can anyone explain logically why my oneitis isnt responding to me?

[ratedLTN2]

She said in the past she was depressed, feeling suicidal. But she said she was better now. She came up to me about 2 weeks ago and said she considers me one of her actual friends, and invited me out to see a movie at her house with a few other people. She messaged me over christmas referencing an inside joke and hoping I had a good one.

Why is it that this person who I thought was nice isn't being nice? No muh chad is fucking her bullshit. Grow up. Any possible answers? We were discussing a subordinate of hers so maybe that's why. She feels bad shit talking someone as a boss. But she already did shit talk him.

 

[Kaari]

She said in the past she was depressed, feeling suicidal. But she said she was better now. She came up to me about 2 weeks ago and said she considers me one of her actual friends, and invited me out to see a movie at her house with a few other people. She messaged me over christmas referencing an inside joke and hoping I had a good one.

Why is it that this person who I thought was nice isn't being nice? No muh chad is fucking her bullshit. Grow up. Any possible answers? We were discussing a subordinate of hers so maybe that's why. She feels bad shit talking someone as a boss. But she already did shit talk him.

She never loved you, I’m sorry.

 

[ratedLTN2]

She never loved you, I’m sorry.

whats it got to do with love.

 

[Schizotypalcel]

i couldnt tell you, i can't even text my oneitis.

 

[Kaari]

whats it got to do with love.

Sorry, I didn’t read the whole thing. To be blunt, I don’t think she values you all too highly, at least judging from my experiences to yours. You can do everything right, but in the end, they just don’t care. People really suck.

 

[ratedLTN2]

Sorry, I didn’t read the whole thing. To be blunt, I don’t think she values you all too highly, at least judging from my experiences to yours. You can do everything right, but in the end, they just don’t care. People really suck.

you could be right. Or it could be the case she is going through something herself. Maybe she just isn't who I thought she was ig.

 

[Kaari]

you could be right. Or it could be the case she is going through something herself. Maybe she just isn't who I thought she was ig.

As men we tend to have idealised thoughts of people, in particular with women. We think too highly of them, put them on a pedestal, think they’re perfect, only to realise she’s flawed like everyone else. I think your starting to see that now.

 

[ratedLTN2]

As men we tend to have idealised thoughts of people, in particular with women. We think too highly of them, put them on a pedestal, think they’re perfect, only to realise she’s flawed like everyone else. I think your starting to see that now.

I think I am. It's enough to drive a young man crazy. Probably why I sperged out and starting showing a bunch of people my fat face. Just gotta focus on losing weight and hoping I get hollows. Or better yet realising there is more to life than looks, more than girls.

 

[Kaari]

I think I am. It's enough to drive a young man crazy. Probably why I sperged out and starting showing a bunch of people my fat face. Just gotta focus on losing weight and hoping I get hollows. Or better yet realising there is more to life than looks, more than girls.

Exactly right. It’s either letting nihilism get on top of you, leading to a slow painful physical, mental, and spiritual death, or you can try to find alternative avenues of happiness. There is still joy to be found without women in your life, you just have to look for it in alternative places, of course I know easier said than done but it is possible. There’s no such thing as unconditional love, remember that.

 

[ratedLTN2]

screenshotting this high IQ philsophical discussion

 

[Kaari]

screenshotting this high IQ philsophical discussion

By all means.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

She said in the past she was depressed, feeling suicidal. But she said she was better now. She came up to me about 2 weeks ago and said she considers me one of her actual friends, and invited me out to see a movie at her house with a few other people. She messaged me over christmas referencing an inside joke and hoping I had a good one.

Why is it that this person who I thought was nice isn't being nice? No muh chad is fucking her bullshit. Grow up. Any possible answers? We were discussing a subordinate of hers so maybe that's why. She feels bad shit talking someone as a boss. But she already did shit talk him.

Unfortunately some women just flirt & are friendly just to keep you around, but nothing more. She hasn't a raw physical & sexual desire for you, and you'll be aware of it if she was 100% into you...

If you start questionning her intentions there are no intentions
Move on and don't fall in the trap again when she'll gives a crumb of attention

No muh chad is fucking her bullshit. Grow up

Can be a gymmaxxed high NT LTN nowadays tbf

 

[ratedLTN2]

Unfortunately some women just flirt & are friendly just to keep you around, but nothing more. She hasn't a raw physical & sexual desire for you, and you'll be aware of it if she was 100% into you...

If you start questionning her intentions there are no intentions
Move on and don't fall in the trap again when she'll gives a crumb of attention


Can be a gymmaxxed high NT LTN nowadays tbf

you and my mum were right, well done. These "bipolar" girls aren't worth it, saying they're suicidal to one of their employees, these are fucking warning signs, anyone who's depressed or manic and clearly not normal shouldn't be engaged with or sought after.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

you and my mum were right, well done. These "bipolar" girls aren't worth it, saying they're suicidal to one of their employees, these are fucking warning signs, anyone who's depressed or manic and clearly not normal shouldn't be engaged with or sought after.

It was a red flag for BPD issues
So now your fault if you end-up in her trap again
There is more in life than unstable pussy

 

[n9wiff]

You value her attention much more than she values yours.

And you assume that she values you attention to a level that is comparable to yours, when it is not the case.

Seen this IRL too many times

 

[neymar]

Because she doesn’t feel like texting you. Happens to chads and incels no matter who u are

 

[ratedLTN2]

She responded