avoidant attachment nowadays

[angelsvoid]

having a partner with avoidant attachment is fucking hell

why are you distancing and pulling yourself away from the person you love fucking r****d

 

[pauseboicarti]

 

[TFC]

Explain it to me, I’m at a point of my life we’re I need an explanation of it.

 

[angelsvoid]

ofc i wouldn’t

 

[angelsvoid]

Explain it to me, I’m at a point of my life we’re I need an explanation of it.

bump

 

[Recai]

aka attention whore

 

[pauseboicarti]

Explain it to me, I’m at a point of my life we’re I need an explanation of it.

intimacy and closeness with other feels cringe af to me, when someone likes me I feel like eventually they will grow to dislike me so to protect my future self I make sure to sabotage instead of building a closer rapport with them

 

[angelsvoid]

aka attention whore

xd fr

 

[angelsvoid]

intimacy and closeness with other feels cringe af to me, when someone likes me I feel like eventually they will grow to dislike me so to protect my future self I make sure to sabotage instead of building a closer rapport with them

what if u like them aswell?

 

[Perceval]

avoidant not real theyre just ugly

 

[pauseboicarti]

what if u like them aswell?

yea thats what this is about people that I like who also like me back, I wouldnt care about dissappointing someone that I dont like

 

[TFC]

intimacy and closeness with other feels cringe af to me, when someone likes me I feel like eventually they will grow to dislike me so to protect my future self I make sure to sabotage instead of building a closer rapport with them

Does this come across as flaky behavior or does it affect how you actually spend time with the person. Like if you were directly talking with them would you still be avoidant? Would you be avoidant when online/texting like long delay responses? Would you show up to invited events? Like where is the avoident part and where is the attachment part

 

[angelsvoid]

yea thats what this is about people that I like who also like me back, I wouldnt care about dissappointing someone that I dont like

but some avoidants push their partner away why is that

 

[Aryy]

having a partner with avoidant attachment is fucking hell

why are you distancing and pulling yourself away from the person you love fucking r****d

They just dont like you

 

[angelsvoid]

They just dont like you

they do cuz they come back

 

[Aryy]

they do cuz they come back

they dont like you enough

 

[angelsvoid]

they dont like you enough

hello??? they come back ??