how do i get some self confidence?

[whitemonster_drink]

I care about what people think but mentally its destroying me, and its really pathetic honestly of me, i dont know how to just stop caring what others think

 

[Deleted Member 106081]

ascend to stacy

 

[whitemonster_drink]

ascend to stacy

ive glown up already, im pretty but it didnt change anything for me

 

[Leo]

ive glown up already, im pretty but it didnt change anything for me

Just fake it and put yourself in as many social interactions as possible to get comfortable

 

[minxfrz]

its hard but it very much is fake it till u make it

 

[whitemonster_drink]

its hard but it very much is fake it till u make it

ill try

 

[whitemonster_drink]

Just fake it and put yourself in as many social interactions as possible to get comfortable

im thinking abt hanging out and talking to my more popular friends or there friends

 

[Luca🇬🇷🇩🇪]

Mir ist wichtig, was andere denken, aber es macht mich psychisch fertig, und ehrlich gesagt ist das echt erbärmlich von mir. Ich weiß einfach nicht, wie ich aufhören soll, mir Gedanken darüber zu machen, was andere denken.

Pray ,read the bible stuff like that can help you cause it Shows you that only one can judge u

 

[whitemonster_drink]

Pray ,read the bible stuff like that can help you cause it Shows you that only one can judge u

is it me or is my own text in german somehow, but im not really religoes but thanks for the advie anyways

 

[benny]

I care about what people think but mentally its destroying me, and its really pathetic honestly of me, i dont know how to just stop caring what others think

lmk when u find out

 

[jony🖤bp]

I care about what people think but mentally its destroying me, and its really pathetic honestly of me, i dont know how to just stop caring what others think

Fashionmaxx
Ascend As Best as u can
Jst Go out ans socialise
And be generous and Funny to ppl irl(not to much otherwise u will Look Like a simp)

 

[splanky]

pretend ur in a movie

 

[Younglad]

Doing things out of your comfort zone. Sound corny but proves to yourself that you actually can do things you’re not comfortable with

 

[jony🖤bp]

I care about what people think but mentally its destroying me, and its really pathetic honestly of me, i dont know how to just stop caring what others think

Also no joke listen to music that makes u confident helps very well tbh

 

[teramogger42]

I care about what people think but mentally its destroying me, and its really pathetic honestly of me, i dont know how to just stop caring what others think

Confidence comes from competence, you have to find something in yourself you value (or just develop some skill) and think that no matter what others think, they are wrong and if they talked to you they'd realize. You want to have internal self worth above all.

 

[Younglad]

Confidence comes from competence, you have to find something in yourself you value (or just develop some skill) and think that no matter what others think, they are wrong and if they talked to you they'd realize. You want to have internal self worth above all.

Love yourself by proving to yourself that you’re worth love. Good point

 

[icnone]

im pretty