Help with Jealousy?

[Kittystrophic]

Basically my best friend is weirdly jealous of me and I don’t know how to deal with it. I’ve been close to her for over a year now and she’s always been very sweet and vice versa. Until around~4/5 months ago she met this new kid at our school and developed a FAT crush on him. Thing is, he likes me rather than her.. a lot. And ever since she found that out she became stupidly jealous and has to make it weird whenever anyone compliments me.

I’m BMI 17 but have a very visibly WHR as i’m a pear shape. She’s maybe higher BMI 26, it looks good on her imo but I know she’s insecure. And everytime I get complimented on something that’s even slightly weight related she’ll instantly go with „oh yeah she used to be anorexic.” (just because i lost weight quickly) or „I was the same when I was skinny.” and it makes me feel very awkward?? E.g today in the cafeteria the guy play-punched my cheek (obviously with no pressure at all) but then went to point out how my cheekbones feel prominent. She replied with „Ugh I had the same when I was skinny.” and another time, a mutual friend of ours complimented my waist and my bsf started touching my tummy going „ohhh I miss being skinny. It’s so bad for you though..” IT GETS SO AWKWARD. I HATE IT.


TLDR: Bsf is upset I weigh less than her and turns every compliment I get into being centered around her.

 

[Yani]

Cut her off

 

[Kittystrophic]

Cut her off

Im literally moving in with her in like 6 months, bit hard to. She’s extremely nice other than this lol

 

[SASALELE]

Basically my best friend is weirdly jealous of me and I don’t know how to deal with it. I’ve been close to her for over a year now and she’s always been very sweet and vice versa. Until around~4/5 months ago she met this new kid at our school and developed a FAT crush on him. Thing is, he likes me rather than her.. a lot. And ever since she found that out she became stupidly jealous and has to make it weird whenever anyone compliments me.

I’m BMI 17 but have a very visibly WHR as i’m a pear shape. She’s maybe higher BMI 26, it looks good on her imo but I know she’s insecure. And everytime I get complimented on something that’s even slightly weight related she’ll instantly go with „oh yeah she used to be anorexic.” (just because i lost weight quickly) or „I was the same when I was skinny.” and it makes me feel very awkward?? E.g today in the cafeteria the guy play-punched my cheek (obviously with no pressure at all) but then went to point out how my cheekbones feel prominent. She replied with „Ugh I had the same when I was skinny.” and another time, a mutual friend of ours complimented my waist and my bsf started touching my tummy going „ohhh I miss being skinny. It’s so bad for you though..” IT GETS SO AWKWARD. I HATE IT.


TLDR: Bsf is upset I weigh less than her and turns every compliment I get into being centered around her.

help her lose weight

 

[Orka]

have a very visibly WHR as i’m a pear shape

wtf does this mean

 

[SASALELE]

wtf does this mean

her waist to hip ratio is good and her ass is fatter than her boobs

 

[Kittystrophic]

wtf does this mean

WHR = waist hip ratio
Pear = female body type.

 

[Orka]

Im literally moving in with her in like 6 months, bit hard to. She’s extremely nice other than this lol

I've had my fair share of unbearable friends, you need to talk to her about this right now or you'll regret it, you shouldn't be living with somebody that annoys you and seems to (at least in my opinion) want you to fail in a way

 

[Orka]

her waist to hip ratio is good and her ass is fatter than her boobs

WHR = waist hip ratio
Pear = female body type.

thanks

 

[Kittystrophic]

help her lose weight

I’d love to, she went to the gym a few times but idk how to help her without offending her Like I mentioned, we’re moving in together in the near future and I cook a lot so I’ll most likely just offer to cook for her too and make it lower calorie

 

[Kittystrophic]

I've had my fair share of unbearable friends, you need to talk to her about this right now or you'll regret it, you shouldn't be living with somebody that annoys you and seems to (at least in my opinion) want you to fail in a way

I probably will tell her it makes me uncomfortable if it’s done again, she’s kinda been doing it less as people tend to ignore it as it makes it awkward. She keeps trying to tell me to gain weight and it’s a tad weird

 

[TonyDr]

Until around~4/5 months ago she met this new kid at our school and developed a FAT crush on him. Thing is, he likes me rather than her.. a lot. And ever since she found that out she became stupidly jealous and has to make it weird whenever anyone compliments me.

Grab her by the ballsack and tell that you dgaf about her crush, you aren't interested in him at all, and she should forget about him asap if he's interested in an other woman.

 

[Orka]

She keeps trying to tell me to gain weight and it’s a tad weird

Very weird, if she finds out that her crush prefers you I wouldn't be surprised if she ends up ditching you or trying to make you look bad to others

Based off of the few psychopathic friendships i've had with women

 

[ponyboy]

I dnr'ed it but vaptans can reduce vasopressin