Discussion giving up is the right choice sometimes

[verbal]

if you're an ugly guy like me , and i mean truly ltn and below , giving up on women is way more relieving than you might think , i know that as long as i'm ltn there's literally no point in even trying , so my focus is on improving my looks and other aspects of my life instead of killing my self esteem and confidence in a lost battle . in the long run cultivating a false hope is more destructive than giving up

 

[thehammer]

if you're an ugly guy like me , and i mean truly ltn and below , giving up on women is way more relieving than you might think , i know that as long as i'm ltn there's literally no point in even trying , so my focus is on improving my looks and other aspects of my life instead of killing my self esteem and confidence in a lost battle . in the long run cultivating a false hope is more destructive than giving up

wouldnt say that theres no point at all
doesnt matter if you ltn or mtn you should always focus on other aspects in life either way
most importantly healthmaxx

 

[verbal]

wouldnt say that theres no point at all
doesnt matter if you ltn or mtn you should always focus on other aspects in life either way
most importantly healthmaxx

i agree my point is there is no point in wasting time with something that will only kill your self esteem , getting false hopes out of your head is beneficiary

 

[thehammer]

i agree my point is there is no point in wasting time with something that will only kill your self esteem , getting false hopes out of your head is beneficiary

I dont know you but the situation cant be that bad that you cant get yourself out of ltn with hardmaxx and softmaxx or whatever
its more like that the false hope comes in the way that you think that you can achieve hhtn or cl

 

[verbal]

I dont know you but the situation cant be that bad that you cant get yourself out of ltn with hardmaxx and softmaxx or whatever
its more like that the false hope comes in the way that you think that you can achieve hhtn or cl

i'm talking about women not my looks , i know that at the moment there's no point in trying

 

[thehammer]

i'm talking about women not my looks , i know that at the moment there's no point in trying

can you elaborate a bit more? I need context

 

[verbal]

can you elaborate a bit more? I need context

bro... i'm saying that when you're ugly ( ltn and below ) there's no point in trying to get girls because you'll just kill your self esteem in the long run , and you should get that idea of getting girls out of your head to focus on other aspects of your life

 

[thehammer]

bro... i'm saying that when you're ugly ( ltn and below ) there's no point in trying to get girls because you'll just kill your self esteem in the long run , and you should get that idea of getting girls out of your head to focus on other aspects of your life

yeah I get your point n***a
but what im saying is that its not entirely true, you can still get some sort of improvement if you focus on looksmaxxing and even if theres a 1% chance at getting a gf
its just that you dont need to obsess with the idea like literally anything else in life
take the good aspects out of it, continue improving while focusing on other things as well thats what everyone should do

 

[kafka]

date 2d waifus instead

 

[thehammer]

date 2d waifus instead

any recommendations?

 

[Nenestar]

when people say they gave up on women they just say it so they don't have to try and somehow still believe that after 5 years something will happen.

you can't just give up on this, unless you castrate yourself or cope yourself to death

 

[kafka]

any recommendations?

u like tomboys yeah?

• ryuko matoi
• balalaika
• revy
• akane owari
• nice holysotne
• mordred pendragon
• suzuha amane
• crusch karsten
• karen araragi
• aoi asahina
• yoko littner

 

[verbal]

when people say they gave up on women they just say it so they don't have to try and somehow still believe that after 5 years something will happen.

you can't just give up on this, unless you castrate yourself or cope yourself to death

of course sexual urges can't go away , but just because you have urges doesn't mean you will actively try to get girls . i don't think it's cope i think it's accepting a reality and putting a better use to your time . i dedicate a good portion of my time to bettering my looks and as long as i'm not in a satisfying range there's no point for me to dedicate time to try and get girls and just get rejected

 

[Nenestar]

of course sexual urges can't go away , but just because you have urges doesn't mean you will actively try to get girls . i don't think it's cope i think it's accepting a reality and putting a better use to your time . i dedicate a good portion of my time to bettering my looks and as long as i'm not in a satisfying range there's no point for me to dedicate time to try and get girls and just get rejected

this sounds like a text written by a person whose never tried talking to a girl, tbh.

Not saying you haven't but I read this exact line so often

 

[thehammer]

u like tomboys yeah?

• ryuko matoi
• balalaika
• revy
• akane owari
• nice holysotne
• mordred pendragon
• suzuha amane
• crusch karsten
• karen araragi
• aoi asahina
• yoko littner

holy shit bro thank you
lowkey need to find one irl though

 

[verbal]

this sounds like a text written by a person whose never tried talking to a girl, tbh.

Not saying you haven't but I read this exact line so often

i have , and got rejected everytime from 14-16 , i know what it did to my self esteem and decided it's a waste of time for now

 

[thehammer]

of course sexual urges can't go away , but just because you have urges doesn't mean you will actively try to get girls . i don't think it's cope i think it's accepting a reality and putting a better use to your time . i dedicate a good portion of my time to bettering my looks and as long as i'm not in a satisfying range there's no point for me to dedicate time to try and get girls and just get rejected

how many times have you tried bro

 

[thehammer]

i have , and got rejected everytime from 14-16 , i know what it did to my self esteem and decided it's a waste of time for now

damn n***a idk how bad your situation is lookswise so cant give advice

 

[verbal]

damn n***a idk how bad your situation is lookswise so cant give advice

i don't know why it's so hard for people to realize that yes there's some people who are fucking ugly , if you don't get my post you're just not as ugly as me lol

 

[thehammer]

i don't know why it's so hard for people to realize that yes there's some people who are fucking ugly , if you don't get my post you're just not as ugly as me lol

yeah cant comprehend it till i see it

 

[thehammer]

u like tomboys yeah?

• ryuko matoi
• balalaika
• revy
• akane owari
• nice holysotne
• mordred pendragon
• suzuha amane
• crusch karsten
• karen araragi
• aoi asahina
• yoko littner

golden list bro thanks