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How do I become a real girl

The cat from The Matrix

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Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
 
describe what you look like or do the best you can

how do you act around people?
Ask kaari sensei what I look like 😹

I guess I'm just described by most as kinda like the ditzy funny friend ig. When I was uglier I was annoying but now I'm considered funny. Over the years I've gotten more reserved tho. I try to make new friends when I can. But as I age my social anxiety gets worse so I'm more withdrawn. But naturally I'm extroverted
 
But as I age my social anxiety gets worse so I'm more withdrawn. But naturally I'm extroverted
I feel you on that one hard. I know it's easy for me to say but try to nip that in the bud if you can, TLDR I went from being popular in high school to nothing bud. Like I said, it's easier said than done and you probably have other problems at the minute, but still please try to manage it if you can. I got PTSD reading that bit to be honest lmao, what you mentioned happened to me and really fucked me up.
 
Ask kaari sensei what I look like 😹

I guess I'm just described by most as kinda like the ditzy funny friend ig. When I was uglier I was annoying but now I'm considered funny. Over the years I've gotten more reserved tho. I try to make new friends when I can. But as I age my social anxiety gets worse so I'm more withdrawn. But naturally I'm extroverted
Other way around for me
 
I feel you on that one hard. I know it's easy for me to say but try to nip that in the bud if you can, TLDR I went from being popular in high school to nothing bud. Like I said, it's easier said than done and you probably have other problems at the minute, but still please try to manage it if you can. I got PTSD reading that bit to be honest lmao, it really fucked me up.
MB bro didn't mean to remind u of dark times. I am much better mentally now even if it's not perfect since I finally left the place that was making me feel the MOST miserable (highschool), on meds, etc. so I'm kind of just neutral now. Not the best but definitely not my worst.
 
MB bro didn't mean to remind u of dark times. I am much better mentally now even if it's not perfect since I finally left the place that was making me feel the MOST miserable (highschool), on meds, etc. so I'm kind of just neutral now. Not the best but definitely not my worst.
Nah it's chill, you didn't upset me lmao. I just don't what happened to me to you, that's all. I feel you with the meds as well, I'm on a bunch myself. I'm trying to get off mine personally, they fucked my liver up, so just to warn you. You'll probably be fine on them, just a precaution y'know.
 
Nah it's chill, you didn't upset me lmao. I just don't what happened to me to you, that's all. I feel you with the meds as well, I'm on a bunch myself. I'm trying to get off mine personally, they fucked my liver up, so just to warn you. You'll probably be fine on them, just a precaution y'know.
Yeah if anything I am not consistent with them. I only am prescribed two and they're not very high doses either. I feel like neurodivergence and being a girl just dont mix I feel like a freak!!!! I just want to feel normal sometimes 💔💔 woe is me
 
Yeah if anything I am not consistent with them. I only am prescribed two and they're not very high doses either. I feel like neurodivergence and being a girl just dont mix I feel like a freak!!!! I just want to feel normal sometimes 💔💔 woe is me
I get you. I've been on high doses for a while now, fucks you up after all.


also neurodivergence ruined my life inc jfl
 
So real baddie growing up girls hated me for being a girly girl cuz they were all Tomboys and when I moved schools in middle school I tried being a tomboy n for as long as I could remember I could only attract girls from middle to like sophomore year n had bitches tell me they were sure I’m bisexual 😫 n then I got a gf n realized i fr js wanna be a princess so I stopped working out n got better at makeup n styling my hair and wore less baggy clothes
I mean it wasn’t that bad cuz I didn’t get accused of being a full lesbo but like I had more girls assault me than guys lol (not that I want to be assaulted at all) I’d be in the bathroom with my friends n one of them would suggest kissing or something n I’d get asked weird questions all the time n it’s not even how I looked lol ig it’s how I acted cuz I looked back at some pics and asked some close friends n they all said it’s how I carried myself n wtv
 
So real baddie growing up girls hated me for being a girly girl cuz they were all Tomboys and when I moved schools in middle school I tried being a tomboy n for as long as I could remember I could only attract girls from middle to like sophomore year n had bitches tell me they were sure I’m bisexual 😫 n then I got a gf n realized i fr js wanna be a princess so I stopped working out n got better at makeup n styling my hair and wore less baggy clothes
I mean it wasn’t that bad cuz I didn’t get accused of being a full lesbo but like I had more girls assault me than guys lol (not that I want to be assaulted at all) I’d be in the bathroom with my friends n one of them would suggest kissing or something n I’d get asked weird questions all the time n it’s not even how I looked lol ig it’s how I acted cuz I looked back at some pics and asked some close friends n they all said it’s how I carried myself n wtv
Brutal
 
Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
Shave your mustache sista
 
So real baddie growing up girls hated me for being a girly girl cuz they were all Tomboys and when I moved schools in middle school I tried being a tomboy n for as long as I could remember I could only attract girls from middle to like sophomore year n had bitches tell me they were sure I’m bisexual 😫 n then I got a gf n realized i fr js wanna be a princess so I stopped working out n got better at makeup n styling my hair and wore less baggy clothes
I mean it wasn’t that bad cuz I didn’t get accused of being a full lesbo but like I had more girls assault me than guys lol (not that I want to be assaulted at all) I’d be in the bathroom with my friends n one of them would suggest kissing or something n I’d get asked weird questions all the time n it’s not even how I looked lol ig it’s how I acted cuz I looked back at some pics and asked some close friends n they all said it’s how I carried myself n wtv
This is insane we r in polar opposite worlds everyone here looks like alexa demi and wears the marc Jacob's tote bag. Also I'm sorry that you were assaulted like that at SCHOOL like wtf. Yeah most of the girls that were into me were pretty pg abt it except for one who I😭 dated and also made me realize I cannot have the pants on in a relationship. She was weird too when I was like let's break up!!! She was threatening to ropemaxx like ❤️ ok .. what that gotta do with me damn
 
Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
Mexicans are the worst human race

They are too creepy all their ancestors consumed corn that must be why.
 
Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
 
But they're hard workers !!!! 😄
they have to, if they don't want to be deported!! that's their motivation.

they could be hard-working and industrious to obtain large amounts of money and status.

but no amount of money can compensate for the fact that they are genetically creepy and of poor quality. 5'7 average height and the highest obesity rate in the world?

I have a great appreciation for them btw
 
Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
move to southern California. Location change does it all tbh
 
Throughout my life when people have crushes on me it is almost always girls. Girls always treat me like men. Like I am an entertaining dog and not their equal. They'll slap my arm and go "omg ur sooooo funnyyyy hehe" like wtf am I ur boyfriend

And the only men that flirt with me are old farts with one foot in the grave, Mexican dudes that want a white gf, and creeps at work.

Like wtf am I doing wrong. I don't have any male centric hobbies. All I do is go shopping and buy makeup. My vanity is where my check goes to with my cope skincare collection. Sure I dress kind of masculine but even when I dress more feminine it doesn't seem to help. Like wtf am I doing wrong do I just have a fucking masculine aura am I testosteronemaxxing without knowing it
  • Appearance: Wear softer, flowy clothes (dresses, skirts), and try experimenting with makeup to highlight your features. Soft, delicate styles can help create a more feminine look.
  • Movement & Body Language: Keep your posture open, with shoulders back, and try moving with more fluidity and grace. Smaller, expressive hand gestures can also feel more feminine.
  • Voice & Tone: You might find that softening your voice a little or speaking with a warmer tone can feel more feminine, but only if it feels right to you.
  • Behaviour: Confidence is law, and being nurturing and empathetic is often associated with femininity.
  • Hormonal/Physical Changes: If you’re thinking about more physical changes, it might be worth exploring options like hormone therapy (with professional guidance)
 
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  • Appearance: Wear softer, flowy clothes (dresses, skirts), and try experimenting with makeup to highlight your features. Soft, delicate styles can help create a more feminine look.
  • Movement & Body Language: Keep your posture open, with shoulders back, and try moving with more fluidity and grace. Smaller, expressive hand gestures can also feel more feminine.
  • Voice & Tone: You might find that softening your voice a little or speaking with a warmer tone can feel more feminine, but only if it feels right to you.
  • Behaviour: Confidence is law, and being nurturing and empathetic is often associated with femininity.
  • Hormonal/Physical Changes: If you’re thinking about more physical changes, it might be worth exploring options like hormone therapy (with professional guidance)
 
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