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so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal blackpill
Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol
This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets
Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet
Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol
This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets
Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet