Do you reach out to the gender you're interested in?

[fable]

I feel like all this self-improvement is useless if I'm terrified of women

 

[Whitepill]

Not rn, but I’m planning on it (I probably will just wait a month or some shit)

 

[Whitepill]

i fell off hard

 

[allexxs]

you have to be chill, don't be stressed and scared, girls like me because im chill with them, I joke with them and I understand them. It's nothing that complicate, they shit too and their feet smell more than our's

 

[Whitepill]

you have to be chill, don't be stressed and scared, girls like me because im chill with them, I joke with them and I understand them. It's nothing that complicate, they shit too and their feet smell more than our's

Last part sounds weird, but I get what you say from that. Can’t put them on a pedestal they are pretty similar to us

 

[allexxs]

Last part sounds weird, but I get what you say from that. Can’t put them on a pedestal they are pretty similar to us

it was supposed to be impactful butt it just sounded weird

 

[fable]

you have to be chill, don't be stressed and scared, girls like me because im chill with them, I joke with them and I understand them. It's nothing that complicate, they shit too and their feet smell more than our's

I guess alI have to do is treat them like one of the boys and give up my sigma lonewolf persona

 

[Deleted Member 30141]

no

 

[Whitepill]

it was supposed to be impactful butt it just sounded weird

nah it makes sense

 

[RainbowDash]

Yeah that's the only practical way for me.

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

No I Am Batman
I don't have time
The city needs me
I need vengeance

 

[allexxs]

I guess alI have to do is treat them like one of the boys and give up my sigma lonewolf persona

No, obviously they are women, don't treat them as the boys, they are more sensible, be more romantic, when they are sad ask them what happened and make them feel better, if they are mad calm them down, be sweeter to them.

Just don't fall on the other side where you become the gay friend or the guy who pays all the shit for them and they dont give a fuck

 

[tami_26]

used to,in a friendly social butterfuly type of way
I lost all social skills so not anymore but I'm trying to talk to as many ppl as possible to rebuild social skills and not feel and/or b awkward

 

[RainbowDash]

No, obviously they are women, don't treat them as the boys, they are more sensible, be more romantic, when they are sad ask them what happened and make them feel better, if they are mad calm them down, be sweeter to them.

Just don't fall on the other side where you become the gay friend or the guy who pays all the shit for them and they dont give a f**k

You're both right.. But the last part is so off

 

[N9wiff]

I feel like all this self-improvement is useless if I'm terrified of women

The looksmaxxing can improve your confidence after a while

Happened to me, that is if you get a lot of improvement

Mental enhancement is a part of self-improvement anyways

 

[electricyouth]

last time i tried approaching a guy (he’s a htn and 21 yo i want to clarify i thought he was younger) i met him at six flags lmao and asked him if he wanted to go on a ride in the roller coaster with me and he said yes, i tried to be flirty and confident (which i think i did pretty well) and also kind of touchy (pet his shoulder two times) i asked him if i could kiss him and he said “if you want to” but it didn’t sounded too consensual or something so i didn’t, then we exchanged instas and when it was time to say goodbye he kissed my cheek, i texted him five days later just to you know have a normal conversation but he stopped answering, then like two or three weeks later i texted him again to invite him to a party i was throwing but he said no then i said “ow ok, hope we could go out some day” and he said “are you inviting me out for a date?” and i said “lol no, more like “hang out” and he replied with a “thanks god” that felt so bad but we kind of talked about when we could hang out, but he again stopped answering so i left it there, idk how to talk to men