact people solely focus on pure looks and i know it's BP but if you are going into an LTR rapunzel might be a bitch and most would stay because they are only there for said looks.
Pretty sad shit.

 

[jkcwakcjw]

i guess my question is would you smash a bigger woman if it was a one time thing?

im still in hs and in hs u could get ur looksmatch if ur willing to put in effort
but if im putting myself in the shoes of a bigger woman that would def inflate my ego

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

It's also the fact people solely focus on pure looks and i know it's BP but if you are going into an LTR rapunzel might be a bitch and most would stay because they are only there for said looks.
Pretty sad shit.

BP was constructed by incels who's only means of picking up chicks was dating apps.
Dating apps are, of course, very looks-biased. Real life isn't entirely like that.
Yes, looks matter (we've known for millenias), but personality is the determining factor in a successful relationship.

Autists will try to improve their looks, as it's easier than improving their mind.

 

[Blackpillirony]

what if this isn’t for ltr like i said in post?

Idk I am not an expert on relationships I've never been in one

 

[Blackpillirony]

BP was constructed by incels who's only means of picking up chicks was dating apps.
Dating apps are, of course, very looks-biased. Real life isn't entirely like that.
Yes, looks matter (we've known for millenias), but personality is the determining factor in a successful relationship.

Autists will try to improve their looks, as it's easier than improving their mind.

I kinda disagree, some people with great personalities will never get a look from those from the opposite gender because of their looks. It starts with looks but stays with personality.

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

It starts with looks but stays with personality.

Very true, my point was more-so that autists believed that improving their looks will improve their relationships entirely.
They completely disregard that women aren't engineered solely to go for looks.

 

[Blackpillirony]

Very true, my point was more-so that autists believed that improving their looks will improve their relationships entirely.
They completely disregard that women aren't engineered solely to go for looks.

Brutal personality pill. I agree, NDcels will think looks = dateability when they can't get out of their misogynistic perspective.

 

[apatheia]

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BP was constructed by incels who's only means of picking up chicks was dating apps.
Dating apps are, of course, very looks-biased. Real life isn't entirely like that.
Yes, looks matter (we've known for millenias), but personality is the determining factor in a successful relationship.

Autists will try to improve their looks, as it's easier than improving their mind.

Brutal personality pill. I agree, NDcels will think looks = dateability when they can't get out of their misogynistic perspective.

It is reflected in evolutionary psychology studies too, in speed-dating situations, it is very looks-biased, in real life scenarios, like say, college: It is much more nuanced, although it tends to be relatively assortative. That is why dating apps do not prove the blackpill in real life. Majority of people genuinely just have to "muh go outside" and garner social skills.

If you look into evolutionary psychology regarding attraction for a good minute, you start to understand that the "significant correlation" blackpillers state something has, has no better probability in real life than a simple coin flip, and exaggerated blackpill theories start being quickly shut down. Attraction is extremely multi-faceted. I know this is probably common sense to you but people in here cannot wrap their heads around the fact that there is no clear rule set on attraction, only things that will increase probabilities of attraction. (Albeit, some more than others, like extraversion) That is why no one pill is going to be correct all the time.

Despite what I said, even pro-social skills like extraversion has a much larger correlation and probability with the number of sex partners someone has had than height or looks.

I can send my sources if you would like.

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That is why you can end up with things like:

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https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/thre...zation-of-nuancepills-research-article.71678/

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

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It is reflected in evolutionary psychology studies too, in speed-dating situations, it is very looks-biased, in real life scenarios, like say, college: It is much more nuanced, although it tends to be relatively assortative. That is why dating apps do not prove the blackpill in real life. Majority of people genuinely just have to "muh go outside" and garner social skills.

If you look into evolutionary psychology regarding attraction for a good minute, you start to understand that the "significant correlation" blackpillers state something has, has no better probability in real life than a simple coin flip, and exaggerated blackpill theories start being quickly shut down. Attraction is extremely multi-faceted. I know this is probably common sense to you but people in here cannot wrap their heads around the fact that there is no clear rule set on attraction, only things that will increase probabilities of attraction. (Albeit, some more than others, like extraversion) That is why no one pill is going to be correct all the time.

Despite what I said, even pro-social skills like extraversion has a much larger correlation and probability with the number of sex partners someone has had than height or looks.

I can send my sources if you would like.

Spoiler: Images

Spoiler: Some pictures from sources

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That is why you can end up with things like:

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https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/thre...zation-of-nuancepills-research-article.71678/

Absolutely. Good point on how attraction is very multi-faceted and is different for each person.
Anyone who's love is soley based on appearance is filled with vain and emptiness.