Distorted self image

[holalola]

I never have the answer to those stupid BuzzFeed quizzes that ask, ‘How would you describe yourself?’ or ‘How would others describe you?’
My biggest problem is knowing whether I’m a good person or not. Everyone I know—or surround myself with—constantly tells me I’m a good person. Even people I’m not fond of or aren’t close to say that I’m a good person.
If I’m a good person, why have I made so many people miserable? Why do so many people expect me to be good anyways? Whenever I crash out, why is it such a big deal to everyone when I literally almost never crash out?

 

[Schizotypalcel]

why have I made so many people miserable?

Me when i'm a bad person :/

 

[holalola]

Me when i'm a bad person :/

ok @huntergirl delete the thread im pissed off

 

[holalola]

ok @huntergirl delete the thread im pissed off

I’m serious and fuck this guy

 

[Deleted Member 56337]

ok @huntergirl delete the thread im pissed off

Nooo it’s a good/ relatable thread

 

[AverageMoroccan]

It sounds like you're carrying a lot of weight on your shoulders—like people expect you to be good all the time, and when you slip, it feels like a catastrophe. That’s exhausting.

You’re asking a deep question: Am I a good person? But maybe the more useful question is: Why do I feel like I have to be good all the time? Because from what you're saying, it seems like you don’t really get the space to be flawed, upset, or even just human.

People’s expectations of you probably come from the fact that you usually are good—maybe reliable, kind, or just someone who keeps it together. But that doesn’t mean you have to be that person 24/7. Crashing out sometimes doesn’t erase all the good you’ve done. It just makes you not perfect—which, by the way, no one is.

And about making people miserable—what’s the context there? Are these situations where you had to put yourself first, or where things got messy despite your intentions? Because being a good person doesn’t mean you never hurt anyone; it means you try to do the right thing, and when you mess up, you try to fix it.

So, what do you think—do you actually want to be the “good person” people see you as? Or does it feel like something that's been put on you, whether you like it or not?

 

[glamourpursuer 2.0]

wise words from the future milf

 

[Deleted Member 56337]

It sounds like you're carrying a lot of weight on your shoulders—like people expect you to be good all the time, and when you slip, it feels like a catastrophe. That’s exhausting.

You’re asking a deep question: Am I a good person? But maybe the more useful question is: Why do I feel like I have to be good all the time? Because from what you're saying, it seems like you don’t really get the space to be flawed, upset, or even just human.

People’s expectations of you probably come from the fact that you usually are good—maybe reliable, kind, or just someone who keeps it together. But that doesn’t mean you have to be that person 24/7. Crashing out sometimes doesn’t erase all the good you’ve done. It just makes you not perfect—which, by the way, no one is.

And about making people miserable—what’s the context there? Are these situations where you had to put yourself first, or where things got messy despite your intentions? Because being a good person doesn’t mean you never hurt anyone; it means you try to do the right thing, and when you mess up, you try to fix it.

So, what do you think—do you actually want to be the “good person” people see you as? Or does it feel like something that's been put on you, whether you like it or not?

- ChatGPT

 

[holalola]

It sounds like you're carrying a lot of weight on your shoulders—like people expect you to be good all the time, and when you slip, it feels like a catastrophe. That’s exhausting.

You’re asking a deep question: Am I a good person? But maybe the more useful question is: Why do I feel like I have to be good all the time? Because from what you're saying, it seems like you don’t really get the space to be flawed, upset, or even just human.

People’s expectations of you probably come from the fact that you usually are good—maybe reliable, kind, or just someone who keeps it together. But that doesn’t mean you have to be that person 24/7. Crashing out sometimes doesn’t erase all the good you’ve done. It just makes you not perfect—which, by the way, no one is.

And about making people miserable—what’s the context there? Are these situations where you had to put yourself first, or where things got messy despite your intentions? Because being a good person doesn’t mean you never hurt anyone; it means you try to do the right thing, and when you mess up, you try to fix it.

So, what do you think—do you actually want to be the “good person” people see you as? Or does it feel like something that's been put on you, whether you like it or not?

I’ll talk to my snap ai next time thanks bud I think

 

[Schizotypalcel]

ok @huntergirl delete the thread im pissed off

Why do so many people expect me to be good anyways? Whenever I crash out, why is it such a big deal to everyone when I literally almost never crash out?

Bc u sustain a good image, when someone thinks of u they don't expect a reality where u would "stoop low" enough to crash out. So it hurts them more knowing they made u "stoop low" Bc they would never expect it.

Ego things bud, it hurts them more then it might hurt you.

 

[AverageMoroccan]

- ChatGPT

Nga didn't you make threads using chatgpt yourself?

 

[AverageMoroccan]

I’ll talk to my snap ai next time thanks bud I think

Sorry I js didn't know what to reply

 

[glamourpursuer 2.0]

Nga didn't you make threads using chatgpt yourself?

EXPOSED

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Nga didn't you make threads using chatgpt yourself?

JFL at hunter girl using chatgpt to diss people that dislike her. (GTFIH)

Feb 20, 2025

As u can see it's lengthy so if u wanna just read the first few words an keep them in mind for what u are gonna see below



Even more of a reason to dislike this bitch, she can't even coherently sum up a few lines of a paragraph to try to trash your name so she resorts to ai slop.

@huntergirl


@notsocommonthumb @BimaxLaser @shia.jihadist @delonisliterallyme ​

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[Whitepill]

I never have the answer to those stupid BuzzFeed quizzes that ask, ‘How would you describe yourself?’ or ‘How would others describe you?’
My biggest problem is knowing whether I’m a good person or not. Everyone I know—or surround myself with—constantly tells me I’m a good person. Even people I’m not fond of or aren’t close to say that I’m a good person.
If I’m a good person, why have I made so many people miserable? Why do so many people expect me to be good anyways? Whenever I crash out, why is it such a big deal to everyone when I literally almost never crash out?

People are blessed by my presence and I’m blessed by yours

 

[BimaxLaser]

It sounds like you feel like there's a disconnect between how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself. Maybe people see you as a "good person" because of the way you generally act—your habits, your demeanor, or the way you treat others—but you feel like that label doesn’t fully capture the reality of your actions and their consequences.


When you say you've made people miserable, do you mean directly through something you've done, or do you mean in a more indirect way—like through choices you've made for yourself that affected others? Because being a "good person" doesn’t mean you’ll never hurt anyone. It just means you're trying, in some way, to do the right thing most of the time.


And as for why people react so strongly when you "crash out"—it’s probably because they’ve put you on a pedestal, whether you asked for it or not. If you're usually composed or reliable, people might take that as a given. Then, when you break from that, it feels like a bigger deal than it actually is. Does that expectation feel suffocating to you?

 

[AverageMoroccan]

JFL at hunter girl using chatgpt to diss people that dislike her. (GTFIH)

Feb 20, 2025

As u can see it's lengthy so if u wanna just read the first few words an keep them in mind for what u are gonna see below



Even more of a reason to dislike this bitch, she can't even coherently sum up a few lines of a paragraph to try to trash your name so she resorts to ai slop.

@huntergirl


@notsocommonthumb @BimaxLaser @shia.jihadist @delonisliterallyme ​

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Crazy how ts nga got modded

 

[holalola]

Bc u sustain a good image, when someone thinks of u they don't expect a reality where u would "stoop low" enough to crash out. So it hurts them more knowing they made u "stoop low" Bc they would never expect it.

Ego things bud, it hurts them more then it might hurt you.

I guess you’re right I tend to keep a neutral stance in most things, and whenever I do take a more extreme side it causes issues for me

 

[Deleted Member 56337]

Crazy how ts nga got modded

Dean liked my reply in this post

 

[holalola]

People are blessed by my presence and I’m blessed by yours

nvm my day just got better fr

 

[Schizotypalcel]

I guess you’re right I tend to keep a neutral stance in most things, and whenever I do take a more extreme side it causes issues for me

If people can't fathom u as being a person with the same low (anger outbursts) as everyone goes thru at one point are they really even thinking of you as a person?

Sounds like some people don't take into account your emotions and that's why the extreme side of things happen. So how would they process the extreme side if they can't the neutral nice side.

 

[holalola]

If people can't fathom u as being a person with the same low (anger outbursts) as everyone goes thru at one point are they really even thinking of you as a person?

Sounds like some people don't take into account your emotions and that's why the extreme side of things happen. So how would they process the extreme side if they can't the neutral nice side.

you’re so right this is one reason I had a falling out with my bestfriend. I really hate the thought of losing her, we’re so co-dependent on each other and I genuinely feel like a part of me is dead when we don’t talk. But I really can’t be agreeing with her all the time and stepping over my feelings I’m so sick of it. Thanks for making it clearer to me, means a lot

 

[James Othy]

I never have the answer to those stupid BuzzFeed quizzes that ask, ‘How would you describe yourself?’ or ‘How would others describe you?’
My biggest problem is knowing whether I’m a good person or not. Everyone I know—or surround myself with—constantly tells me I’m a good person. Even people I’m not fond of or aren’t close to say that I’m a good person.
If I’m a good person, why have I made so many people miserable? Why do so many people expect me to be good anyways? Whenever I crash out, why is it such a big deal to everyone when I literally almost never crash out?

If you weren't a good person you wouldn't care. Don't listen to what other people tell you in that regard. To really know yourself you have to have a quiet mind which means not listening to those external voices. And do you really make everyone you're surrounded with miserable? Or could it be that them being miserable has more to do with them than it does with you?

 

[holalola]

If you weren't a good person you wouldn't care. Don't listen to what other people tell you in that regard. To really know yourself you have to have a quiet mind which means not listening to those external voices. And do you really make everyone you're surrounded with miserable? Or could it be that them being miserable has more to do with them than it does with you?

I don’t understand why it’s so easy for people to switch on me and hate me. No one seems to give me the benefit of the doubt, ever. I feel like im a very patient person, but no one wants to be patient with me.

 

[TonyDr]

Crazy how ts nga got modded

Wahmen privilege

If I’m a good person, why have I made so many people miserable?

Deep rooted in the perception of women in society.
Since you're a(n attractive) woman, people expects you to be a good person, or at least this is how people perceive you by how you're acting in public. Being neutral is perceived as being a good person

But will disregard your emotions because you never expressed them in the past and kept them for yourself for so long

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Wahmen privilege

Deep rooted in the perception of women in society.
Since you're a(n attractive) woman, people expects you to be a good person, or at least this is how people perceive you by how you're acting in public. Being neutral is perceived as being a good person

But will disregard your emotions because you never expressed them in the past and kept them for yourself for so long

You 100% deserve to be a mod but her??

 

[holalola]

Wahmen privilege

Deep rooted in the perception of women in society.
Since you're a(n attractive) woman, people expects you to be a good person, or at least this is how people perceive you by how you're acting in public. Being neutral is perceived as being a good person

But will disregard your emotions because you never expressed them in the past and kept them for yourself for so long

I don’t know how to keep peace in my life without having to sacrifice being an individual person

 

[Deleted Member 56337]

You 100% deserve to be a mod but her??

Jealous little boy

 

[TonyDr]

You 100% deserve to be a mod but her??

Hey !
Don't talk about HunterGirl like that !

She is the best girl mod ever and she does her best !

She deserve it and she deserves to be March MotM !

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Jealous little boy

Nah not jealous I don't want to be a mod of an incel forum anyway other ppl just deserve it more than you

 

[TonyDr]

I don’t know how to keep peace in my life without having to sacrifice being an individual person

You'll never known peace if you can't confront people, especially if they've done you dirty

 

[MyDreamisToBe183CM]

I never have the answer to those stupid BuzzFeed quizzes that ask, ‘How would you describe yourself?’ or ‘How would others describe you?’
My biggest problem is knowing whether I’m a good person or not. Everyone I know—or surround myself with—constantly tells me I’m a good person. Even people I’m not fond of or aren’t close to say that I’m a good person.
If I’m a good person, why have I made so many people miserable? Why do so many people expect me to be good anyways? Whenever I crash out, why is it such a big deal to everyone when I literally almost never crash out?

exact same scenario cuh

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Hey !
Don't talk about HunterGirl like that !

She is the best girl mod ever and she does her best !

She deserve it and she deserves to be March MotM !

average simp on .com

 

[TonyDr]

average simp on .com

 

[neymar]

If u want to know then ur not a good person u literally lied to an entire forum about stupid stuff

 

[James Othy]

I don’t understand why it’s so easy for people to switch on me and hate me. No one seems to give me the benefit of the doubt, ever. I feel like im a very patient person, but no one wants to be patient with me.

Then you must stop worrying about how they feel. That doesn't mean you stop doing nice things for them because that's who you are. It means to become indifferent. Indifferent to their praise as well as their scorn.