do you want to have kids?

[Mota]

Everyone in the PSL community talks about trying to find the best woman possible to save their genetics, but I've never really understood the appeal of that.

1. There is a genetic lottery, it's not guaranteed that the woman would save your contribution.

2. Your son genetics don't belong to you. What you created is a different human being.

3. The most important point: Why do all incels want to have children? I never see a Chad having that need because it's something that comes with the flow (and many don't want to waste time with children, but all incels are interested in reproduction (with the best woman possible to make "moggers")

 

[Mota]

Honestly, I have the idea of taking things naturally and with the woman I will love. There are other goals that I want to achieve.

 

[TonyDr]

Yeah i do

 

[Mota]

Yeah i do

tbh I need to change the title of the thread lmao.

How many?

 

[Deleted Member 65473]

nah id end up a deadbeat

 

[Drownedwithhim]

I want to but I probably won't

 

[TonyDr]

tbh I need to change the title of the thread lmao.

How many?

My gf wants 4 kids, so ideally 3 if we start before her 30s and with zero medical complications of course

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

I wanna build a legacy man, everyone has a time limit

 

[Deleted Member 46765]

i wouldnt anyways because im incel by fate
but yes i do

 

[Mota]

, everyone has a time limit

the time limit still exists with children

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

the time limit still exists with children

Yeah, but with children the proof of my existence would last much longer imo, it’s one of the things that will keep going well after I’m gone.

And I think raising a kid would be fulfilling

 

[Methodical]

I'm constantly conflicted. I can't tell if I want them or not.

I think the biggest issue for me is I've never hear anything good about being a parent besides that it's meaningful. I don't really need to find meaning, I guess.

I do think I would only want children out of love, though. I don't care about the genetic stuff. Even if I was fucked over by my parent's genetics, and trust me it's hard not to feel resentful about it sometimes, I can't imagine creating an 'optimal human' and not a unique human being to love. I don't care about genetic legacy, either.

I think if my girl wanted to, I'd consider it. It would be under the assumption it was an equal team effort though and that our goals and objectives were the same.