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After unforeseen but very predictable turn of events… I have failed again to get a girl

I’m thinking, my real personality doesn’t work for very obvious reasons, no fake personality will work… I’ve kinda soft maxed as much as I can, and I’ve grown more and more sexist to the point I don’t even enjoy talking to girls
(And before a foid says “you treat girls like shit” my sister has seen my DMs and found nothing wrong)

I don’t think I’ll make it guys, ima just have to live as a chud, Zyzz might have been wrong
 
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After unforeseen but very predictable turn of events… I have failed again to get a girl

I’m thinking, my real personality doesn’t work for very obvious reasons, no fake personality will work… I’ve kinda soft maxed as much as I can, and I’ve grown more and more sexist to the point I don’t even enjoy talking to girls
(And before a foid says “you treat girls like shit” my sister has seen my DMs and found nothing wrong)

I don’t think I’ll make it guys, ima just have to live as a chud, Zyzz might have been wrong
rope is the option for us
Roping is to accept defeat, you'll find someone
 
After unforeseen but very predictable turn of events… I have failed again to get a girl

I’m thinking, my real personality doesn’t work for very obvious reasons, no fake personality will work… I’ve kinda soft maxed as much as I can, and I’ve grown more and more sexist to the point I don’t even enjoy talking to girls
(And before a foid says “you treat girls like shit” my sister has seen my DMs and found nothing wrong)

I don’t think I’ll make it guys, ima just have to live as a chud, Zyzz might have been wrong
shit happens onto the next bruddah ❤️
 
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Learn manipulation tactics.
Like being more charismatic by moving your hands a bit while talking.
Etc etc.
 
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After unforeseen but very predictable turn of events… I have failed again to get a girl

I’m thinking, my real personality doesn’t work for very obvious reasons, no fake personality will work… I’ve kinda soft maxed as much as I can, and I’ve grown more and more sexist to the point I don’t even enjoy talking to girls
(And before a foid says “you treat girls like shit” my sister has seen my DMs and found nothing wrong)

I don’t think I’ll make it guys, ima just have to live as a chud, Zyzz might have been wrong
Lowk you HAVE TO make your real personality work bc what happens when you’re stuck for life with someone who doesn’t even know you
 
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shit happens onto the next bruddah ❤️
I can’t keep doing next ones big dog, I’ve counted to many rejections like at least 15 at this point as an adult,
 
After unforeseen but very predictable turn of events… I have failed again to get a girl

I’m thinking, my real personality doesn’t work for very obvious reasons, no fake personality will work… I’ve kinda soft maxed as much as I can, and I’ve grown more and more sexist to the point I don’t even enjoy talking to girls
(And before a foid says “you treat girls like shit” my sister has seen my DMs and found nothing wrong)

I don’t think I’ll make it guys, ima just have to live as a chud, Zyzz might have been wrong
Ngl I have been a chud and I have been a slayer. Chuds be peaceful n shiet never stress
 
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Learn manipulation tactics.
Like being more charismatic by moving your hands a bit while talking.
Etc etc.
Trust me… I do, copying body language closing distance, looking at lips or eyes, holding, that just gets you a one night stand not a girl
 
I can’t keep doing next ones big dog, I’ve counted to many rejections like at least 15 at this point as an adult,
Do you have any hobbies other than looksmaxxing not like a rude question but maybe I can give you suggestions since I am basically always talking to someone
 
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Ngl I have been a chud and I have been a slayer. Chuds be peaceful n shiet never stress
I hate peace I’m not a peaceful person
 
Trust me… I do, copying body language closing distance, looking at lips or eyes, holding, that just gets you a one night stand not a girl
You have to manipulate your girl to be dependent on you for validation.
Cripple her ego and make her reliant on you to feel whole
 
Do you have any hobbies other than looksmaxxing not like a rude question but maybe I can give you suggestions since I am basically always talking to someone
Minecraft redstone, philosophy, computers, marvel rivals
Bitches don’t fuck with those things
 
Trust me… I do, copying body language closing distance, looking at lips or eyes, holding, that just gets you a one night stand not a girl
As someone who has struggled with communication and still does I just stare through them and often recon the girls I want to talk to so I know how they act what makes them laugh etc etc
 
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You have to manipulate your girl to be dependent on you for validation.
Cripple her ego and make her reliant on you to feel whole
I’ll give it a shot, but I gota learn a lot more for that
 
As someone who has struggled with communication and still does I just stare through them and often recon the girls I want to talk to so I know how they act what makes them laugh etc etc
I don’t struggle with communication, I’m exstreamly extroverted
 
Minecraft redstone, philosophy, computers, marvel rivals
Bitches don’t fuck with those things
I know hella bitches who fuck with these things find an event centered around stuff like this and chances are you’ll run into someone who you genuineky like like

Maybe a local comic book or card and games stores they have lots of specialized events
 
I know hella bitches who fuck with these things find an event centered around stuff like this and chances are you’ll run into someone who you genuineky like like

Maybe a local comic book or card and games stores they have lots of specialized events
Better yet for lower inhib go to a bar with a trivia night about smth youre interested in or like a themed bar (idk if they have these where you live bc im from a big city but it’s worth a shot)
 
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I know hella bitches who fuck with these things find an event centered around stuff like this and chances are you’ll run into someone who you genuineky like like

Maybe a local comic book or card and games stores they have lots of specialized events
Foid I understand how you can think that…. But that is not how it works, no girl cares about Minecraft piston qusi connectivity or finds my ability to play spider man well to be attractive. They WOULD find it to be attractive if I was HTN but I’m not it would be generous to call me average
 
Better yet for lower inhib go to a bar with a trivia night about smth youre interested in or like a themed bar (idk if they have these where you live bc im from a big city but it’s worth a shot)
I go out all the time, I’m a very extroverted person, I have I inhib and I’m not Nero divergent at all
 
Foid I understand how you can think that…. But that is not how it works, no girl cares about Minecraft piston qusi connectivity or finds my ability to play spider man well to be attractive. They WOULD find it to be attractive if I was HTN but I’m not it would be generous to call me average
Yeah I do see how average or lower than average looks can make nerdy interests more of a failo than otherwise

maybe looking into fashion coukd help bc ik for myself personally and a lot of other girls if they see a guy dressed well in a style they prefer it’ll add interest (think skater styles or opium/underground rap) nichemaxxing might really help you here
 
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Yeah I do see how average or lower than average looks can make nerdy interests more of a failo than otherwise

maybe looking into fashion coukd help bc ik for myself personally and a lot of other girls if they see a guy dressed well in a style they prefer it’ll add interest (think skater styles or opium/underground rap) nichemaxxing might really help you here
First… I do skate, second that’s my whole astetic, and third I spend a lot of money on my cloths, I live in Atlanta and go to tons of underground events

I understand how you think the world works… I’m telling you that’s not how it actually goes for guys
 

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Yeah I do see how average or lower than average looks can make nerdy interests more of a failo than otherwise

maybe looking into fashion coukd help bc ik for myself personally and a lot of other girls if they see a guy dressed well in a style they prefer it’ll add interest (think skater styles or opium/underground rap) nichemaxxing might really help you here
Mirin effect though
 
First… I do skate, second that’s my whole astetic, and third I spend a lot of money on my cloths, I live in Atlanta and go to tons of underground events

I understand how you think the world works… I’m telling you that’s not how it actually goes for guys
yeah I mean thars probabky the best I can give ya based on how I’d choose who to date/how I go about it myself

I am pretty close to certain that you will find someone at some point before youre like 25 you might just be getting in your own way idk how you socialize
 
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yeah I mean thars probabky the best I can give ya based on how I’d choose who to date/how I go about it myself

I am pretty close to certain that you will find someone at some point before youre like 25 you might just be getting in your own way idk how you socialize
Unless you are like really on god seriously ugly but it shouldn’t be crazy or surprising for an average or somewhat below average guy to be able to find love - i see it about a hundred times a day - it just might have to be someone more “in your league”? Maybe you are shooting too high idk love comes from unexpected places fr
 
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