how do i get over my oneitis?

[Deleted Member 66204]

we talked for two weeks nonstop. i went on facetime to ask her out but it turns out she has a boyfriend

 

[Darkeningstar]

Don't worry, it's most likely just an infatuation

 

[evilkunt]

we talked for two weeks nonstop. i went on facetime to ask her out but it turns out she has a boyfriend

u got used could neva be me

 

[jamesjones]

U dont

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

u got used could neva be me

used for what?

i was 99% sure she liked me back until she told me she had a bf

 

[evilkunt]

used for what?

i was 99% sure she liked me back until she told me she had a bf

used for attention

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

used for attention

she approached me irl after i texted online tho

why would she do that

 

[evilkunt]

she approached me irl after i texted online tho

why would she do that

idk the story pal why even text for 2 weeks.I hate texting i straight up ask for location so we can meet up.FUcking hate texting

 

[jamesjones]

she approached me irl after i texted online tho

why would she do that

she proly liked u but u turned her off tbh but don't obsess over it js chill she'll come back to u if that's what u want

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

idk the story pal why even text for 2 weeks.I hate texting i straight up ask for location so we can meet up.FUcking hate texting

we know each other irl. so its not like i met her online.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

she proly liked u but u turned her off tbh but don't obsess over it js chill she'll come back to u if that's what u want

she has a boyfriend tho i feel like thats just copium.

also 99% sure i didnt do anything to turn her off. like its literally impossible i looked through every text.

 

[evilkunt]

we know each other irl. so its not like i met her online.

Pal ask her out

 

[Darkeningstar]

we know each other irl. so its not like i met her online.

Get to know other girls, better than brooding over it

 

[jamesjones]

she has a boyfriend tho i feel like thats just copium.

also 99% sure i didnt do anything to turn her off. like its literally impossible i looked through every text.

Yh girls say that shit if they don't like u tho, do u have proof shes not lying?

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Pal ask her out

i did ask her out. i asked her and thats when she said she had a boyfriend.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Get to know other girls, better than brooding over it

might try this, but usually i only go after girls after i start liking them.

 

[evilkunt]

i did ask her out. i asked her and thats when she said she had a boyfriend.

okay end of the story

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Yh girls say that shit if they don't like u tho, do u have proof shes not lying?

i saw pics of them tg but was not that good looking so i thought they were js friends

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

okay end of the story

am i cooked

 

[evilkunt]

i saw pics of them tg but was not that good looking so i thought they were js friends

Ask her why was she talking with you when she had a bf

 

[jamesjones]

i did ask her out. i asked her and thats when she said she had a boyfriend.

She lying lmao

 

[Darkeningstar]

am i cooked

You'd better forget about her, if she's interested she'll probably turn up again.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

She lying lmao

she is not lying. i told you, i saw pics of them together.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

You'd better forget about her, if she's interested she'll probably turn up again.

define turn up. like come up to me irl? shes done that before but idk ab now.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Ask her why was she talking with you when she had a bf

uhhh how do i do this without being autistic. like i dont wanna make it awkward cuz imma have to see her irl.

 

[Darkeningstar]

define turn up. like come up to me irl? shes done that before but idk ab now.

More or less yes. Chances are she won't, though

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

More or less yes. Chances are she won't, though

ah alright. you think she lied ab having a bf tho?

like whyd she do all that before then

 

[evilkunt]

uhhh how do i do this without being autistic. like i dont wanna make it awkward cuz imma have to see her irl.

FUcking hell mate your making me pissed.Straight up ask her why did she talk to you when she had a bf matter of fact do it right fucking now

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

FUcking hell mate your making me pissed.Straight up ask her why did she talk to you when she had a bf matter of fact do it right fucking now

are you from england?

 

[evilkunt]

are you from england?

No.wrong reply ask her right now why she did you like that

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

FUcking hell mate your making me pissed.Straight up ask her why did she talk to you when she had a bf matter of fact do it right fucking now

i think its because she thought we were just friends. at least thats my guess. but still i feel like texting to a dude and hopping on ft is still kinda weird when u got a bf

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

No.wrong reply ask her right now why she did you like that

dawg imma have to see her again soon irl. i cant lose aura like that.

its basically wraps how would i benefit from asking that.

 

[evilkunt]

i think its because she thought we were just friends. at least thats my guess. but still i feel like texting to a dude and hopping on ft is still kinda weird when u got a bf

cope harder a girl always knows males cant be just friends.THey use you for their own pleasure whether for attention or safety.You are still not doing what im telling you to do

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

cope harder a girl always knows males cant be just friends.THey use you for their own pleasure whether for attention or safety.You are still not doing what im telling you to do

dude. im not coping. im saying how is asking her that gonna do me any good besides make it awkward for us.

i already know its over (unless im extremely lucky)

 

[evilkunt]

dude. im not coping. im saying how is asking her that gonna do me any good besides make it awkward for us.

i already know its over (unless im extremely lucky)

I already told you what to do eaither do it or stop wasting my time

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

I already told you what to do eaither do it or stop wasting my time

ok i will do it if you give your reason to why i should do it. like a legitmate reason.

 

[evilkunt]

ok i will do it if you give your reason to why i should do it. like a legitmate reason.

how bout i couldnt give less of a fuck

 

[jamesjones]

dude. im not coping. im saying how is asking her that gonna do me any good besides make it akward for us.

i already know its over (unless im extremely lucky)

U sound pathetic not to be rude but why would u be extremely lucky to date a girl who used u

 

[jamesjones]

ok i will do it if you give your reason to why i should do it. like a legitmate reason.

Shows that ur low inhib/masculine, shows that ur still interested w out being a simp

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

U sound pathetic not to be rude but why would u be extremely lucky to date a girl who used u

didnt mean it like that lmao. im not a cuck i just meant lucky = low probability.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Shows that ur low inhib/masculine, shows that ur still interested w out being a simp

see? this is how you convince ppl. im gonna go to the gym and afterwards ill send it.

 

[jamesjones]

see? this is how you convince ppl. im gonna go to the gym and afterwards ill send it.

Tell us her response lol I'm invested now

 

[Chifuyu]

You have to replace her with someone else. That’s the only way to get over someone.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

Tell us her response lol I'm invested now

ok i will i didnt send it yet tho. what exactly should i say? js ask where why she talked w me while she had a bf?

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

You have to replace her with someone else. That’s the only way to get over someone.

ill try but i got too invested

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

also im betting that she will 99% say "oh i js thought of you as a friend" or something like that

wtv. more gymfuel anyway.

 

[Chifuyu]

Ik zal het proberen, maar ik ben er te veel in geïnvesteerd

It's a numbers game mostly. You will get someone eventually. Don't be desperate btw, it is a turnoff

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

It's a numbers game mostly. You will get someone eventually. Don't be desperate btw, it is a turnoff

ok thanks for the advice. i dont think i was ever desperate tbh.

 

[Deleted Member 66204]

@jamesjones @madbeer

i just sent the text, ill lyk when she responds

 

[evilkunt]

@jamesjones @madbeer

i just sent the text, ill lyk when she responds

ok great