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a topic usually unspoken of and overlooked is how to carry elegance and bring even more attractiveness and charm to yourself. Looks are undeniably important, they make up 70% of your being as a whole, but the other 30% is style, personality, and elegance. as a woman you want to reach the highest value possible meaning Respect Yourself. nothing wrong with being a bit cheeky at times and being in touch with your sexuality but avoid sleeping around with numerous unknown men. not only does this make you appear easy and less appealing it completely brings down your self respect and values towards yourself.
1. respect yourself and view your body as a sacred temple that not just anybody can access. become untouchable and unattainable, the girl who everyone desires but cannot have by any means.
speak in a soft tone with eloquent articulation. carry your words with meaning, study, read, and write to practice. when a woman talks with extreme articulation it immediately advances her and makes her seem intelligent and more interesting. dont restrict yourself either of course as nobody likes a shallow person with no sense of humor. talk all you want to your friends while still maintaining mysterious and intriguing to others.
2. when speaking to teachers, adults, love interests, or even when making an impression to a new acquaintance hold eye contact, maintain straight and strong posture, articulate your thoughts in a both friendly and eloquent manner. this easily draws anybody in.
3. study etiquette. now this may seem a bit meaningless but it can come in quite helpful when trying to impress, draw attention, or just in simple conversations or dates. learn about body language and speaking with your hands as well. i myself used to be quite unmannered and i found that it almost aways made me seem rude and uninteresting when making connections or speaking to adults.
4. style yourself in a way that stands out. french twists, messy but chic buns, big and voluminous blowouts, anything of the sort. perhaps even slick straight hair. dont be afraid to use patterns or unusual blouses or skirts. find a niche and stick to it. dont be afraid to experiment, not every fashion icon knew their style immediately nor did any purse or clothing articule have a first successful attempt. Its all in the timing!!
i hope this post doesn’t come off as sexist or rude, i just think this area of “looksmaxxing” isnt talked about as much as it should be. while looks make up a person personality and such make up the rest.
1. respect yourself and view your body as a sacred temple that not just anybody can access. become untouchable and unattainable, the girl who everyone desires but cannot have by any means.
speak in a soft tone with eloquent articulation. carry your words with meaning, study, read, and write to practice. when a woman talks with extreme articulation it immediately advances her and makes her seem intelligent and more interesting. dont restrict yourself either of course as nobody likes a shallow person with no sense of humor. talk all you want to your friends while still maintaining mysterious and intriguing to others.
2. when speaking to teachers, adults, love interests, or even when making an impression to a new acquaintance hold eye contact, maintain straight and strong posture, articulate your thoughts in a both friendly and eloquent manner. this easily draws anybody in.
3. study etiquette. now this may seem a bit meaningless but it can come in quite helpful when trying to impress, draw attention, or just in simple conversations or dates. learn about body language and speaking with your hands as well. i myself used to be quite unmannered and i found that it almost aways made me seem rude and uninteresting when making connections or speaking to adults.
4. style yourself in a way that stands out. french twists, messy but chic buns, big and voluminous blowouts, anything of the sort. perhaps even slick straight hair. dont be afraid to use patterns or unusual blouses or skirts. find a niche and stick to it. dont be afraid to experiment, not every fashion icon knew their style immediately nor did any purse or clothing articule have a first successful attempt. Its all in the timing!!
i hope this post doesn’t come off as sexist or rude, i just think this area of “looksmaxxing” isnt talked about as much as it should be. while looks make up a person personality and such make up the rest.
