While it’s fine for you to not rate them if it feels weird, you should give them legitimate advice that can help them develop. This is the best time and the only time in their life and before they become fully developed to where softmaxxing can make a significant difference in their adult appearance. You can tell them not to rot, sure, but at the end of the day the experiences they face in real life will tell them if they want to rot or not , same with older users in that sense. Just saying “be social and play sports brooo” is terrible advice. Of course being social can help, but if they are having negative social experiences, then wanting to change is completely normal and should be respected.