Discussion Have you ever actually approached someone that gave you an IOI?

[DonJuanDeMarco]

I read it all the time “yeah bro I was at this mall and so many girls gave me IOIs man it was lifuel”. But they’re too high inhib to actually approach them, so they just stare from a distance..

Now have any of you actually approached and what was ur experience?

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

no

 

[ey88]

I’ve never approached a girl in my life

 

[Whitepill]

Yes, it went ok. Didn't translate to a slay though, so really means nothing. Most incels IOIs are just slight glances or stares, they don't differentiate between that and actual desire, and call it an IOI. The true test to see if it was an IOI or not is to look in the mirror

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

A couple of times, in those cases it was obvious so there were no problems afterwards
I was more used to the opposite

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

A couple of times, in those cases it was obvious so there were no problems afterwards
I was more used to the opposite

What happened after?

 

[ruk]

yes. it’s very cringe having to make excuses as to why i can’t give my number/socials every time

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

What happened after?

I refused the commitment, something like that

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

yes. it’s very cringe having to make excuses as to why i can’t give my number/socials every time

I meant as in, did U approach someone. But damn do u get approached by ltbs all the time or sum

 

[ruk]

I meant as in, did U approach someone. But damn do u get approach by ltbs all the time or sum

fuck i read it wrong no i don’t approach ever that’s too scary

ltbs-htbs of all races have approached me, I decline all due to personal reasons

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

ltb-htb of all races have approached me, I decline all due to personal reasons

huhhh. I can understand rejecting ltbs or mtb but htb???

 

[ruk]

huhhh. I can understand rejecting ltbs or mtb but htb???

yeah but i don’t reject them because of their loox, it’s due to personal reasons

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I unironically used to do the same

yeah but i don’t reject them because of their loox, it’s due to personal reasons

 

[PimpMyLoox]

Only IOI that counts is P in the V. Bored girls flirt or give strong "IOIs" all the time and then go cold later when Chad from Tinder texts them.

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Time for my story..
So I used to be kinda low inhib after a few drinks. This was before I knew of any looksmaxxing stuff and I was lowk cooked at that point (bloated high bf%).
So I went up to a few girls at events/parties and got the usual “I have a boyfriend”. Shit was brutal. Been blackpilled ever since, leanmaxxed and same girls suddenly gave me attention. But I won’t approach until I ascend a bit more.

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Only IOI that counts is P in the V. Bored girls flirt or give strong "IOIs" all the time and then go cold later when Chad from Tinder texts them.

Better to be rejected than to waste an opportunity, I'm not an example of this and it wouldn't be better for the psyche, but functionally for “reproduction or mating” it would be

 

[PimpMyLoox]

Better to be rejected than to waste an opportunity, I'm not an example of this and it wouldn't be better for the psyche, but functionally for “reproduction or mating” it would be

I swallowed the BP hard, no going back from that.