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[Deleted Member 66953]

Every time I open my tiktok it’s either blackpill edits or the absolute horrors of couples being happy together.

Absolutely brutal and never fails to ruin my mood.

Is it actually over bro do I NT max or just end it

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

It's more than just looks. The BP makes things seem worse than they are

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

never be jealous of a couple

 

[Penalizer69]

It's just tiktok most of what's going on behind the scenes doesn't match up. You're a pretty girl, you're sweet and ur funny anyone would be lucky to have you. Shit will work out in it's own time for now focus on improving ur self-esteem

 

[pompompurino]

i promise you, you are so beautiful and you’ll find love. the issue is the way you compare yourself and your life with other people’s, appreciate yourself. you’re great.

 

[swanneo]

same tiktok makes me want to rope specially now during exam season when i look like shit BUT as i said before, u dont really have to fall for BP like u have many many chances IRL genuinely so pls don't worry.

 

[Sisiutl]

never be jealous of a couple

Easier said than done

 

[swanneo]

and also being on a couple is not great unless it's someone u really love and click with. sometimes it can feel more like a burden than something u enjoy. it's the type of stuff that will come when it comes, just keep being ur lovely self and im telling U thinks will work out 4 u

 

[Deleted Member 66953]

It's more than just looks. The BP makes things seem worse than they are

I’m hoping it’s that- just those skinny fashion mofos always have a beautiful girl and it never fails to upset me. There’s a lot more to it but on the surface it’s screaming if you don’t look attractive you should give up

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

Easier said than done

i dont know. i have trouble with thinking that all relationships i see will end anyways

none of it is true. youre feeding the part of your brain that’s already hurting. it is fine to realize you want things others have, such as a relationship, but dont wallow in it. im not saying this to look down upon anybody, but to help. everything comes and goes, and im sure a time will come where you will have those things

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

Jealousy is pointless but i do suffer from it myself. It poisons your mind before anything even happens. It makes you assume the fucked up reality of the worst outcome, kills chances before they start, and sabotages what could be great. You downplay you, yourself. Overthink every move, and end up walking down a road of proving your own fears correct. That's not the brutal reality we are in, it's self destruction dressed as a fucked self awareness compass.

 

[pompompurino]

Jealousy is pointless but i do suffer from it myself. It poisons your mind before anything even happens. It makes you assume the fucked up reality of the worst outcome, kills chances before they start, and sabotages what could be great. You downplay you, yourself. Overthink every move, and end up walking down a road of proving your own fears correct. That's not the brutal reality we are in, it's self destruction dressed as a fucked self awareness compass.

you have no idea how hard this hit me man

 

[Sisiutl]

i dont know. i have trouble with thinking that all relationships i see will end anyways

none of it is true. youre feeding the part of your brain that’s already hurting. it is fine to realize you want things others have, such as a relationship, but dont wallow in it. im not saying this to look down upon anybody, but to help. everything comes and goes, and im sure a time will come where you will have those things

I think it’s natural to feel jealous for things you have yet to experience that others have, and I never said it’s good to wallow in your jealousy

I’m sure you feel jealous about many other things, if not relationships

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

you have no idea how hard this hit me man

Hope whatever made these words stand out gets better.

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

Jealousy is pointless but i do suffer from it myself. It poisons your mind before anything even happens. It makes you assume the fucked up reality of the worst outcome, kills chances before they start, and sabotages what could be great. You downplay you, yourself. Overthink every move, and end up walking down a road of proving your own fears correct. That's not the brutal reality we are in, it's self destruction dressed as a fucked self awareness compass.

jealousy convinces you that youre being cautious, when really, youre just rehearsing your own heartbreak. it pretends to protect you but all it does is shrink your world. the hardest part is recognizing that the fear feels true but it isn’t truth. its just fear wearing the mask of certainty

maybe im straying off topic, but loving someone in a relationship means accepting that youre giving them the power to hurt you, and choosing to trust them with it anyway

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I think it’s natural to feel jealous for things you have yet to experience that others have, and I never said it’s good to wallow in your jealousy

I’m sure you feel jealous about many other things, if not relationships

that’s fair, and I get why jealousy feels natural in some cases. honestly, i don’t think jealousy is something i ever experience much. i definitely have other negative emotions, but envy just isn’t one that sticks to me. im sure i can maybe think of something if i gave it thought

but it is natural to feel jealous, yes

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

jealousy convinces you that youre being cautious, when really, youre just rehearsing your own heartbreak. it pretends to protect you but all it does is shrink your world. the hardest part is recognizing that the fear feels true but it isn’t truth. its just fear wearing the mask of certainty

maybe im straying off topic, but loving someone in a relationship means accepting that youre giving them the power to hurt you, and choosing to trust them with it anyway

Some of this i can't understand due to relationships/dating 404, so i can't say now what that kind of trust feels like yk?
I get what you mean, fear warns you but it sometimes convinces you it already happened which sucks. I wonder how many people that deal with it in relationships live more in the imagined outcomes then the real moments tbh. I don't know what it's like to give someone that power it's eerie in a way, but i hope i bring myself to try, one day. With obviously the "right person".

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I wonder how many people that deal with it in relationships live more in the imagined outcomes then the real moments tbh.

when you mentioned "mentalcels" earlier today, this is what i thought you were explaining, which i didnt agree with, because its extremely common with people. too broad.

I don't know what it's like to give someone that power it's eerie in a way, but i hope i bring myself to try, one day. With obviously the "right person".

whatever it is, it shouldnt feel like youre giving up something, or youre losing your authority over yourself. i also hope you bring yourself to do those things one day, though

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

whatever it is, it shouldnt feel like youre giving up something, or youre losing your authority over yourself. i also hope you bring yourself to do those things one day, though

One day. for now, thats enough.

 

[CJ Central]

Every time I open my tiktok it’s either blackpill edits or the absolute horrors of couples being happy together.

Absolutely brutal and never fails to ruin my mood.

Is it actually over bro do I NT max or just end it

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Well go out and get you someone to be happy with.

 

[rand anon]

I suffered through nearly 7 yrs of college seeing couples at uni where so many dudes much uglier than me were with gyals, while I just rotted in my room jfl

NTpill broke me

 

[NARCISSlST]

Is it actually over bro do I NT max or just end it

sybau n***a

 

[cocteautwins]

practice not feeling jealousy it will make things much easier

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

You must hope you are not cursed

 

[TonyDr]

Every time I open my tiktok it’s either blackpill edits or the absolute horrors of couples being happy together.

Absolutely brutal and never fails to ruin my mood.

Is it actually over bro do I NT max or just end it

Unless i mistaking you for an another girl here, i thought you had a IRL boyfriend

You're a gl girl ain't no way you can't find your romeo.

Don't be envious or jealous of other couples, it's pointless

 

[i_love_roosters]

I feel like some people who look good/normal are just cursed. Like I'm fairly nt (if we don't count stutter), been rated decently, yet it never works out even when it happens

 

[Deleted Member 66953]

Unless i mistaking you for an another girl here, i thought you had a IRL boyfriend

You're a gl girl ain't no way you can't find your romeo.

Don't be envious or jealous of other couples, it's pointless

Yeah I’m being mistaken for someone- i am quite single and ready to leave that behind.

I appreciate your kindness though Tony I’m going to hope that I can be weird enough for people to think I’m cool and then I’ll get what I want

 

[Decay]

Simple fix; uninstall tiktok