Serious Basicallly zero social skills

[iletheile]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

 

[Blackpillirony]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

How to get better at socializing https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/how-to-get-better-at-socializing.104595/

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

sub5 + quiet = weird lonely ass loser
chad + quiet = mysterious fantasy
sucks to be you brotato, you can always jester

 

[iletheile]

How to get better at socializing https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/how-to-get-better-at-socializing.104595/

Tyty!

 

[Vampi]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

Was like you twin, try to talk to people which are like you

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Was like you twin, try to talk to people which are like you

try to talk to people who cant talk to people as a person who cant talk to people.
great advice brotato

 

[Vampi]

try to talk to people who cant talk to people as a person who cant talk to people.
great advice brotato

just do stuff with them, they wont judge, i learned how to do the basics trough genshin impact ao3s

 

[collagen]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

start screaming in public

 

[moonlight1]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

relate, when I was 14 I was extremely lonely

 

[iletheile]

relate, when I was 14 I was extremely lonely

What did you do to stop being lonely

 

[iletheile]

start screaming in public

You know what I actually should do that I see people doing that but problem is they're not sub 5

 

[idkwhatodo]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

well idk nuerodivergency is usually genetic or influenced by your enviorment idk what advice to give since i never had problems socializing anyway hope the best for u

 

[moonlight1]

What did you do to stop being lonely

i’m 15 and my social life is still below average tbh, but what helped is moving schools + therapy, now atleast I have a few friends and I don’t sit alone in school anymkre

 

[iletheile]

i’m 15 and my social life is still below average tbh, but what helped is moving schools + therapy, now atleast I have a few friends and I don’t sit alone in school anymkre

Oohhhh I really want to move school but my mum won't let me and my therapist wanted to put me in a psych ward maybe I'll talk to people from other classes (?)

 

[iletheile]

well idk nuerodivergency is usually genetic or influenced by your enviorment idk what advice to give since i never had problems socializing anyway hope the best for u

Yeah im neurodivergegtsn but I might just take the scream in public advice atp

 

[collagen]

Yeah im neurodivergegtsn but I might just take the scream in public advice atp

i started doing it and became low inhib

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

As someone who studies psychology and has looked into the topic extensively in my free time, I can tell u that people like people who are familiar to them in looks, mannerisms. Ask urself what sort of group/people do u want to be accepted by, look at the way they move and act and the things that they talk about and mirror it. Don't outright copy bcs that puts people off but mirror it whilst adding ur own sort of signature yk, add some flare that makes u distinguishable and interesting. (I used to be exactly like u, I never spoke to anyone at all etc and now I'm friends w everyone in my year so trust me I been there, done that)

 

[Chainsaw Man]

Pregab+baclofen

 

[collagen]

Pregab+baclofen

gay + dangerous no

 

[Chainsaw Man]

gay + dangerous no

Its not dangerous if you have self control and aren't a 10iq normie

 

[Ben07]

Okay so im 14

stopped reading here

Just grow up, act normal and dont shut down when people try to talk with you and ull eventually get friends.

 

[betteroff4]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

we're the same person

 

[SunshineNrainbowz]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

14? Brutal

 

[iletheile]

stopped reading here

Just grow up, act normal and dont shut down when people try to talk with you and ull eventually get friends.

I mean like it's just i also have a hard time keeping a conversation and I just get awkward and say whatever

 

[collagen]

I mean like it's just i also have a hard time keeping a conversation and I just get awkward and say whatever

Don't take people seriously

 

[Hyaluronic]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

I want to say a few mean things but you’re 14 so Ill keep my mouth shut

 

[iletheile]

I want to say a few mean things but you’re 14 so Ill keep my mouth shut

No you can tell me anything I want I'm open to every opinion

 

[Hyaluronic]

No you can tell me anything I want I'm open to every opinion

Im just joking around g. The way you wrote this post just sounded so innocent and my natural hunter instincts spotted a prey in the wild but my big heart did not allow me to harm a child

 

[iletheile]

Im just joking around g. The way you wrote this post just sounded so innocent and my natural hunter instincts spotted a prey in the wild but my big heart did not allow me to harm a child

STOPP GIGLS

 

[Hyaluronic]

You know what I actually should do that I see people doing that but problem is they're not sub 5

Show your face

 

[Hyaluronic]

Okay so im 14 and like, honestly i can never start a conversation cause im too awkward and nothing really comes to mind like , even when i speak i get told im too loud or too quiet and i overshare a lot... It might just be i cant get really confident with people?? And with some friends i have i and really really open but its just i overshared so much i dont even really care what i tell them, plus like i feel really really embarassed when i have to vn get seen by people cause i genuenly see myself as a subhuman tard and if i try to speak theyll jump me, plus most people they dont even know me and they judge me cause theyre friend doesnt like me.. i dont want to spend all my years being stupid and quiet

We tg in this twin. I just learned to not care about what others think and live my life for myself

 

[Hyaluronic]

As someone who studies psychology and has looked into the topic extensively in my free time, I can tell u that people like people who are familiar to them in looks, mannerisms. Ask urself what sort of group/people do u want to be accepted by, look at the way they move and act and the things that they talk about and mirror it. Don't outright copy bcs that puts people off but mirror it whilst adding ur own sort of signature yk, add some flare that makes u distinguishable and interesting. (I used to be exactly like u, I never spoke to anyone at all etc and now I'm friends w everyone in my year so trust me I been there, done that)

Good advice here aswell

 

[ecoli]

I mean like it's just i also have a hard time keeping a conversation and I just get awkward and say whatever

same for me like i can speak to people normally but like after talking to someone for some minutes i got nothing to say and it's always this awkward silence

 

[Darkeningstar]

Do theatre

 

[Starlet]

I used to be really shy too but realizing that you have just as much right to be there or do anything as anyone else helped me. In texts you can literally just say whatever random bullshit you did that day or thought and in person since you’re in school you can usually just talk about whatever is going on there and ask them questions and listen a lot and then occasionally bring up your own personal experience that’s related to whatever they said and then more questions can come from that and then boom conversation. Like don’t answer just yes or no start saying details. If you’ve just met the person don’t start shit talking yourself or trauma dumping or you will look like a loser. And if a conversation is not 50/50 or 60/40 then stop talking.

 

[Starlet]

And also I used to just watch people a lot and observe until I noticed someone I liked and thought I could get along with and just try to befriend them and that usually worked well for me but I’m good at reading people you might be autistic idk

 

[iletheile]

And also I used to just watch people a lot and observe until I noticed someone I liked and thought I could get along with and just try to befriend them and that usually worked well for me but I’m good at reading people you might be autistic idk

I mean now I am definitely better than before at reading people but I'm still horrible..and I am autistic

 

[Hyaluronic]

I mean now I am definitely better than before at reading people but I'm still horrible..and I am autistic

Find yourself a cute autistic boy and marry him. There is a good few on this forum for sure