Discussion female Looksmaxers

[LASACRKO]

They are at another level of want tbh they don’t just want to be attractive enough for a boyfriend since all of them would already qualify

They wanna be drooled over, they wanna have other girls who are jealous and wanna be like them, they want to be GOD

women are by nature way more social than men so things like this matter to them more

Some evil shit tbh

 

[Naticel]

women are by nature way more social than men so things like this matter to them more

this is why i dont like women

 

[BlendedBlade]

Bro is fucking spitting facts as always

 

[BlendedBlade]

For me it’s a red flag when girl goes overboard with bright clothes makeup fragrance etc

Not even talking about slutty outfits (that’s giga red flag)

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Everyone wants to look better, we're greedy like that

Don't lie, we all wanna become Chad to get King level treatment too

 

[BlendedBlade]

Everyone wants to look better, we're greedy like that

Don't lie, we all wanna become Chad to get King level treatment too

Bro there is a level past which it’s too much

 

[LASACRKO]

Everyone wants to look better, we're greedy like that

Don't lie, we all wanna become Chad to get King level treatment too

Well the problem is most guys aren’t even at the stage of being attractive enough to easily find a gf let alone aspiring to be the mogger of moggers Jfl

Most n*****s just want one kinda attractive gf who likes them and treats them well and they’d be happy forever

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Bro there is a level past which it’s too much

ik but n*****s be greedy out here

mfs be chadlite talking bout how they wanna ascend to chad. n***a ur good

 

[hannah]

or theyre doing it for themselves bud

 

[Scenehikikomori]

Im not more social tbh and i just wanna look average

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Well the problem is most guys aren’t even at the stage of being attractive enough to easily find a gf let alone aspiring to be the mogger of moggers Jfl

Most n*****s just want one kinda attractive gf who likes them and treats them well and they’d be happy forever

If i remember correctly you said that you said female looksmaxxers are at another level of want not just for a bf but to be worshipped.

The same can apply for men too. Your point doesnt really hold up if you dont consider the case for both genders. An mtb wanting to become htb so that shes worshipped is the same as a HTN wanting to ascend to CL

A HTN and mtb already have it good. They can easily get into relationships but they want more

 

[Incognito]

They are at another level of want tbh they don’t just want to be attractive enough for a boyfriend since all of them would already qualify

They wanna be drooled over, they wanna have other girls who are jealous and wanna be like them, they want to be GOD

women are by nature way more social than men so things like this matter to them more

Some evil shit tbh

I disagree with that, because you make it sound like only women do this, but men do it too, for status. Everyone wants to stand above the crowd in looks, power, and so on. You also ignore the fact that there are plenty of ugly women out there. The fact that men are desperate doesn’t change that.

or theyre doing it for themselves bud

To be fair who ever says “Doing it for myself” often isn’t purely internal.

People say they’re improving their looks “for themselves,” but in reality, most behaviors related to looks are socially influenced.

Think the social feedback loop and evolutionary psychology. No one would bother with this stuff if they were the last person on earth. Aside from basic hygiene, no one would be doing all the extras.

 

[LASACRKO]

or theyre doing it for themselves bud

Yeah if u lived alone in an island you’d be very worried about how thin ur waste is I agree

 

[hannah]

To be fair who ever says “Doing it for myself” often isn’t purely internal.

People say they’re improving their looks “for themselves,” but in reality, most behaviors related to looks are socially influenced.

Think the social feedback loop and evolutionary psychology. No one would bother with this stuff if they were the last person on earth. Aside from basic hygiene, no one would be doing all the extras.

i honestly do think im doing it for myself. ive always been super obsessive abt my looks, it may be bc i was pretty involved in pageant culture growing up. im aware other ppl dont see me as below average, ive never gotten negative feedback on my looks from friends, classmates, boys, etc. all of the insecurities i have never stemmed from comments made about me, theyre all things i picked out on my own. thats why i think its mostly internal for me, like even on days im not going out or seeing anyone i like to get fully done up because it makes me feel better.

 

[BlendedBlade]

or theyre doing it for themselves bud

Lmao such a cope

Why you don’t you put on a makeup when you’re at home then (not you exactly but 99% of women)

 

[hannah]

Lmao such a cope

Why you don’t you put on a makeup when you’re at home then (not you exactly but 99% of women)

okay but im talking for myself, not all women

thats why i think its mostly internal for me, like even on days im not going out or seeing anyone i like to get fully done up because it makes me feel better.

 

[Incognito]

i honestly do think im doing it for myself. ive always been super obsessive abt my looks, it may be bc i was pretty involved in pageant culture growing up. im aware other ppl dont see me as below average, ive never gotten negative feedback on my looks from friends, classmates, boys, etc. all of the insecurities i have never stemmed from comments made about me, theyre all things i picked out on my own. thats why i think its mostly internal for me, like even on days im not going out or seeing anyone i like to get fully done up because it makes me feel better.

Okay, I believe you, so let’s set aside the idea of doing it for others and explore a different angle. It’s possible you’ve tied your self worth to your appearance because of your past involvement in beauty pageants. I could be wrong, of course.

It is not necessarily bad, if you have other sources of self worth (values, skills, purpose). And as long as It doesn’t control your emotions or choices to much.

 

[rexlee]

gym girls are worse

 

[hannah]

Okay, I believe you, so let’s set aside the idea of doing it for others and explore a different angle. It’s possible you’ve tied your self worth to your appearance because of your past involvement in beauty pageants. I could be wrong, of course.

It is not necessarily bad, if you have other sources of self worth (values, skills, purpose). And as long as It doesn’t control your emotions or choices to much.

oh yeah i fs agree with u on that, i see my self worth as like 95% my looks, and i think it def controls a lot of aspects of my life. ik its bad but thats just how ive always been, so i havent made much effort to change my mindset. from the start of my time on this forum ive tried to convince myself that once i hardmaxx and get a bunch of surgeries ill finally be happy with myself, but im starting to think ill never rly be satisfied.

 

[BlendedBlade]

oh yeah i fs agree with u on that, i see my self worth as like 95% my looks, and i think it def controls a lot of aspects of my life. ik its bad but thats just how ive always been, so i havent made much effort to change my mindset. from the start of my time on this forum ive tried to convince myself that once i hardmaxx and get a bunch of surgeries ill finally be happy with myself, but im starting to think ill never rly be satisfied.

Almost all women are like that

 

[hannah]

Almost all women are like that

my point is that the cause of me being on here is my obsession, not other ppl

 

[BlendedBlade]

my point is that the cause of me being on here is my obsession, not other ppl

But your obsession comes from caring how other people perceive you

You just don’t realize this and it’s okay

 

[Incognito]

oh yeah i fs agree with u on that, i see my self worth as like 95% my looks, and i think it def controls a lot of aspects of my life. ik its bad but thats just how ive always been, so i havent made much effort to change my mindset. from the start of my time on this forum ive tried to convince myself that once i hardmaxx and get a bunch of surgeries ill finally be happy with myself, but im starting to think ill never rly be satisfied.

Trust me , you won’t ever feel fully satisfied. There will always be something that feels off, because no face is perfect. And if not now, then later in life as you start to age, that urge for surgery will likely come back. You look good already, don’t risk ruining it by hardmaxxing. Appreciate what you have before one mistake costs you everything.

If you truly feel the need for surgery, keep it minimal. My rule of thumb: never hardmax a good feature, only use surgery to fix a flaw, not to enhance something that’s already working. It gives you a better return on investment and lowers the risk of ruining what’s already good.

 

[hannah]

But your obsession comes from caring how other people perceive you

You just don’t realize this and it’s okay

its unfair to say “you dont realize this” and make assumptions abt me as if yk me better than ik myself. if it was about me caring how other ppl see me i wouldnt fully do my hair and makeup almost daily even when im not going out. i wouldnt make myself sleep in uncomfortable tight lacy sleep sets instead of loose comfortable pjs even when no one sees me at night.

 

[BlendedBlade]

its unfair to say “you dont realize this” and make assumptions abt me as if yk me better than ik myself. if it was about me caring how other ppl see me i wouldnt fully do my hair and makeup almost daily even when im not going out. i wouldnt make myself sleep in uncomfortable tight lacy sleep sets instead of loose comfortable pjs even when no one sees me at night.

Hannah here we go again…

I cba to explain why you are wrong so have a good day

 

[hannah]

Hannah here we go again…

I cba to explain why you are wrong so have a good day

no i honestly wanna know what u disagree with if u read everything i said

 

[BlendedBlade]

no i honestly wanna know what u disagree with if u read everything i said

Don’t have time for this

In short: you want to do this cause of instincts of being more attractive to the opposite gender

It doesn’t mean you’ll do it for males consciously.

It just subconscious desire

The fact that you do it even when you’re alone home doesn’t mean this desire to look good doesn’t come initially from the desire to attract opposite gender and be accepted in society

And I want to make it clear that I don’t judge you for trying look your best, nothing wrong with that

I hope you understand what I mean

 

[LASACRKO]

But your obsession comes from caring how other people perceive you

You just don’t realize this and it’s okay

@hannah im sorry but u ask ppl to suggest eye contacts for u to use and post a top down selfie with ur whole chest open

Maybe it’s a coincidence but imagine if some guy asks the same thing and his selfie is top down with his abbs showing it’s comical the level it gets

Ig maybe the best way to show off ur eyes is by taking a top down selfie with a v taper tho. WE LIVE IN CLOWN WORLD

Idec that ppl do this it’s about the fact they deny it

 

[BlendedBlade]

@hannah im sorry but u ask ppl to suggest eye contacts for u to use and post a top down selfie with ur whole chest open

Maybe it’s a coincidence but imagine if some guy asks the same thing and his selfie is top down with his abbs showing it’s comical the level it gets

Ig maybe the best way to show off ur eyes is by taking a top down selfie with a v taper tho. WE LIVE IN CLOWN WORLD

I remember this shit I even said they were huge

 

[LASACRKO]

I remember this shit I even said they were huge

She will obviously deny it to death and i truly don’t understand since girls will use the argument of not having to hide their body and ofc some ppl exaggerate what they think is girl’s searching for attention obviously she will have less clothes in summer

But some things are so obvious it’s like a literal parody tho ppl will take it seriously

 

[hannah]

Don’t have time for this

In short: you want to do this cause of instincts of being more attractive to the opposite gender

It doesn’t mean you’ll do it for males consciously.

It just subconscious desire

The fact that you do it even when you’re alone home doesn’t mean this desire to look good doesn’t come initially from the desire to attest opposite gender and be accepted in society

And I want to make it clear that I don’t judge you for trying look your best, nothing wrong with that

I hope you understand what I mean

if you dont wanna argue about it i wont argue about it. i just think its not right to generalize women and act like its instinct for us to subconsciously do things for men. u barely know me so i dont appreciate u making assumptions abt me, but its not a big deal

 

[swanneo]

not really accurate, i think men here have a very distorted perspective of women's concerns and act on unfair assumptions. women have been valued for our looks since we are young, and there is a special type of pressure on us to look presentable and nice. it has to do a lot more with self-worth and a sense of confidence than it does 'wanting to be god' 'causing jealously on other women'. plus from what i've read all the men here have a strong desire to stand out / become chad, so why is it not questioned when they seek validation?

idk just reading the comments here i suppose it is to be expected but it feels it comes from a place of sexualization/hatred.

 

[BlendedBlade]

if you dont wanna argue about it i wont argue about it. i just think its not right to generalize women and act like its instinct for us to subconsciously do things for men. u barely know me so i dont appreciate u making assumptions abt me, but its not a big deal

Hannah we are all the same species and it’s ok that we want to attract opposite gender

I dont workout specifically for women I actually like how it looks but I realize it all comes down from the desire to be most “dominant” and attractive

I wasn’t trying to disrespect you or make false assumptions

 

[LASACRKO]

if you dont wanna argue about it i wont argue about it. i just think its not right to generalize women and act like its instinct for us to subconsciously do things for men. u barely know me so i dont appreciate u making assumptions abt me, but its not a big deal

Not only for men but even to other women

 

[hannah]

Hannah we are all the same species and it’s ok that we want to attract opposite gender

I dont workout specifically for women I actually like how it looks but I realize it all comes down from the desire to be most “dominant” and attractive

I wasn’t trying to disrespect you or make false assumptions

Not only for men but even to other women

i get what u guys are saying, u can have ur own opinions

 

[BlendedBlade]

i get what u guys are saying, u can have ur own opinions

Yeah it’s ok Hannah, we will have the right opinion and you’ll have yours

 

[LASACRKO]

Hannah we are all the same species and it’s ok that we want to attract opposite gender

I dont workout specifically for women I actually like how it looks but I realize it all comes down from the desire to be most “dominant” and attractive

I wasn’t trying to disrespect you or make false assumptions

I truly believe women don’t just sexualise themselves for men they do it to subtlety fog other women and so do men

 

[BlendedBlade]

I truly believe women don’t just sexualise themselves for men they do it to subtlety fog other women and so do men

I think it’s both to make your gender jealous and to make opposite gender thirst over you

 

[LASACRKO]

Yeah it’s ok Hannah, we will have the right opinion and you’ll have yours

I mean yeah there’s no other opinion to be had there’s no logical argument in t he world

It’s quite literally like a guy posting a rate my feet thread and he’s taking a top down selfie with a huge bludge and muscle yet when girls do it it’s tehehe guys I didn’t even notice It lol

 

[BlendedBlade]

I mean yeah there’s no other opinion to be had there’s no logical argument in t he world

It’s quite literally like a guy posting a rate my feet thread and he’s taking a top down selfie with a huge bludge and muscle yet when girls do it it’s tehehe guys I didn’t even notice It lol

“Rate my feet” thread is already

 

[hannah]

Yeah it’s ok Hannah, we will have the right opinion and you’ll have yours

i dont like that youre being petty after i respected ur opinion and didnt argue even when i felt disrespected, but okay

 

[BlendedBlade]

i dont like that youre being petty after i respected ur opinion and didnt argue even when i felt disrespected, but okay

Chill I was just trolling u

 

[junyaa]

Yeah it’s ok Hannah, we will have the right opinion and you’ll have yours

why is it a crazy thing to think a girl doesn’t just want to improve for herself?

 

[BlendedBlade]

why is it a crazy thing to think a girl doesn’t just want to improve for herself?

Yeah? But why does she want to do it? For nothing? No, she wants people to treat her better and attract better partner

If all people on earth except her died do you really think she’d do makeup ?

 

[LASACRKO]

why is it a crazy thing to think a girl doesn’t just want to improve for herself?

Bro because that’s a literal retarded statement even arguing obvious attention grabs are coincidental I can agree with but if u were alone on earth you wouldn’t give a shit about what u look like and that’s a fact

Girls just brainwash themselves into thinking that because women view being superficial as this evil thing so they wanna distance themselves from it as much as possible

 

[Mess]

Anyone who looksmaxxes is doing it due to societal expectations. The idea of doing it for yourself stems from peer-side judgement that drew a direct connection between personal worth and looks.

 

[junyaa]

Yeah? But why does she want to do it? For nothing? No, she wants people to treat her better and attract better partner

If all people on earth except her died do you really think she’d do makeup ?

at the core, most people just want to feel a sense of worth. not for others, but for themselves. even in isolation, humans seek meaning and self expression. makeup, like anything else, can be a form of reclaiming control or identity. it’s not always a performance.

 

[BlendedBlade]

at the core, most people just want to feel a sense of worth. not for others, but for themselves. even in isolation, humans seek meaning and self expression. makeup, like anything else, can be a form of reclaiming control or identity. it’s not always a performance.

i don’t wanna argue i already made my point clear

 

[hannah]

@hannah im sorry but u ask ppl to suggest eye contacts for u to use and post a top down selfie with ur whole chest open

Maybe it’s a coincidence but imagine if some guy asks the same thing and his selfie is top down with his abbs showing it’s comical the level it gets

Ig maybe the best way to show off ur eyes is by taking a top down selfie with a v taper tho. WE LIVE IN CLOWN WORLD

Idec that ppl do this it’s about the fact they deny it

i was aware that my shirt was revealing and im not trying to act clueless abt that, but im used to wearing more revealing clothing so im just saying i didnt see it as a big deal, i wasnt thinking of that at the time. when ppl started making weird comments i deleted the first pic and only kept the one where my hairs covering my chest, why would i do that if i wanted everyone to see it?

 

[LASACRKO]

at the core, most people just want to feel a sense of worth. not for others, but for themselves. even in isolation, humans seek meaning and self expression. makeup, like anything else, can be a form of reclaiming control or identity. it’s not always a performance.

Yes and that is the cope

Avarage pretty girl walks around gets “guilty” pleasure of all the other girls jealous of her and all the guys staring but then goes back home looks in the mirror and says nah it’s all for myself I do this because I like to see myself as beautiful

If that was really true older women would do the same shit dress half naked in the winter and post sexual selfies asking oh do I need contacts??