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How can I talk to girls or have a gf?

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Maybe this is the most stupid question, but truly, how you can have a gf? I'm afraid to talk with them because I think I'm not enough for them and they are going to reject me, I talked before, I'm 19, and when I was 18 and 16 I tried to pull a girl but that don't work and was a waste of time and effort, but how you can do that? Stay alone is good, you feel good sometimes if you are introverted, but after a time it feels empty and you want no more to be alone, but idk how to change that, my social skills are more than cooked, I love girls, in special they personality, I love to talk and hear other persons, stay with them and do literally nothing, being with someone, I'm a KHHV, I had a gf when I was 14 and never after that, I loved that relationship, but idk what to do to have a gf, if you have a tip or something you can say it, even if you think it's a fool tip, it can works. I'm ND so maybe that complicates a lot more a lot of things unfortunately.
 
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It's too long the text, but in summary, idk how to talk with girls or how can I have a gf, I tried before, but don't work
 
Maybe this is the most stupid question, but truly, how you can have a gf? I'm afraid to talk with them because I think I'm not enough for them and they are going to reject me, I talked before, I'm 19, and when I was 18 and 16 I tried to pull a girl but that don't work and was a waste of time and effort, but how you can do that? Stay alone is good, you feel good sometimes if you are introverted, but after a time it feels empty and you want no more to be alone, but idk how to change that, my social skills are more than cooked, I love girls, in special they personality, I love to talk and hear other persons, stay with them and do literally nothing, being with someone, I'm a KHHV, I had a gf when I was 14 and never after that, I loved that relationship, but idk what to do to have a gf, if you have a tip or something you can say it, even if you think it's a fool tip, it can works. I'm ND so maybe that complicates a lot more a lot of things unfortunately.
Put Molly in her champagne, she ain't even know it
 
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Even if I was a Chad, I can't pull a girl because I'm afraid to talk to them, so it's impossible without social skills or anything like that, I just talk like a few words per day, 50 at much maybe
social skills are built through practice for example go ask a random person on the street for directions or something just take it one step at a time and dont be afraid to put yourself out there
 
Maybe this is the most stupid question, but truly, how you can have a gf? I'm afraid to talk with them because I think I'm not enough for them and they are going to reject me, I talked before, I'm 19, and when I was 18 and 16 I tried to pull a girl but that don't work and was a waste of time and effort, but how you can do that? Stay alone is good, you feel good sometimes if you are introverted, but after a time it feels empty and you want no more to be alone, but idk how to change that, my social skills are more than cooked, I love girls, in special they personality, I love to talk and hear other persons, stay with them and do literally nothing, being with someone, I'm a KHHV, I had a gf when I was 14 and never after that, I loved that relationship, but idk what to do to have a gf, if you have a tip or something you can say it, even if you think it's a fool tip, it can works. I'm ND so maybe that complicates a lot more a lot of things unfortunately.
Don’t have an inferiority complex, rejection isn’t something to be ashamed of. You need to socialise; choose something that isn’t too tiring, and try out some activities that’ll help you fit into social circles. The only tip I’ll give you: do the opposite of what you’re doing right now. Women don’t like insecure guys
 
social skills are built through practice for example go ask a random person on the street for directions or something just take it one step at a time and dont be afraid to put yourself out there
Bullshit, practice can’t fix autism
 
Even if I was a Chad, I can't pull a girl because I'm afraid to talk to them, so it's impossible without social skills or anything like that, I just talk like a few words per day, 50 at much maybe
just talk to girls bro
 

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