how are people not shy

[aryy]

tbh i always get shy, like if someone random talks to me or smth. even if im dating someone i still get shy
The only way im comfortable with someone is if i talk first

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

I’ve been in a relationship in almost 3 months now, I’m still scared to be around her

 

[Sammy]

idk u jus gotta disassociate with reality type shit

 

[aryy]

I’ve been in a relationship in almost 3 months now, I’m still scared to be around her

i relate

 

[snow]

Need propanalol and just pretend that you’re confident

 

[aryy]

Need propanalol and just pretend that you’re confident

true, i wish i was naturally confident

 

[snow]

true, i wish i was naturally confident

Im not either just fake it nobody can tell the difference

 

[Auggy]

Being social like a normal person should beg
Being a shy person isn’t cute it’s embarrassing to be in adulthood tbh

 

[aryy]

Being social like a normal person should beg
Being a shy person isn’t cute it’s embarrassing to be in adulthood tbh

true i know it will impact my life and future opportunities but i have no clue what to do ive always been like this

 

[2carlet]

tbh i always get shy, like if someone random talks to me or smth. even if im dating someone i still get shy
The only way im comfortable with someone is if i talk first

easy way :get high
hard way :just have to start doing shit that makes u uncomfortable and it goes away slowly, atleast in my case

 

[aryy]

easy way :get high
hard way :just have to start doing shit that makes u uncomfortable and it goes away slowly, atleast in my case

true, but i fall back right into it. atp it feels like my default state

 

[mxri]

Because humans r fucking lame

 

[</3]

i used to take 2 shots before anything social even if it was completely socially unacceptable.
ive quit drinking for now though i think ive got over the social anxietu

 

[Dervogel]

tbh i always get shy, like if someone random talks to me or smth. even if im dating someone i still get shy
The only way im comfortable with someone is if i talk first

MUHHHH

 

[Monsieur Meow]

tbh i always get shy, like if someone random talks to me or smth. even if im dating someone i still get shy
The only way im comfortable with someone is if i talk first

i used to be so extroverted i talked to anyone but now i cant even talk to my friends properly idk wtf happened

 

[SASALELE]

im less shy when im forced to talk to people. When Im alone and have to order food I suck it up and i do it even though im scared but when im with my boyfriend he always has to do it for me. Or when I get group assignments in school and my r****d classmates literally just sit in silence for the entire class unless I say something.

 

[moewzerz]

tbh i always get shy, like if someone random talks to me or smth. even if im dating someone i still get shy
The only way im comfortable with someone is if i talk first

Imagine ppl naked and barking

 

[aryy]

im less shy when im forced to talk to people. When Im alone and have to order food I suck it up and i do it even though im scared but when im with my boyfriend he always has to do it for me. Or when I get group assignments in school and my r****d classmates literally just sit in silence for the entire class unless I say something.

yeah i cant order food asw, idm my classmates i can speak to them but some of them i cant, i dont even say hi to

 

[Bpmaxxing]

Need propanalol and just pretend that you’re confident

I take that shit but still don’t work