Do you want kids?

[Venus]

If yes, how many?
Biological or adopted?

 

[copevictim]

2 biological or adopted I don’t care
1 boy 1 girl

 

[Vikram007]

yes , 3
4 if my future wife can handle it

 

[Venus]

2 biological or adopted I don’t care
1 boy 1 girl

2 is perfect

 

[Venus]

yes , 3
4 if my future wife can handle it

Nice to consider your wife

 

[Recai]

like 8 kids if i only have 1 wife

 

[Venus]

if i only have 1 wife

True muslim

 

[chinese cigarette]

All biological and more than 10 but realistically the maximum will probably be 5

 

[Vikram007]

Nice to consider your wife

didnt mean it like that
ofc i'd have discussed all these before marriage
not worth arguing over after i've married but personally i want minimum 3 mini me and her running around

 

[Venus]

All biological and more than 10 but realistically the maximum will probably be 5

Holy good luck with that bro

 

[chinese cigarette]

Holy good luck with that bro

I just hope i can foster them in the best possible environment, I dont want to give them schizo genetic vulnerabilities and then trigger it by shitty parenting
It’s so hard i just want them to grow up relatively normal and innocent

 

[HelvetAyegba]

If yes, how many?
Biological or adopted?

as many as i am able to feed and provide for
if i never find the right woman i will just do it like Mohammedd Bzeek and take care of children that need love in difficult times

 

[Venus]

as many as i am able to feed and provide for
if i never find the right woman i will just do it like Mohammedd Bzeek and take care of children that need love in difficult times

Ur not a woman???

 

[HelvetAyegba]

Ur not a woman???

huh never was who claims that

 

[kafka]

If yes, how many?
Biological or adopted?

0

 

[Venus]

huh never was who claims that

You’re the one that made that female org gc so i asusmed

 

[Venus]

0

Same probably

 

[chinese cigarette]

0

A miserable life awaits you

 

[HelvetAyegba]

You’re the one that made that female org gc so i asusmed

ahh nah i aint

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

If yes, how many?
Biological or adopted?

3 kids max all biological unless there's a widowed milf

 

[kafka]

A miserable life awaits you

i dont care whether i have kids or not, but my gf doesnt want kids, im fine with that im not gonna force my gf into having children what, also i hate kids they scream and are always spoiled and snotty and gross, im good bro

 

[chinese cigarette]

Don’t dislike me @Dzitsu Children are literally the essence of life theyre filled with endless well not endless but great opportunity if you have the resources to and you can ensure they grow up in a sufficient environment why not? Give them happiness give them life its the greatest gift

 

[Venus]

Don’t dislike me @Dzitsu Children are literally the essence of life theyre filled with endless well not endless but great opportunity if you have the resources to and you can ensure they grow up in a sufficient environment why not? Give them happiness give them life its the greatest gift

No children ≠ miserable life jfl
Dont fearmonger people that dont want children into having children, it’ll only make the life of both the parent and child miserable

 

[kafka]

No children ≠ miserable life jfl
Dont fearmonger people that dont want children into having children, it’ll only make the life of both the parent and child miserable

nooo saaar children are the essence of life, have a child and force them to grow up in this tragic world rn saar youll be miserable without them

 

[chinese cigarette]

i dont care whether i have kids or not, but my gf doesnt want kids, im fine with that im not gonna force my gf into having children what, also i hate kids the scream and are always spoiled and snotty and gross, im good bro

The associations you have with other children and the associations you might make with your own will differ greatly trust me
Well this is all assumed knowledge yet I just feel like people perceive their OWN children so much differently than other people’s children that goes without saying honestly
The way your own children act will depend on your own genetics and the way you raise them, just bc someone else’s children act like feral dogs doesn’t mean yours will unless youre a useless bum which yoh may be so good on yoh for not polluting this earth if thats the case
I get it tho if its really because your partner prefers not to have them, yet youre only so young and just bc your current partner doesn’t desire them doesnt mean u have to completely crush the future aspiration of children
Idk but u do seem open minded because you say yiu dont care but idk just always consider the positive things that could come from it

 

[dior]

If yes, how many?
Biological or adopted?

I think having kids is incredibly cruel but if I do eventually change my mindset definitely biological and a maximum of 2.

 

[chinese cigarette]

No children ≠ miserable life jfl
Dont fearmonger people that dont want children into having children, it’ll only make the life of both the parent and child miserable

You’re right, if you don’t feel competent or at least partially ready to have them then don’t, you don’t want to make them suffer
I’m just saying all this with the assumption of you guys being young, a lot of people think they dont want children when theyre younger and eventually change their mind which is ofc very normal
Idk im just bored im sorry do what you want

 

[Venus]

I think having kids is incredibly cruel

Can you elaborate

 

[chinese cigarette]

nooo saaar children are the essence of life, have a child and force them to grow up in this tragic world rn saar youll be miserable without them

You don’t know what potential theyll have, not every future child is doomed to have a terrible life it just depends on whwre you live and how yoh raise them i suppose
You’re right that globally the state of the world is decadent and will certainly not become any better at least in the upcoming centuries so maybe im being selfish by having children but idk idk idk idk idk IM sorry

 

[dior]

Can you elaborate

Suscepting them to the current state of the world is cruel in itself, especially if they dont turn out biologically fit and EVEN then the current political/economic state of the western world is just fucked and continues to escalate with no indication that it will become less fucked

 

[dior]

You don’t know what potential theyll have, not every future child is doomed to have a terrible life it just depends on whwre you live and how yoh raise them i suppose
You’re right that globally the state of the world is decadent and will certainly not become any better at least in the upcoming centuries so maybe im being selfish by having children but idk idk idk idk idk IM sorry

Dont say sorry for having an opinion

 

[Venus]

Suscepting them to the current state of the world is cruel in itself, especially if they dont turn out biologically fit and EVEN then the current political/economic state of the western world is just fucked and continues to escalate with no indication that it will become less fucked

I mean if that’s the issue but you still desire to have children i’d say adoption is a great option, it’s the same reason i’d adopt if i ever want kids
But your choice ofc

 

[dior]

I mean if that’s the issue but you still desire to have children i’d say adoption is a great option, it’s the same reason i’d adopt if i ever want kids
But your choice ofc

I wouldnt want to adopt because I'd rather have children to my own liking with my own partner. The only reason I think I would want to have a kid is because I made that kid, and that kid resembles me.