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Discussion Foids being welcome in the looksmaxing scene is contradictory

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So for the sake of this argument I'm assuming that the majority of ppl in the community would regard appearance as a kind of social class, where by improving it your life will improve. Obviously any social class is relative, if your the richest you'll be the highest ranked no matter how much money you have, and also following this reasoning, Foids are described as a high social class in terms of sexual value.

So what is looksmaxing trying to do.. improve your class in order to improve your qol, so to use the analogy of money, by welcoming foids into this community, it's the same as being a lower class citizen and sharing your advice and working with billionaires 😭 by helping foids through advice or even kindness your only increasing the social gap and that's the exact opposite of what improving your looks is trying to achieve.

The other issue is that it invites a culture of ppl who prey on less attractive guys to get more attention when the top percentile people they want don't want them back, this is again kinda grim as it reinforces the issue and can lead to the mistreatment of said unnatractive people. Overall my thesis is that it seems really unthoughtthrough to be welcoming them and helping them w improving their appearance but I'm interested in other ppls opinions on it
 
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So for the sake of this argument I'm assuming that the majority of ppl in the community would regard appearance as a kind of social class, where by improving it your life will improve. Obviously any social class is relative, if your the richest you'll be the highest ranked no matter how much money you have, and also following this reasoning, Foids are described as a high social class in terms of sexual value.

So what is looksmaxing trying to do.. improve your class in order to improve your qol, so to use the analogy of money, by welcoming foids into this community, it's the same as being a lower class citizen and sharing your advice and working with billionaires 😭 by helping foids through advice or even kindness your only increasing the social gap and that's the exact opposite of what improving your looks is trying to achieve.

The other issue is that it invites a culture of ppl who prey on less attractive guys to get more attention when the top percentile people they want don't want them back, this is again kinda grim as it reinforces the issue and can lead to the mistreatment of said unnatractive people. Overall my thesis is that it seems really unthoughtthrough to be welcoming them and helping them w improving their appearance but I'm interested in other ppls opinions on it
High effort thread, read this negros
 
its not that deep - girl
 
If you read what I said none of it's wrong, it's just something I've picked up on from looking at conversations on tt
i did read through and like yeah its true but i think ur unnecessarily making a big deal out of it yk

no hate not tryna beef
 
So for the sake of this argument I'm assuming that the majority of ppl in the community would regard appearance as a kind of social class, where by improving it your life will improve. Obviously any social class is relative, if your the richest you'll be the highest ranked no matter how much money you have, and also following this reasoning, Foids are described as a high social class in terms of sexual value.

So what is looksmaxing trying to do.. improve your class in order to improve your qol, so to use the analogy of money, by welcoming foids into this community, it's the same as being a lower class citizen and sharing your advice and working with billionaires 😭 by helping foids through advice or even kindness your only increasing the social gap and that's the exact opposite of what improving your looks is trying to achieve.

The other issue is that it invites a culture of ppl who prey on less attractive guys to get more attention when the top percentile people they want don't want them back, this is again kinda grim as it reinforces the issue and can lead to the mistreatment of said unnatractive people. Overall my thesis is that it seems really unthoughtthrough to be welcoming them and helping them w improving their appearance but I'm interested in other ppls opinions on it
But- but🥺
 
i did read through and like yeah its true but i think ur unnecessarily making a big deal out of it yk

no hate not tryna beef
It's not meant to be a hatepiece or something I'm just pointing out something I found funny
 
Women are a beneficiary of hypergamy, I never understood why they go through the effort to do sm bs
 
you forgot to mention how only the good looking ones are "high social class" or whatever bs u meant on there
also looking good is more important for women than for men, ive seen beautiful women with ugly men, but never ugly women with beautiful men
 
Women are a beneficiary of hypergamy, I never understood why they go through the effort to do sm bs
I think a good way of thinking about it is they're born into an easier difficulty life naturally, but their presented with the idea that if they reach a certain point they won't have to do anything at all, so it's like the goal of going from high to higher
 
you forgot to mention how only the good looking ones are "high social class" or whatever bs u meant on there
also looking good is more important for women than for men, ive seen beautiful women with ugly men, but never ugly women with beautiful men
This is missing the point of what I said entirely, why would you want MORE billionaires 😭 also sexual value can equate to other value, money is kaw
 
"Me billionaire keep helping me trample over you"
By your own logic the looksmaxxing community should reject rich people, already good looking people trying to ascend (ehren, clav, etc.), famous people, etc.

The fact is almost everyone on this forum and on org are fucking fakecels whose "shitty lives" are of their own doing. They're likely average looking, average class, good amount of friends, etc.
 
This is missing the point of what I said entirely, why would you want MORE billionaires 😭 also sexual value can equate to other value, money is kaw
because its not about billionaires vs poor? that would be fair if its a good looking woman and a chud man, but what about the ugly girls? do they deserve to be broke just because of that? why should ugly men not want a girl to become better just because they themselves dont want to become better? from my pov, good looking men are on the same level as good looking women, even though people on here will disagree. "but hypergamy", it goes both ways. and speaking about sex, thats just how we are meant to be biologically, its not the womens fault, thats why were so picky; in nature the male has to impress the female and she chooses the best fit to mate with her
 
By your own logic the looksmaxxing community should reject rich people, already good looking people trying to ascend (ehren, clav, etc.), famous people, etc.

The fact is almost everyone on this forum and on org are fucking fakecels whose "shitty lives" are of their own doing. They're likely average looking, average class, good amount of friends, etc.
1St part, I described the community as a group of people aiming to improve their class, so it stands to reason that you'd want to see the success of said group, idk if that's counterintuitive. The goal of ascending is to reach the top and like I saod the top is based off the ppl at the top, but then again if you look at the main influencers I'm fairly sure they all kinda hate each other as they wanna be viewed as the best looking 😭 so ig at the top they aren't safe either.

The second part is more just an issue with who I'm saying this too, I'm assuming that ppl don't wanna read a shitty forum for hours unless they actually have a need for it but apparently I'm wrong about that
 
because its not about billionaires vs poor? that would be fair if its a good looking woman and a chud man, but what about the ugly girls? do they deserve to be broke just because of that? why should ugly men not want a girl to become better just because they themselves dont want to become better? from my pov, good looking men are on the same level as good looking women, even though people on here will disagree. "but hypergamy", it goes both ways. and speaking about sex, thats just how we are meant to be biologically, its not the womens fault, thats why were so picky; in nature the male has to impress the female and she chooses the best fit to mate with her
The issue with the "ugly" girl archetype your describing is even the most untractive girls have an inherent sexual value which is like 2 deviations higher than the average guy, so following the system I described, they would be safely upper middle. As there's never gonna be any issues with finding someone to fuck you, all you ascending does is makes it harder for unnatractive guys to do so. Also this class system I'm describing is about "Sexual value" for like the 3rd time
 
So for the sake of this argument I'm assuming that the majority of ppl in the community would regard appearance as a kind of social class, where by improving it your life will improve. Obviously any social class is relative, if your the richest you'll be the highest ranked no matter how much money you have, and also following this reasoning, Foids are described as a high social class in terms of sexual value.

So what is looksmaxing trying to do.. improve your class in order to improve your qol, so to use the analogy of money, by welcoming foids into this community, it's the same as being a lower class citizen and sharing your advice and working with billionaires 😭 by helping foids through advice or even kindness your only increasing the social gap and that's the exact opposite of what improving your looks is trying to achieve.

The other issue is that it invites a culture of ppl who prey on less attractive guys to get more attention when the top percentile people they want don't want them back, this is again kinda grim as it reinforces the issue and can lead to the mistreatment of said unnatractive people. Overall my thesis is that it seems really unthoughtthrough to be welcoming them and helping them w improving their appearance but I'm interested in other ppls opinions on it
Bump none of the replies interest me
 
The issue with the "ugly" girl archetype your describing is even the most untractive girls have an inherent sexual value which is like 2 deviations higher than the average guy, so following the system I described, they would be safely upper middle. As there's never gonna be any issues with finding someone to fuck you, all you ascending does is makes it harder for unnatractive guys to do so. Also this class system I'm describing is about "Sexual value" for like the 3rd time
well u shouldve worded the title differently then, because maybe guys will try to go up a class to get sexual advantages, but most girls dont perceive looksmaxxing this way, they do it for other reasons, so being unwelcome wouldnt make much sense to them. I also met guys on here that didnt have any interest to ascend for stuff like this and for me ur pespective is a new one, but i get it.
 
well u shouldve worded the title differently then, because maybe guys will try to go up a class to get sexual advantages, but most girls dont perceive looksmaxxing this way, they do it for other reasons, so being unwelcome wouldnt make much sense to them. I also met guys on here that didnt have any interest to ascend for stuff like this and for me ur pespective is a new one, but i get it.
No appearance is a sexual class, you think that your husband is gonna "magically" wanna take care of your whole life because your attractive 🥹🥹
 
oh well i go where the wind takes me
 
Not reading allat Jfl


I would be physically dead if I didnt stop being ugly lmfao
 
but if we kikc out girls then we don't get huntergirl and paulyune and splanky
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They've got to you son😔
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I mean I agree but, just like u can’t rly stop the billionaire from acquiring more, u can’t rly stop them from trying to improve their looks. That’s why, along with having mixed gender forums, it’s also good to just have male only and female only spaces
 
I mean I agree but, just like u can’t rly stop the billionaire from acquiring more, u can’t rly stop them from trying to improve their looks. That’s why, along with having mixed gender forums, it’s also good to just have male only and female only spaces
I'm not tryna say that we can stop them improving their looks, I'm more saying that it's a bit ironic that the looksmaxing community (or revolutionarys to use the analogy) is helping them is all. Im taking looksmaxing to mean the male dominated side of self-care in this case so more the community than the action itself
 
I'm not tryna say that we can stop them improving their looks, I'm more saying that it's a bit ironic that the looksmaxing community (or revolutionarys to use the analogy) is helping them is all. Im taking looksmaxing to mean the male dominated side of self-care in this case so more the community than the action itself
I mean it’s just human nature to help someone asking for advice, but yes I agree it isn’t logical given how many opportunities they already hve
 
I mean it’s just human nature to help someone asking for advice, but yes I agree it isn’t logical given how many opportunities they already hve
This forum isn't representative of the community I guess, you could say it's meant to be more in the middle and that explains the better treatment
 
This forum isn't representative of the community I guess, you could say it's meant to be more in the middle and that explains the better treatment
Well tbf even org isn’t representative of the og community anymore
 
So for the sake of this argument I'm assuming that the majority of ppl in the community would regard appearance as a kind of social class, where by improving it your life will improve. Obviously any social class is relative, if your the richest you'll be the highest ranked no matter how much money you have, and also following this reasoning, Foids are described as a high social class in terms of sexual value.

So what is looksmaxing trying to do.. improve your class in order to improve your qol, so to use the analogy of money, by welcoming foids into this community, it's the same as being a lower class citizen and sharing your advice and working with billionaires 😭 by helping foids through advice or even kindness your only increasing the social gap and that's the exact opposite of what improving your looks is trying to achieve.

The other issue is that it invites a culture of ppl who prey on less attractive guys to get more attention when the top percentile people they want don't want them back, this is again kinda grim as it reinforces the issue and can lead to the mistreatment of said unnatractive people. Overall my thesis is that it seems really unthoughtthrough to be welcoming them and helping them w improving their appearance but I'm interested in other ppls opinions on it
How I look at it is that everyone working on themselves and trying to improve is a good thing. Leveling up in general is a positive. If you boil the term ‘looksmaxxing’ to the most simple terms and remove everything else, then it’s just maximizing your physical appearance, which is applicable to everyone. It can be argued in that sense that women are the “original” looksmaxxers since the beauty industry is female dominated and very big and plastic surgery is more common and accepted for women. A part of that is men kinda have other alternatives to get a relationship by having money, personality, status, height, etc while women often only have their beauty as the determining factor.

I’d also just ask myself this question- would you not want an attractive girlfriend? Everyone WANTS a htb-stacy. Improvement and achievement is a natural desire. Increasing the overall number of attractive people is a net positive, and by improving herself she’ll eventually get to be with someone who will appreciate it. Kinda reminds me of that equity vs. equality meme of raising everyone up
 
As there's never gonna be any issues with finding someone to fuck you, all you ascending does is makes it harder for unnatractive guys to do so. Also this class system I'm describing is about "Sexual value" for like the 3rd time
You’ve right about that, but what about relationships? A mtb can fuck a chadlite but she can’t secure loyalty and a long term relationship from him. And we all know promiscuity is damaging to women and lowers their value so the fact that they have that possibility would not be enticing to any self respecting woman
 
How I look at it is that everyone working on themselves and trying to improve is a good thing. Leveling up in general is a positive. If you boil the term ‘looksmaxxing’ to the most simple terms and remove everything else, then it’s just maximizing your physical appearance, which is applicable to everyone. It can be argued in that sense that women are the “original” looksmaxxers since the beauty industry is female dominated and very big and plastic surgery is more common and accepted for women. A part of that is men kinda have other alternatives to get a relationship by having money, personality, status, height, etc while women often only have their beauty as the determining factor.

I’d also just ask myself this question- would you not want an attractive girlfriend? Everyone WANTS a htb-stacy. Improvement and achievement is a natural desire. Increasing the overall number of attractive people is a net positive, and by improving herself she’ll eventually get to be with someone who will appreciate it. Kinda reminds me of that equity vs. equality meme of raising everyone up
I think I didn't explain properly what the point I'm trying to make is, I'm taking looksmaxing to mean the extremist form of self improvement, imagining a spectrum, looksmaxing would be on the far end and then more conventional methods would be more normal. If you take it to mean simply the improving of looks then my analogy fails as there's no reason for anyone in a social higherarchy not to be justified in wanting to improve their position. My point isn't that it's wrong for the higher ppl to want to improve, my point is just that it seems somewhat contradictory to be part of a radical class improvement group while also welcoming and even sometimes worshipping the higher class, does this kinda make sense
 

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