Dating as an autistic woman

[Stardust_]

I’d say .is is even worse in terms of toxicity. I actually have had an account over at .is since 2017 but I don’t really like using that forum, mainly because of how toxic the users are. I’m active mostly on .org and on here. For example, at .is I recall there was a user who was extremely depressed because he lost his little sister (who was an actual prepubescent child) and people were saying such nasty stuff about how she deserved it because she’s female, and others even sexualizing her. It was too much even for that guy, because he quit using that forum afterward. He was also very suicidal so who knows. I hope he’s still alive though. Fuck .is.

That’s actually disgraceful, I hope he was able to get mental health support and come out of that place. Nobody is an incel by choice because they have gone down the wrong path

 

[Stardust_]

I don’t think you should delete, maybe just engage in threads that aren’t toxic or engage with non-toxic users. I admit it’s definitely more toxic on here than I’d like it to be, but I’d say I prefer .com over .org because it’s less toxic.

I’m not sure. I’ll probably decide soon. I do think some posts on here are funny but some are dangerous

 

[Stardust_]

It will make you more nt so why not

I am NT at work

 

[Darkeningstar]

fogger

 

[Stardust_]

fogger

Wth does that mean

 

[Darkeningstar]

Wth does that mean

I like nd people

 

[Stardust_]

I like nd people

Yeah some are actually great to talk to

 

[Darkeningstar]

Yeah some are actually great to talk to

I’m one of them

 

[Stardust_]

I’m one of them

Most people are ND on this site because they have similar experiences in dating lol

 

[Darkeningstar]

Most people are ND on this site because they have similar experiences in dating lol

I struggle to maintain relationships, not to attract griiils

 

[Stardust_]

I struggle to maintain relationships, not to attract griiils

I think that’s also my issue. I sometimes get 100+ likes on apps but as soon as guys talk to me…? I have only gotten past the second date twice