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nobody irl wants a squinting, cheek biting, forum rotting autist, so heres a guide
1. social status pill
chances are if youre spending a lot of time on here you probably dont have the best social skills and struggle to socialise adequately over long periods of time or when meeting new people. this guide isnt a horoscope for me to psychoanalyse your autism but to help you get better at establishing yourself.
firstly, you should have an identity that does NOT involve talking about how much time you spend online, normies will look down on you.
one of the most important things when meeting new people, or talking to people around you that you dont normally, is their first immediate perception of you. even if they dont know much about you, you should aim to create a connection based on something you might have in common. If you have nothing in common, let them speak and act enthusiastic about their hobbies, most people are low self esteem cucks and love glaze from randoms. if youre a moralfag who isnt willing to base your social life on white lies in the name of kindness that understandable, but most of life is about exactly this.
ALWAYS try to contribute to the conversation, dont just stand there. even if your contribution is minimal and you feel awkward, its significantly better than just being a cuck.
meeting new people is incredibly important and helps you create connections to people you might not have met otherwise, opening so many doors. people have a fear of rejection and so wont speak to randoms, but youll see successful people networking all the time.
note: dont be a social climber linkedin 'networker'f*g though, people will know when youre doing this and dislike you. theres a fine line you have to walk when doing this.
2. hobbies
get new hobbies, even if its some stupid shit. youll meet people that are outside of your 'comfort zone' and enrich you as a person. id recommend something sport based as gains duh, and in case you cant socialise for more than 3 minutes, you can excuse yourself to focus on your exercise. creative activities work too. this will create new topics of conversation for you, and if youre not too much of a sperg you can even invite people to come do these activities with you. i do this when i go to the gym and now have lots of gym buddies so i can see a different person or multiple people every time i go.
note: dont be pretentious about your hobbies, even if youre an Olympic level athlete (unless youre in a circle with people equally as good or better), do not brag about your achievements. normies dislike this as it makes them feel inferior, and people like to feel good about themselves, they wont want to spend too much time with someone who threatens them.
3. be spontaneous
probably one of the hardest things to achieve, i used to struggle with the idea of doing anything that didnt fit the idealised plan i had in my head, but to enjoy life you have to let go of the idea that things will work out a certain way, they probably wont and you have to be ok with that. be open to anything and your quality of life will increase immensely. you should pioneer side quests and look for any opportunity to deviate from the plan, as stupid as that sounds. you should aim to be the one making plans, people like when they dont have to be the ones doing the planning for events. when i refer to events, the things you arrange dont have to be large or elaborate most of the time people love a hangout on a friday, or even an invitation to just do something mundane together. surround yourself with people who have a similarly positive and spontaneous mindset.
note: the context of finding side quests matters, only do this when appropriate. if you overdo it, people will see you as flaky, or looking to escape their plans and might doubt your 'commitment' to them. try find different people to go on so called side quests with and do new things with.
4. cadence
the way you speak and carry yourself matters (obviously). dont force your way into other people's conversations, its a speedrun to getting ignored and feeling shit about yourself and reinforcing the mindset that youre an unlovable chud who cant even speak to people (untrue dw), picrel. maintain a neutral stance on most things, unfortunately to make a high iq chad/stacy like yourself palatable to the general population youll have to water yourself down a bit. people dont want to hear about how you think the aryan race is superior and how ER was right, stray away from such topics when speaking to normies even if its a joke. in fact you have to act unbothered about most things in life (low inhib n shiet), especially if someone makes a passive aggro comment towards you. laugh it off u dont wanna be a seething chud.
dont view yourself as superior or inferior, you are on par with these people, the people you look down on wake up, eat and suffer just like you. we are all the same deep down, even if we present ourselves differently.
note: compliment people often, aim to be authentic and not mindlessly glaze everyone. youd be surprised how much this improves how people see you. you might feel awkward, but i can promise you people dont see you as a strange autist chud and just appreciate the nice comment and go about their day.
your life's goal isnt to befriend everyone or to constantly be looking for other people to fulfil you, these things all come when you work on YOURSELF. you choose how to play the cards life dealt you, so prioritise improving yourself and being as well rounded as humanly possible, but these tips should aid this process and help you avoid being an outcast.
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1. social status pill
chances are if youre spending a lot of time on here you probably dont have the best social skills and struggle to socialise adequately over long periods of time or when meeting new people. this guide isnt a horoscope for me to psychoanalyse your autism but to help you get better at establishing yourself.
firstly, you should have an identity that does NOT involve talking about how much time you spend online, normies will look down on you.
one of the most important things when meeting new people, or talking to people around you that you dont normally, is their first immediate perception of you. even if they dont know much about you, you should aim to create a connection based on something you might have in common. If you have nothing in common, let them speak and act enthusiastic about their hobbies, most people are low self esteem cucks and love glaze from randoms. if youre a moralfag who isnt willing to base your social life on white lies in the name of kindness that understandable, but most of life is about exactly this.
ALWAYS try to contribute to the conversation, dont just stand there. even if your contribution is minimal and you feel awkward, its significantly better than just being a cuck.
meeting new people is incredibly important and helps you create connections to people you might not have met otherwise, opening so many doors. people have a fear of rejection and so wont speak to randoms, but youll see successful people networking all the time.
note: dont be a social climber linkedin 'networker'f*g though, people will know when youre doing this and dislike you. theres a fine line you have to walk when doing this.
2. hobbies
get new hobbies, even if its some stupid shit. youll meet people that are outside of your 'comfort zone' and enrich you as a person. id recommend something sport based as gains duh, and in case you cant socialise for more than 3 minutes, you can excuse yourself to focus on your exercise. creative activities work too. this will create new topics of conversation for you, and if youre not too much of a sperg you can even invite people to come do these activities with you. i do this when i go to the gym and now have lots of gym buddies so i can see a different person or multiple people every time i go.
note: dont be pretentious about your hobbies, even if youre an Olympic level athlete (unless youre in a circle with people equally as good or better), do not brag about your achievements. normies dislike this as it makes them feel inferior, and people like to feel good about themselves, they wont want to spend too much time with someone who threatens them.
3. be spontaneous
probably one of the hardest things to achieve, i used to struggle with the idea of doing anything that didnt fit the idealised plan i had in my head, but to enjoy life you have to let go of the idea that things will work out a certain way, they probably wont and you have to be ok with that. be open to anything and your quality of life will increase immensely. you should pioneer side quests and look for any opportunity to deviate from the plan, as stupid as that sounds. you should aim to be the one making plans, people like when they dont have to be the ones doing the planning for events. when i refer to events, the things you arrange dont have to be large or elaborate most of the time people love a hangout on a friday, or even an invitation to just do something mundane together. surround yourself with people who have a similarly positive and spontaneous mindset.
note: the context of finding side quests matters, only do this when appropriate. if you overdo it, people will see you as flaky, or looking to escape their plans and might doubt your 'commitment' to them. try find different people to go on so called side quests with and do new things with.
4. cadence
the way you speak and carry yourself matters (obviously). dont force your way into other people's conversations, its a speedrun to getting ignored and feeling shit about yourself and reinforcing the mindset that youre an unlovable chud who cant even speak to people (untrue dw), picrel. maintain a neutral stance on most things, unfortunately to make a high iq chad/stacy like yourself palatable to the general population youll have to water yourself down a bit. people dont want to hear about how you think the aryan race is superior and how ER was right, stray away from such topics when speaking to normies even if its a joke. in fact you have to act unbothered about most things in life (low inhib n shiet), especially if someone makes a passive aggro comment towards you. laugh it off u dont wanna be a seething chud.
dont view yourself as superior or inferior, you are on par with these people, the people you look down on wake up, eat and suffer just like you. we are all the same deep down, even if we present ourselves differently.
note: compliment people often, aim to be authentic and not mindlessly glaze everyone. youd be surprised how much this improves how people see you. you might feel awkward, but i can promise you people dont see you as a strange autist chud and just appreciate the nice comment and go about their day.
your life's goal isnt to befriend everyone or to constantly be looking for other people to fulfil you, these things all come when you work on YOURSELF. you choose how to play the cards life dealt you, so prioritise improving yourself and being as well rounded as humanly possible, but these tips should aid this process and help you avoid being an outcast.
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