Got accused of r**e because I’m ugly

[ripjfk]

I went out with my friend for the first time in ages. I finally brought myself to ignore the aesthetic bias even though I noticed it so much throughout the night and I actually thought I looked decent. My friend had this other guy there and I was just sitting with them. We had some drinks but like, tipsy at most no one was slurring, no one was stumbling, it was little enough to still be able to drive legally. My friend and the guy left to another room and I was alone with the other guy we did some sexual stuff and it was 100% consensual on both ends. No one who gets r***d dominates the rapist in sex, lol. He also cuddled me after and said I wasn’t ugly and to stop saying that.
Not really related but I cleaned his house after the party. I was helping my drunk friend, it’s not like I was being disrespectful or anything — not that that was the reason he said what he said anyway.
So turns out a few days later he was messaging my best friend. He admitted to her that he wanted her the whole time. (She’s BEAUTIFUL) and honestly, the whole time I was talking to him I was actually hyping her up to him. I don’t care about guys like that sexually sure it feels good to be satisfied but I didn’t care for him like that. And of course he didn’t care for me either, but like even in fantasy land if he did no guys expect beautiful girls.. I genuinely thought they’d be a good match so I set it up.
But then he tells her I r***d him and pushed myself on him and that he only wanted her. I hate being the DUFF except I’m lanky instead of fat.

 

[milkjar]

I remember when I made a thread here about men getting falsely accused of SA and that it's a underrated issue and not enough people talk about it and people were shitting on me, holy aged like fine wine

 

[Xoogster]

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[ripjfk]

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[ripjfk]

I remember when I made a thread here about men getting falsely accused of SA and that it's a underrated issue and not enough people talk about it and people were shitting on me, holy aged like fine wine

I’m confused about why this comment “aged like fine wine.” PEOPLE not men or women specifically have been accusing others of r**e after consensual sex when they think they’re ugly, or to save face, or for many other reasons. This isn’t a gender thing. It’s an underrated issue, period. Not just a men’s issue. I know girls who have had this happen before, and I know guys as well. Your comment almost sounds like I somehow deserved it because it happens to men.

 

[Starlet]

I remember when I made a thread here about men getting falsely accused of SA and that it's a underrated issue and not enough people talk about it and people were shitting on me, holy aged like fine wine

OP is a girl

 

[Oxytocinspike67]

I like the kitty in your avi