awkwardness

[Deleted Member 101164]

I feel so awkward when talking to people and just really scared. I get nervous sitting by someone, I hate having to choose a partner in class because I just stutter the whole time when talking to someone, can someone give me advice?

 

[Night]

Just be confident bro.

 

[candycaro]

You’ll grow out of it. Just keep trying to surpass yourself. It takes time.

 

[jkcwakcjw]

if u were a kid and used to be good at conversating naturally, i would just say stop getting in the way of yourself
u might be overthinking

 

[Deleted Member 101164]

Just be confident bro.

i try im just scared if i become overly comfortable and confident that people will judge me

 

[Deleted Member 101164]

if u were a kid and used to be good at conversating naturally, i would just say stop getting in the way of yourself
u might be overthinking

ive been like this since 7 years old

 

[jkcwakcjw]

ive been like this since 7 years old

where does it come from? if it comes from screwing up a bunch of times u should think abt what would happen if u weren't scared and overthinking. i don't know ur experiences so i dont know where ur fears come from, but from my personal experience when I let fear run my conversation it makes talking awkward and my mind physically slow.

 

[Deleted Member 101164]

where does it come from? if it comes from screwing up a bunch of times u should think abt what would happen if u weren't scared and overthinking. i don't know ur experiences so i dont know where ur fears come from, but from my personal experience when I let fear run my conversation it makes talking awkward and my mind physically slow.

it just was like sudden i was told

 

[xXmoggerXx]

I feel so awkward when talking to people and just really scared. I get nervous sitting by someone, I hate having to choose a partner in class because I just stutter the whole time when talking to someone, can someone give me advice?

try showing them your cock as a symbol of openness. a lot of my conversations with girls are easy because i just hold them down and r*pe them so the talking stage doesnt really matter

 

[Xx_deathly_foid_xX]

confidence plays a huge role in this but obviously its hard to raise it
-instead of being the person who waits for someone to come up to u be the person who comes up to them
-i started doing that and ive made 1 more friend this year.
- as long as uve had a good reputation theres no reason to be nervous around anyone. being a "nobody" = no drama, and usually no opinions on u, which made me feel better and a bit more confident in a way that i know nobody really "has" anything on me or about me. so it made me easier to come up to people.
- also ive started trying a bit more, just stiting up straight or having ur head up already gives the appeal that u r confident even when ur not
- one thing i did to make myself less awkward or "train myself" is to ask my deskmate any question even when i know the answer during an assignment.
honestly idk not the best advice but i hope this helps or something