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There are many misconceptions, lies, myths and psyops that gaslight people resulting in guilt, shame, doubt, overthinking, loss of self, avoidance, anxiety, stress, arrested development of will, dysregulation, aggression, emotional repression, repressed grief, confusion, lack of focus, lack of drive, self-sacrifice to societal causes in the belief that its on your own will, mistrust, unstable self-image, pain while being present that cannot be located, health issues, addictions, pressure to conform, suppression of empathy(ies), anhedonia, isolation, suffering, cognitive fog, lowered capacity for enjoyment, lowered intellectual capicity, anger, hatred, hubris, cynicism and much more.
None of these are even classified as personality disorders. These are just observable phenomena and today i‘m going to talk about why these are emerging independently from trauma patterns.
Let‘s start with the misconception or better lack of an anchor for thinking that is very prominent.We learn from talk shows, celebrities, community gatherings, parents, school, work, social outings, to think strictly only about marginal or eternally repeated points of view. That leads to disengament. Since few have the intellectual framework and verbal-social skillsets to build and deliver an independent way of thinking or the audience is disinterested or turned off by ideoligical proclamations, this gets ignored or used for personal gain, outrage aswell as bait-and switch schemes.
So here is the main anchor you can have to think differently: Just because something is happening all around the civilized worlds, doesn’t mean it’s not inherently inferior to what would happen in a cohesive tribal community. This doesn’t have to be defended. It‘s an anchor. It allows you to unbias yourself and others. You don’t need to explain anything about how those smaller communities are functioning and it‘s a non-sequitur to attack this anchor. Since you‘re not advocatong for it. You simply open up a conceptual path, a constant contrast that allows you to sharpen and refute bad ideas.
This in itself is a smart thing to do. It creates the question: Is the idea being proposed actually independently sound or does it have a bias, an compulsive restriction, personal motive whether concious, cognitive, emotional, ideological, reputational, or is it maliciously constructed to control, hurt, confuse etc.
It doesn’t matter what the outcome of making an argument is, since we have free speech. An idea cannot harm, since executing ideas is 95% of the process of changing something which can then be interrupted or mediated.
I‘m dismantling reactions and attacks on this anchoring principle to help you have confidence in using it yourself without needing experience in its application.
Another one is labeling. That is malicious thought suppression.
What this also allows you to do is to go toe-to-toe with popular ideas without giving the popular side the privilege of framing an argument in their favour, or using friend-enemy distinctions to squash an idea as threating, evil, malicious etc.
This is not argument from an exteme. That concept itself is thought control as are many popular “biases“ that just are flat out another way to control how you‘re supposed to think.
You don’t use your own privilege to assert a position that is utilitarian or practical. Furthermore it allows you to hold multiple competing beliefs without having to deal with the ideological battle that status quo-dependent ideas and ideologies are poisoned with and you can just ignore the shallow, uncritical beliefs that people get emotionally attached to.
It also allows you to hold indecision forever. Often or almost always people want to come to a conclusion that is an intellectual compromise. Meanwhile you can just say well i‘m not sure but i also don‘t care since i‘m not sure and that‘s an intellectual right since an argument has to be proven ro be accepted. You just don’t allow others to determine your limit of when you agree that something has been proven.
But thats against logic and science. No. There is no logical or scientific principle that forces anyone to be satisfied with a conclusion. None. Logic is a philosophical matter. Philosophy is an open-ended conflict of ideas. Someone makes a thesis and then it gets disproven or becomes obsolete or incomplete. Even logical frameworks get tossed or need adjustment. Your thinking doesn‘t need to fit into a logical system that anyone has ever used.
Ok let‘s begin.
1.
Success as an outcome of discipline
Discipline is not a an ultimate power ranger button that you can press and succeed. You need an environment that constantly feeds you a baseline of calm, social support, direction, meaning and stability. Otherwise you‘ll be treading a lot of water snd expending your will power which is very limited.
2.You don’t need a gf/bf.It‘s better to be single
Your body and mind are uplifted when you have a partner just by having a partner. It‘s more beneficial than sleep, diet or anything else. If you lack it you will suffer and never achieve your full potential because your hormonal needs are not fulfilled.
3. You need to hit an undefinable level of attributes to be worthy of love
It‘s just gaslighting. Noone can predict how you will develop. The same goes for relationships. It‘s up to you.
4.Listen to your family
Most parents care more about their job than you. They manipulate you into being easy to control for them. Grandparents don‘t want you to be competiitive in life either since they just want to spend good times with you and chill out. If in doubt leave your family as soon as you can and do a hard cut. You‘re going to get less bullshit then since you don‘t need them.
5.Comparing yourself is bad
Utter shite. If you compare yourself with the people who are on the same life path you can fuel yourself by trying to be hit a percentile mark of performance. For me aiming to be in the top 30% of something is the ideal balance where i don’t push myself into unnecessary obsession with work but still get a good kick out of out working everyone i‘m competing with when it‘s possible to put in extra effort.
6. You are defined by looks/money/status/personality/career
How you are defined is by the people you want to be liked by. If they define you by money you are defined by money. If they define you by success you are defined by success. If they define you by how useful you are you are defined as a doormat.
7.Don‘t try to be a smartass
Crab in bucket. Knowledge is hard to come by. Public knowledge is of a very limited usefulness. Study the occult it‘s where you can learn the underlying principles of the world. Read books that were written before capitalism they‘re not written by authors who are looking to sell books for money.
8.Drugs are dangerous
If you believe that drugs will make you addicted you have a religious belief. There are some terrible drugs but most drugs are absolutely fine if you don’t use them as a replacement for connection but to expand your mind and feed your curiosity.
9.Therapy is good for everyone
Mental hospitals are slaughterhouses for disadvantaged children to create an artifical lower class and put pressure on those who in the classes above. You can do therapy on your own after studying psychology and occult knowledge. You will be much better equipped and won‘t have to rely on a therapist to think for you. Therapists are low IQ similar to school teachers. They‘re praised as important problem solvers but they harm more than they help since they can‘t think and grew up too privileged to actually empathize with you.
10.The world is going to end
Focus on yourself. The system is set up to pull on your attention because it gives it legitimacy. If noone listens then it doesn’t matter. If noone care about a pet issue then no money is being syphoned.
11.Manifestation doesnt work
It does. First you direct your mind at something. Then you learn about it and then you work on it and keep caring about it. That‘s how you manifest succesfully. Write your manifestations down and put them into a box. Just yesterday i opened a box with manifestations from 2 years ago and they all have come true after i‘ve forgotten about them.
12.Money is scarce
There is so much money that prices keep inflating. It‘s just not in the hands of the masses. Don‘t show solidarity with others by holding your own earning potential back Show solidarity by sharing your undevided time, attention and care. Give to those who ask without judgement. Help those who you can as they are you under different circumstances.
13.Be independent
Guilt tripping/Gas lighting Succesful people have close and supportive families and marriage stability. Life alone is hard. That doesnt make it more meaningful. In a tribe you are always surrounded by people you know and the thought of independence is puzzling. Why would you want to be alone when you can be with your tibe it‘s utterly civilized slave mentality.
14.Be serious
Maturity is a civilizational illusion. Be serious when you need to be and be happy and careless when you can in your day to day life. Being grumpy is low IQ and mentally ill. For your children be consistent and reasonably authoritative but don’t play an adult. If you have a lot of power they will appreciate you for not dealing with them as if they were mini adults.
15. Second chances
This idea is guilt tripping.You can fall a hundred times. What matters is trying and staying alive. You get a chance every time you wake up. You create a chance everytime you learn something. Chances are destroyed when you hang onto being a doormat who needs permission to listen to their intuition and put it into action. You don‘t become a bigger loser when you fail one more time.
16.I‘m healed
Personalities are split. Healing is adjustement internal and external. Most adults heal themselves into being bitter. Just accept that you can’t heal yourself so you can go from trying to living.
17.Being part of someting bigger
You already are. Are you becoming a bigger part of something bigger or are you sacrificing that on the altar of someones agenda?
18.You can do it
That‘s not helpful. Usually said by fools with low verbal and logical intelligence. Details and steps matter.
19.You‘re not trying hard enough
Objection. Speculative. Undermining and disempowering.
20.He/she is manipulating you/you‘re worth more
I can tell myself so should you. This is a setup for distrust in relationships. Relationships are a concious agreement. Paranoia is inherent in humans you don‘t need more from outside and there is always someone there to tell you how abnormal your relationship is. Usually they are single ofcourse. If you need to get green light from others to live how you have decided to you are stuck in the past and giving your agency away. Crabs in bucket+confusing+gaslighting
21.You‘re paranoid
Time will sharpen your intuition. The world in its rawest form can be hell. It all depends on your perspective. Adding perspectives makes your intuition sharper and sharper.
22.You need to be financialy stable before entering a relationship
Gets refuted by reality itself. Most couples meet when they are in deep college debt. Overthinking, paralysis by obsession.
I think 22 is a good number.
The most important info was in the beginning itself.
If you listen to people more than you listen to god you are loving the world too much.
None of these are even classified as personality disorders. These are just observable phenomena and today i‘m going to talk about why these are emerging independently from trauma patterns.
Let‘s start with the misconception or better lack of an anchor for thinking that is very prominent.We learn from talk shows, celebrities, community gatherings, parents, school, work, social outings, to think strictly only about marginal or eternally repeated points of view. That leads to disengament. Since few have the intellectual framework and verbal-social skillsets to build and deliver an independent way of thinking or the audience is disinterested or turned off by ideoligical proclamations, this gets ignored or used for personal gain, outrage aswell as bait-and switch schemes.
So here is the main anchor you can have to think differently: Just because something is happening all around the civilized worlds, doesn’t mean it’s not inherently inferior to what would happen in a cohesive tribal community. This doesn’t have to be defended. It‘s an anchor. It allows you to unbias yourself and others. You don’t need to explain anything about how those smaller communities are functioning and it‘s a non-sequitur to attack this anchor. Since you‘re not advocatong for it. You simply open up a conceptual path, a constant contrast that allows you to sharpen and refute bad ideas.
This in itself is a smart thing to do. It creates the question: Is the idea being proposed actually independently sound or does it have a bias, an compulsive restriction, personal motive whether concious, cognitive, emotional, ideological, reputational, or is it maliciously constructed to control, hurt, confuse etc.
It doesn’t matter what the outcome of making an argument is, since we have free speech. An idea cannot harm, since executing ideas is 95% of the process of changing something which can then be interrupted or mediated.
I‘m dismantling reactions and attacks on this anchoring principle to help you have confidence in using it yourself without needing experience in its application.
Another one is labeling. That is malicious thought suppression.
What this also allows you to do is to go toe-to-toe with popular ideas without giving the popular side the privilege of framing an argument in their favour, or using friend-enemy distinctions to squash an idea as threating, evil, malicious etc.
This is not argument from an exteme. That concept itself is thought control as are many popular “biases“ that just are flat out another way to control how you‘re supposed to think.
You don’t use your own privilege to assert a position that is utilitarian or practical. Furthermore it allows you to hold multiple competing beliefs without having to deal with the ideological battle that status quo-dependent ideas and ideologies are poisoned with and you can just ignore the shallow, uncritical beliefs that people get emotionally attached to.
It also allows you to hold indecision forever. Often or almost always people want to come to a conclusion that is an intellectual compromise. Meanwhile you can just say well i‘m not sure but i also don‘t care since i‘m not sure and that‘s an intellectual right since an argument has to be proven ro be accepted. You just don’t allow others to determine your limit of when you agree that something has been proven.
But thats against logic and science. No. There is no logical or scientific principle that forces anyone to be satisfied with a conclusion. None. Logic is a philosophical matter. Philosophy is an open-ended conflict of ideas. Someone makes a thesis and then it gets disproven or becomes obsolete or incomplete. Even logical frameworks get tossed or need adjustment. Your thinking doesn‘t need to fit into a logical system that anyone has ever used.
Ok let‘s begin.
1.
Success as an outcome of discipline
Discipline is not a an ultimate power ranger button that you can press and succeed. You need an environment that constantly feeds you a baseline of calm, social support, direction, meaning and stability. Otherwise you‘ll be treading a lot of water snd expending your will power which is very limited.
2.You don’t need a gf/bf.It‘s better to be single
Your body and mind are uplifted when you have a partner just by having a partner. It‘s more beneficial than sleep, diet or anything else. If you lack it you will suffer and never achieve your full potential because your hormonal needs are not fulfilled.
3. You need to hit an undefinable level of attributes to be worthy of love
It‘s just gaslighting. Noone can predict how you will develop. The same goes for relationships. It‘s up to you.
4.Listen to your family
Most parents care more about their job than you. They manipulate you into being easy to control for them. Grandparents don‘t want you to be competiitive in life either since they just want to spend good times with you and chill out. If in doubt leave your family as soon as you can and do a hard cut. You‘re going to get less bullshit then since you don‘t need them.
5.Comparing yourself is bad
Utter shite. If you compare yourself with the people who are on the same life path you can fuel yourself by trying to be hit a percentile mark of performance. For me aiming to be in the top 30% of something is the ideal balance where i don’t push myself into unnecessary obsession with work but still get a good kick out of out working everyone i‘m competing with when it‘s possible to put in extra effort.
6. You are defined by looks/money/status/personality/career
How you are defined is by the people you want to be liked by. If they define you by money you are defined by money. If they define you by success you are defined by success. If they define you by how useful you are you are defined as a doormat.
7.Don‘t try to be a smartass
Crab in bucket. Knowledge is hard to come by. Public knowledge is of a very limited usefulness. Study the occult it‘s where you can learn the underlying principles of the world. Read books that were written before capitalism they‘re not written by authors who are looking to sell books for money.
8.Drugs are dangerous
If you believe that drugs will make you addicted you have a religious belief. There are some terrible drugs but most drugs are absolutely fine if you don’t use them as a replacement for connection but to expand your mind and feed your curiosity.
9.Therapy is good for everyone
Mental hospitals are slaughterhouses for disadvantaged children to create an artifical lower class and put pressure on those who in the classes above. You can do therapy on your own after studying psychology and occult knowledge. You will be much better equipped and won‘t have to rely on a therapist to think for you. Therapists are low IQ similar to school teachers. They‘re praised as important problem solvers but they harm more than they help since they can‘t think and grew up too privileged to actually empathize with you.
10.The world is going to end
Focus on yourself. The system is set up to pull on your attention because it gives it legitimacy. If noone listens then it doesn’t matter. If noone care about a pet issue then no money is being syphoned.
11.Manifestation doesnt work
It does. First you direct your mind at something. Then you learn about it and then you work on it and keep caring about it. That‘s how you manifest succesfully. Write your manifestations down and put them into a box. Just yesterday i opened a box with manifestations from 2 years ago and they all have come true after i‘ve forgotten about them.
12.Money is scarce
There is so much money that prices keep inflating. It‘s just not in the hands of the masses. Don‘t show solidarity with others by holding your own earning potential back Show solidarity by sharing your undevided time, attention and care. Give to those who ask without judgement. Help those who you can as they are you under different circumstances.
13.Be independent
Guilt tripping/Gas lighting Succesful people have close and supportive families and marriage stability. Life alone is hard. That doesnt make it more meaningful. In a tribe you are always surrounded by people you know and the thought of independence is puzzling. Why would you want to be alone when you can be with your tibe it‘s utterly civilized slave mentality.
14.Be serious
Maturity is a civilizational illusion. Be serious when you need to be and be happy and careless when you can in your day to day life. Being grumpy is low IQ and mentally ill. For your children be consistent and reasonably authoritative but don’t play an adult. If you have a lot of power they will appreciate you for not dealing with them as if they were mini adults.
15. Second chances
This idea is guilt tripping.You can fall a hundred times. What matters is trying and staying alive. You get a chance every time you wake up. You create a chance everytime you learn something. Chances are destroyed when you hang onto being a doormat who needs permission to listen to their intuition and put it into action. You don‘t become a bigger loser when you fail one more time.
16.I‘m healed
Personalities are split. Healing is adjustement internal and external. Most adults heal themselves into being bitter. Just accept that you can’t heal yourself so you can go from trying to living.
17.Being part of someting bigger
You already are. Are you becoming a bigger part of something bigger or are you sacrificing that on the altar of someones agenda?
18.You can do it
That‘s not helpful. Usually said by fools with low verbal and logical intelligence. Details and steps matter.
19.You‘re not trying hard enough
Objection. Speculative. Undermining and disempowering.
20.He/she is manipulating you/you‘re worth more
I can tell myself so should you. This is a setup for distrust in relationships. Relationships are a concious agreement. Paranoia is inherent in humans you don‘t need more from outside and there is always someone there to tell you how abnormal your relationship is. Usually they are single ofcourse. If you need to get green light from others to live how you have decided to you are stuck in the past and giving your agency away. Crabs in bucket+confusing+gaslighting
21.You‘re paranoid
Time will sharpen your intuition. The world in its rawest form can be hell. It all depends on your perspective. Adding perspectives makes your intuition sharper and sharper.
22.You need to be financialy stable before entering a relationship
Gets refuted by reality itself. Most couples meet when they are in deep college debt. Overthinking, paralysis by obsession.
I think 22 is a good number.
The most important info was in the beginning itself.
If you listen to people more than you listen to god you are loving the world too much.
