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had an awkward interaction yesterday

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so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal blackpill:bongotap::nopers:

Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol

This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets

Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet :bongotap::bongotap:
 
so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal blackpill:bongotap::nopers:

Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol

This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets

Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet :bongotap::bongotap:
Over. Brutal to say that you should get married when you've never dated somebody 😭
 
prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys
if shes used to getting compliments often she will require more compliments to stimulate herself. Shes just seeking dopamine subconsciously.
5'3 teramanlet
atleast you are handsome thats something to be happy about
 
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if shes used to getting compliments often she will require more compliments to stimulate herself. Shes just seeking dopamine subconsciously.
I guess, brutal that she needs it as a married woman though
atleast you are handsome thats something to be happy about
My height, or lack of height rather, cancels out anything positive
 
I guess, brutal that she needs it as a married woman though
more like disgusting. I saw a post once of a woman who was responding to someone on facebook. The person had said smth like “why do u never posts selfies”, implying that she was insecure. She said that if she started posting herself looking nice she would get used to having people compliment her. Then her husbands compliments wouldnt be as valuable. She said she would rather feel happy over a few compliments from her husband than alot of compliments from alot of people. I think thats very beautiful of her to prefer fewer compliments in order to preserve the romance of their relationship.
My height, or lack of height rather, cancels out anything positive
sure its alot harder to find a girl who is into short guys but when you do, u will have such an advantage
 
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more like disgusting. I saw a post once of a woman who was responding to someone on facebook. The person had said smth like “why do u never posts selfies”, implying that she was insecure. She said that if she started posting herself looking nice she would get used to having people compliment her. Then her husbands compliments wouldnt be as valuable. She said she would rather feel happy over a few compliments from her husband than alot of compliments from alot of people. I think thats very beautiful of her to prefer fewer compliments in order to preserve the romance of their relationship.
She's a rare gem, I can't even think of one girl in my age range I've ever known that hasn't posted atleast one bikini pic on ig lol, well, besides my oneitis in high school who didn't have any social media. I miss her :sadge:

sure its alot harder to find a girl who is into short guys but when you do, u will have such an advantage
girls who don't mind short guys also like tall guys though, plus I have mental barriers I gotta sort out to even have a chance with them. I appreciate it though, will try to be optimistic
 
my oneitis in high school who didn't have any social media. I miss her
😔😔😔
I have mental barriers I gotta sort out to even have a chance with them. I appreciate it though, will try to be optimistic
people often forget that negative traits come in packages. Youre not self conscious and short. Your self conscious because youre short. Being an undesirable height isnt just bad because u arent ideal, it also affects u in other ways that give u disadvantages.
Like i used to be really outgoing as a kid but then i realised i was ugly and now im pretty shy. So not only am i at a disadvantage bcs of my looks but also the personality attached to them that i wouldnt have had if i had been better looking.
 
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😔😔😔

people often forget that negative traits come in packages. Youre not self conscious and short. Your self conscious because youre short. Being an undesirable height isnt just bad because u arent ideal, it also affects u in other ways that give u disadvantages.
yep
Like i used to be really outgoing as a kid but then i realised i was ugly and now im pretty shy. So not only am i at a disadvantage bcs of my looks but also the personality attached to them that i wouldnt have had if i had been better looking.
yeah, like a sort of domino effect

U aren't ugly though lemonpie, it's just ur location
 
so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal
afghani ppl are so pretty it’s just unfair
Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk
it is kinda questionable if she’s married and asking you questions like that tbh
:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet :bongotap::bongotap:
Honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever be confident either. I’m not really the beauty standard tbh 💀💀. The good thing is that you’re not ugly tho. I’ve already said it, but all you need to do is get better at socializing. I’m telling you women aren’t that difficult, if you try you’ll find the right person
 
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afghani ppl are so pretty it’s just unfair
Yeah, this girl is Persian but even the Pashtuns I’ve interacted with mog and fog
it is kinda questionable if she’s married and asking you questions like that tbh
It is indeed, this whole convo was in front of my mom too 💀

I didn’t mention it in the post but she actually got married in her early teens in Afghanistan jfl, so I guess I can kinda understand why she might not be into him or whatever. She claims to like him though but he just sounds like a betabuxx to me. She showed me her TikTok DMs and was telling me how her husband doesn’t mind all of her attention seeking behavior jfl, I feel bad for him

Honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever be confident either. I’m not really the beauty standard tbh 💀💀.
The great shift

The good thing is that you’re not ugly tho.
My height is

and u aren’t either, u can improve ur appeal
I’ve already said it, but all you need to do is get better at socializing. I’m telling you women aren’t that difficult, if you try you’ll find the right person
Too scary :nopers:
 
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Yeah, could be worse I guess, atleast I’m not from the Midwest or something. I do see edgars my height get girls but they’re hella NT and low inhib

I’d rather stay incel, don’t wanna marry a curry foid
ur curry right
and if yes from where in india
 
Yeah, luckily I didn’t inherit typical curry pheno so a lot of normies think I’m mixed

I’m Telugu, my folks are from Telangana, they met in the states
whats the typical curry pheno bhai
pls tell me i want to know
 
Yeah, this girl is Persian but even the Pashtuns I’ve interacted with mog and fog
Yea true, a lot of them be hating on us tho 🙁. The ones I’ve met irl are really nice however
It is indeed, this whole convo was in front of my mom too 💀
I don’t think I could ask that in front of parents lmao
I didn’t mention it in the post but she actually got married in her early teens in Afghanistan jfl, so I guess I can kinda understand why she might not be into him or whatever. She claims to like him though but he just sounds like a betabuxx to me. She showed me her TikTok DMs and was telling me how her husband doesn’t mind all of her attention seeking behavior jfl, I feel bad for him
Tbh sounds like they deserve each other if he’s cool w her doing that. The whole concept of arranged marriage is an ick to me. Like if I’m gonna be w someone I want it to be “natural”, as cringey as that sounds 😭
The great shift
literally only Indians were talking about it, was such a massive cope for the hate we get 🥲
My height is

and u aren’t either, u can improve ur appeal
maybe for Indian standards I’m considered pretty, I went during summer and they were saying I looked like a “movie star” 💀💀. they have low standards tho and were mainly just praising me cause i have a lighter complexion. I have a cousin who’s ltn and is treated like a greek god cause he’s fair and has green eyes
Too scary :nopers:
DO IT 😭, what’s the worst that can happen?
 
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Yea true, a lot of them be hating on us tho 🙁. The ones I’ve met irl are really nice however
I’ve heard about the dislike on both sides online but yeah irl I’ve never rly seen it either. Even on hinge I get more matches from afghanis than ive ever gotten from curry girls lol
I don’t think I could ask that in front of parents lmao

Tbh sounds like they deserve each other if he’s cool w her doing that.
Yeah I guess, he’s a cuck but atleast he got kids with her
The whole concept of arranged marriage is an ick to me. Like if I’m gonna be w someone I want it to be “natural”, as cringey as that sounds 😭
Yeah same
literally only Indians were talking about it, was such a massive cope for the hate we get 🥲
*Indian girls
there will never be anything like that for brown guys, we’ll be forever seen as creeps thanks to libtards like Trudeau and joos pushing mass immigration :bongotap: fobs, especially the guys, tank our smv hard:pepehands:
maybe for Indian standards I’m considered pretty, I went during summer and they were saying I looked like a “movie star” 💀💀. they have low standards tho and were mainly just praising me cause i have a lighter complexion. I have a cousin who’s ltn and is treated like a greek god cause he’s fair and has green eyes
even for western standards u aren’t ugly, but yeah it’s all bout coloring in curryland, brootal stuff

DO IT 😭, what’s the worst that can happen?
when they see I’m awkward and inexperienced my nonexistent self esteem will somehow tank harder :bongotap:
 
I’ve heard about the dislike on both sides online but yeah irl I’ve never rly seen it either. Even on hinge I get more matches from afghanis than ive ever gotten from curry girls lol
that's surprising, seems like you're doing good on dating apps tho
Yeah I guess, he’s a cuck but atleast he got kids with her
Kids are so much work :nopers:. I've told my parents that im prob never gonna have kids but they think it's just a joke lmao. Maybe I'll change my mind but I doubt it
*Indian girls
there will never be anything like that for brown guys, we’ll be forever seen as creeps thanks to libtards like Trudeau and joos pushing mass immigration :bongotap: fobs, especially the guys, tank our smv hard:pepehands:

even for western standards u aren’t ugly, but yeah it’s all bout coloring in curryland, brootal stuff
Fuck all the fobs, you're right about them damaging our rep. Literally no social awareness and they don't take care of themselves. Indians born and raised in the west are not as chopped and weird as they are. Honestly if it wasn't for them, we might have had a chance at being considered attractive 😭
when they see I’m awkward and inexperienced my nonexistent self esteem will somehow tank harder :bongotap:
Find someone who understands that then, plus the more you get comfortable w someone the less you'll feel awkward
 
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that's surprising, seems like you're doing good on dating apps tho
As soon as I add my height to the bio, tinder and bumble become ghost towns, well besides whales and trannies but they don't count :bongotap:

Hinge is the only one that works in spite of my manletism, the women seem better too so I guess I can't complain
Kids are so much work :nopers:. I've told my parents that im prob never gonna have kids but they think it's just a joke lmao. Maybe I'll change my mind but I doubt it
I think you will eventually
I'm an only child and was hella lonely growing up cause we lived in the boonies part of town and my folks were always working. I want a huge family lol, atleast 4 kids

Fuck all the fobs, you're right about them damaging our rep. Literally no social awareness and they don't take care of themselves. Indians born and raised in the west are not as chopped and weird as they are. Honestly if it wasn't for them, we might have had a chance at being considered attractive 😭
Fr fr :rainbowpls:
THEY HVE TO GO BACK :bongotap:

Find someone who understands that then, plus the more you get comfortable w someone the less you'll feel awkward
Not happening, I'll be incel 4eva!

 
As soon as I add my height to the bio, tinder and bumble become ghost towns, well besides whales and trannies but they don't count :bongotap:
Height does matter unfortunately, at least short men have the face cards tho. It’s like god evened it out lmao
Hinge is the only one that works in spite of my manletism, the women seem better too so I guess I can't complain
Yea hinge is way better in terms of quality. Catfished as a htb pajeeta and actually got guys who were her looksmatch . I’m sure if I used a girl of another race there would have been more matches tho 😀
I think you will eventually
I'm an only child and was hella lonely growing up cause we lived in the boonies part of town and my folks were always working. I want a huge family lol, atleast 4 kids
You’re on your own with that 💀💀. I’m not responsible enough to raise kids tbh
Fr fr :rainbowpls:
THEY HVE TO GO BACK :bongotap:
I get second hand embarrassment from them fr 😭
Not happening, I'll be incel 4eva!


You stay being negative omg 😭, just actually try for once
 
so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal blackpill:bongotap::nopers:

Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol

This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets

Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet :bongotap::bongotap:
Hey bhai what's up! Made my account

So Yeah she's just an attentionwhore lol and like the others have said she's doing the typical foid shit on muh confidence
 
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Yea hinge is way better in terms of quality. Catfished as a htb pajeeta and actually got guys who were her looksmatch . I’m sure if I used a girl of another race there would have been more matches tho 😀
What did u choose for the relationship option for the experiment? Just curious, I have mine set for long term on hinge
You’re on your own with that 💀💀. I’m not responsible enough to raise kids tbh
well I do think you’ll come around to it, but if not I wish u luck in finding a child free guy. The few of them that exist are off putting to say the least jfl, so be wary of that

I get second hand embarrassment from them fr 😭
even if we stop them from coming it’ll take ages to repair the damage they did to our rep :sadge:
You stay being negative omg 😭, just actually try for once
Height does matter unfortunately,
I’m tfl, till my casket drops… I’m tfl, till my casket drops :bongotap:
 
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Hey bhai what's up! Made my account

So Yeah she's just an attentionwhore lol and like the others have said she's doing the typical foid shit on muh confidence
Welcome broski!:peepoclap:
 
What did u choose for the relationship option for the experiment? Just curious, I have mine set for long term on hinge
I think I set it to short-term, open to long. I mainly got matches from south asian, white, and black guys. There were a few east asians and arabs too. They weren’t just mid guys either, some genuinely attractive guys.
Pretty surprised cause I thought pajeeta smv was so gutter that even being an htb wouldn’t make up for it 😭
well I do think you’ll come around to it, but if not I wish u luck in finding a child free guy. The few of them that exist are off putting to say the least jfl, so be wary of that
Yea, I’m aware 💀💀. Hopefully I can find a normal one tho. If not, I’m open to dating women too
even if we stop them from coming it’ll take ages to repair the damage they did to our rep :sadge:
Yea, it’s so brutal 🥲. Will take at least another 2 years for the hate to calm down. It’s crazy cause I still some other races complaining about their smv 😭. Like, do you not see how bad we have it??
I’m tfl, till my casket drops… I’m tfl, till my casket drops :bongotap:
Your life is what you make it ngl
 
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I think I set it to short-term, open to long. I mainly got matches from south asian, white, and black guys. There were a few east asians and arabs too. They weren’t just mid guys either, some genuinely attractive guys.
Pretty surprised cause I thought pajeeta smv was so gutter that even being an htb wouldn’t make up for it 😭
I see, I don’t find that surprising though, guys just don’t get as hung up on race as women do

Maybe I should change it to short term and see what happens with my match rate. I don’t think I’d want to go out with those women though, they’d prob expect someone with atleast some experience. I just want a wifey:bongotap:

Yea, I’m aware 💀💀. Hopefully I can find a normal one tho. If not, I’m open to dating women too
Every women is bi confirmed :bongotap:

Yea, it’s so brutal 🥲. Will take at least another 2 years for the hate to calm down
Way longer imo, in the states like 10yrs

In places like Canada atleast like 20-30ys to repair the damage

Your life is what you make it ngl
We’ll hve to agree to disagree, I’m a strong proponent of genetic determinism
 
I see, I don’t find that surprising though, guys just don’t get as hung up on race as women do
Nah have you seen the memes on TikTok about Indian girls 😭. There are a lot of guys who are disgusted by the thought of us. It genuinely hurts but the experiment kinda made me feel better
Maybe I should change it to short term and see what happens with my match rate. I don’t think I’d want to go out with those women though, they’d prob expect someone with atleast some experience. I just want a wifey:bongotap:
Just try it, unless you’re genuinely an asshole you can’t mess up that badly. Literally all a girl wants is a guy that treats her well 😭
Every women is bi confirmed :bongotap:
Men too, but they won’t admit it
Way longer imo, in the states like 10yrs

In places like Canada atleast like 20-30ys to repair the damage
I meant in terms of the recent hate wave. For smv, yea that’ll take a lot of work to improve. We need our own kpop or kdramas
We’ll hve to agree to disagree, I’m a strong proponent of genetic determinism
But you’re not completely fucked tho? You’re just short but you’re good looking
 
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Nah have you seen the memes on TikTok about Indian girls 😭. There are a lot of guys who are disgusted by the thought of us. It genuinely hurts but the experiment kinda made me feel better
Just ragebait imo, most guys, especially for short term, don’t rly care about race

Just try it, unless you’re genuinely an asshole you can’t mess up that badly. Literally all a girl wants is a guy that treats her well 😭
Well for hookups I doubt women are gonna be interested in teaching a 25 yr old khhv lol, just seems hella awkward. Plus I feel like it’s a waste of time for me, I’m already old, if I ever date it’ll be for marriage. I wanna have kids while I’m still relatively young
Men too, but they won’t admit it
If only :bongotap:
I meant in terms of the recent hate wave. For smv, yea that’ll take a lot of work to improve. We need our own kpop or kdramas
I don’t think that’s ever happening, Bollywood has never had that appeal, unless they drastically change I don’t see it happening

Best case is that we get better Indian American representation, less Mindy kalings and azizs’, more Laras, raynas, and sendhils’


But you’re not completely fucked tho? You’re just short but you’re good looking
Mind’s fucked though. Atleast surgeries exist for looks, no lobotomies for my brain
 
Just ragebait imo, most guys, especially for short term, don’t rly care about race
I saw a video w over 80k likes joking about how they’d never want their son bringing home an Indian girl 💀💀. The ppl hating on us are almost always ugly and degenerate however. There is a really popular Indian girl that has guys down bad for her tho. Even bronny james was liking her pics
Well for hookups I doubt women are gonna be interested in teaching a 25 yr old khhv lol, just seems hella awkward. Plus I feel like it’s a waste of time for me, I’m already old, if I ever date it’ll be for marriage. I wanna have kids while I’m still relatively young
Yea, I meant for relationships. If you’re concerned about age you should start now then 😭.
If only :bongotap:

I don’t think that’s ever happening, Bollywood has never had that appeal, unless they drastically change I don’t see it happening
The only thing we have going for us is yoga and spirituality. You have a good chance at attracting hot hippie women if you’re Indian
Best case is that we get better Indian American representation, less Mindy kalings and azizs’, more Laras, raynas, and sendhils’
Lara is so hot 😍. I hate mindy and aziz tho, always begging for white validation. If you make a mockery of your ppl it’s not good rep 💀💀
Mind’s fucked though. Atleast surgeries exist for looks, no lobotomies for my brain
You underestimate how many ppl are mentally fucked, ppl are just good at hiding it
 
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I saw a video w over 80k likes joking about how they’d never want their son bringing home an Indian girl 💀💀. The ppl hating on us are almost always ugly and degenerate however. There is a really popular Indian girl that has guys down bad for her tho. Even bronny james was liking her pics
yeah it's mostly ugly dudes hating on brown girls, whereas literally everyone dislikes curry guys jfl

Yea, I meant for relationships. If you’re concerned about age you should start now then 😭.
It's ober tbh

The only thing we have going for us is yoga and spirituality. You have a good chance at attracting hot hippie women if you’re Indian
I feel like that association is a relic of the 70s and 80s, most people now when they think of indians think of nasty ahh street food and call center scammers jfl

Lara is so hot 😍. I hate mindy and aziz tho, always begging for white validation. If you make a mockery of your ppl it’s not good rep 💀💀
She's cute, not rly my type though
Sophia and Daniela however :rainbowpls: need me a castiza mami :peepoLove:

Rayna's fine ash but is huWhite guy only

You underestimate how many ppl are mentally fucked, ppl are just good at hiding it
not all illnesses are equal

There's a diff between, for ex, a girl with bpd and a neurotic, anxious guy like me. One still has a dating life but tends to hve toxic relationships, the other remains single unless they're very attractive to compensate
 
yeah it's mostly ugly dudes hating on brown girls, whereas literally everyone dislikes curry guys jfl
yea it kinda annoys me cause the brown men in my family and around me are very supportive of women. not saying guys in India don’t treat women like shit but ppl like to cherry-pick 😭. Japanese and Korean mean treat their women horribly but women fawn over them. Media has done a really good job of sweeping their behavior under the rug. Not to mention these girls constantly romanticize Arabs. The men can literally joke about kidnapping women and girls will think it’s hot 💀💀. Like imagine if an Indian guy did that??
It's ober tbh
Never over 🙃
I feel like that association is a relic of the 70s and 80s, most people now when they think of indians think of nasty ahh street food and call center scammers jfl
The girls who are into yoga and spirituality won’t be racist tho 😭. They’re the demographic who it would be best to go for.
She's cute, not rly my type though
thankful for her cause she’s uplifting brown girls tho 🤞🏼
Sophia and Daniela however :rainbowpls: need me a castiza mami :peepoLove:
Sophia is really pretty to me, don’t find Daniela that attractive tbh
Rayna's fine ash but is huWhite guy only
She’s mixed what did you expect 😭😭. They are almost always exclusively into white men.
not all illnesses are equal

There's a diff between, for ex, a girl with bpd and a neurotic, anxious guy like me. One still has a dating life but tends to hve toxic relationships, the other remains single unless they're very attractive to compensate
You are attractive tho?? Even if you’re short and have anxiety, you can still find a women who’d love you
 
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yea it kinda annoys me cause the brown men in my family and around me are very supportive of women. not saying guys in India don’t treat women like shit but ppl like to cherry-pick 😭. Japanese and Korean mean treat their women horribly but women fawn over them. Media has done a really good job of sweeping their behavior under the rug. Not to mention these girls constantly romanticize Arabs. The men can literally joke about kidnapping women and girls will think it’s hot 💀💀. Like imagine if an Indian guy did that??
fob guys are just the worst of the worst, and western curry guys suffer cause of them. Even if fob women hve some weird traits they don't get called out as much cause men wanna smash anything that moves
Never over 🙃
over! :bongotap:
The girls who are into yoga and spirituality won’t be racist tho 😭. They’re the demographic who it would be best to go for.
I guess, I match with some alternative women, so somewhat similar. They both tend to be stoners though, no go for me:bongotap:
thankful for her cause she’s uplifting brown girls tho 🤞🏼
yeah, she tends to get curry taxed unfortunately, she has like the best vocals in the group and is an allrounder but gets like the most hate jfl

She has good fashion sense too, a bit chaotic at times but it fogs hard, she rocks the bindi well too

Sophia is really pretty to me, don’t find Daniela that attractive tbh
I find Sophie cuter but our sons would be SEA looking incels :nopers: Daniela and I would hve caucasoid moggers and foggers!:rainbowpls:
She’s mixed what did you expect 😭😭. They are almost always exclusively into white men.
brootal :pepehands:
You are attractive tho??
Not enough to compensate
Even if you’re short and have anxiety, you can still find a women who’d love you
the NTpill buckbroke me :copium:
 
fob guys are just the worst of the worst, and western curry guys suffer cause of them. Even if fob women hve some weird traits they don't get called out as much cause men wanna smash anything that moves
nah cause some of the fob guys in the likes during the experiment ??. overweight, not styled properly, and broken English in their bios. the western brown guys who matched w me were way hotter 😭😭
🙁🙁
I guess, I match with some alternative women, so somewhat similar. They both tend to be stoners though, no go for me:bongotap:
Yea they’re pretty open to brown guys from what I’ve seen. I guess if you’re not into stoners it doesn’t mean much tho 💀💀
yeah, she tends to get curry taxed unfortunately, she has like the best vocals in the group and is an allrounder but gets like the most hate jfl

She has good fashion sense too, a bit chaotic at times but it fogs hard, she rocks the bindi well too
literally just cause she has ethnic features, she looks good w them tho. also she doesn’t shy away from her culture and ppl have issues w that 😭
I find Sophie cuter but our sons would be SEA looking incels :nopers: Daniela and I would hve caucasoid moggers and foggers!:rainbowpls:
caucasoid moggers 😂. who gives a shit, normies don’t care about skull shape or whatever
not brutal, everyone wants dravidian bulls these days 😉
Not enough to compensate

the NTpill buckbroke me :copium:
it is what it is. you’re not ugly so it’s not hopeless
 
Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to
Weird behavior from here esp if shes lit a married stacylite. Why does she care if u get married or not. she is the one with zero confidence. It is actually sad to see that. I hope she figures out why she needs this constant validation from random guys and heals. Does her husband know she's going around doing this ...?
 
so for context like a yr and a half ago at my first ever job (it was a warehouse) I worked with this afghani stacylite girl, she'd legit get approached every few mins by guys, it was fucking nuts. Turns out she's like in her late 20s and is married with kids, yet she still entertains the flirting, brutal blackpill:bongotap::nopers:

Coincidentally my mom and her ran into each other and became friends, so now she comes to our house like every week lol

This girl needs like constant validation. Whenever she comes over she shows me photos of herself and talks about guys hitting on her and all the attention she gets

Anyways, she came over yesterday for chai and shows me photos of her at a wedding and asks me if I think she's pretty jfl, we have such a weird dynamic idk how to even explain it. Or maybe it just feels that way to me cause I'm not NT, idk:bongotap: I awkwardly tell her yeah and then she starts asking me about dating and marriage and tells me that I should get married soon. I tell her that I've never even dated anyone and she's like you need muuuh confidence and tells me how I'm too reserved and shy. JFL she despite being objectively attractive prob doesn't have it herself and constantly seeks attention and validation from random guys yet expects me to hve confidence as a 5'3 teramanlet :bongotap::bongotap:
it happens man
 
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nah cause some of the fob guys in the likes during the experiment ??. overweight, not styled properly, and broken English in their bios. the western brown guys who matched w me were way hotter 😭😭
I meant our rep suffers in general, but yeah lookswise we're def leagues better lol

🙁🙁

Yea they’re pretty open to brown guys from what I’ve seen. I guess if you’re not into stoners it doesn’t mean much tho 💀💀
well def not for ltrs, not sure how it'd work with me being sober, just different lifestyles

literally just cause she has ethnic features, she looks good w them tho. also she doesn’t shy away from her culture and ppl have issues w that 😭
:sadge:
caucasoid moggers 😂. who gives a shit, normies don’t care about skull shape or whatever
it isn't just skull shape though, it's the overall phenotype, it determines most of our facial features

not brutal, everyone wants dravidian bulls these days 😉

it is what it is. you’re not ugly so it’s not hopeless
Disagree but let's end it here for now :bongotap:
 
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Weird behavior from here esp if shes lit a married stacylite. Why does she care if u get married or not.
she was just trying to give me advice I guess, idk. She said I'm already getting old and that I shouldn't end up like her brothers who are 30+ and apparently can't find women to marry

she is the one with zero confidence. It is actually sad to see that. I hope she figures out why she needs this constant validation from random guys and heals
yeah
Does her husband know she's going around doing this ...?
He apparently does and is fine with it lol, what an absolute cuck. I haven't seen him yet but he's apparently normie tier, so atleast he ascended his bloodline I guess jfl
 

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