Serious How do I make friends?

[looksmaxxed]

I've had this question for a long time, but I didn't know who to ask, so I resorted to org
for a long time i havent been able to make friends, just being awkward or distant, which will end up with me getting blocked or left out
i cannot hold a conversation for more than 4 minutes without it becoming weird or cold
any help?

 

[looksmaxxed]

@New Water help me out broo

 

[New Water]

@New Water help me out broo

Bro idk.. all I do with my irl friends is go to the gym and send TikTok’s and reels to each other. I rot at home lonely most of the day

 

[Beatrice.]

I've had this question for a long time, but I didn't know who to ask, so I resorted to org
for a long time i havent been able to make friends, just being awkward or distant, which will end up with me getting blocked or left out
i cannot hold a conversation for more than 4 minutes without it becoming weird or cold
any help?

Ok Ipad kid

 

[looksmaxxed]

Ok Ipad kid

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[looksmaxxed]

Bro idk.. all I do with my irl friends is go to the gym and send TikTok’s and reels to each other. I rot at home lonely most of the day

lowk me too

 

[Beatrice.]

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I don't have friends

 

[Nenestar]

idk

 

[New Water]

lowk me too

WE’RE cooked bro!!

 

[imareasonableman]

well first off it's not some impossible thing. stop looking at it like that. 95% of ppl struggle with the awkward part. but try to start small. even one thing in common can start a convo. the point of a convo isn't to make it last 30 min. the point is to get to know the other person better. listen to them, ask questions, make them feel seen. but also be interesting, don't reveal everything about yourself in 2 minutes, no one likes a boring open book, whether they admit it or not. watch how others do it. the best friends are the listeners imo. (don't try to be a nonchalant brick wall tho.) and stop crying about ppl ghosting, it happens to literally everyone (except chads ig.)

 

[looksmaxxed]

well first off it's not some impossible thing. stop looking at it like that. 95% of ppl struggle with the awkward part. but try to start small. even one thing in common can start a convo. the point of a convo isn't to make it last 30 min. the point is to get to know the other person better. listen to them, ask questions, make them feel seen. but also be interesting, don't reveal everything about yourself in 2 minutes, no one likes a boring open book, whether they admit it or not. watch how others do it. the best friends are the listeners imo. (don't try to be a nonchalant brick wall tho.) and stop crying about ppl ghosting, it happens to literally everyone (except chads ig.)

i guiess its just anxiety and embarrasment at the end of the day

 

[jkcwakcjw]

i guiess its just anxiety and embarrasment at the end of the day

unless if u have something like OCD or a pathalogical paranoia which affects how u respond to regular things, it is probably indicative of an actual issue
what the other guy is saying is stuff for ppl who do not have social issues and just want to improve their socializing. if u have real socializing issues where u r too slow to even hold conversation for a few minutes, there is an underlying issue where u are overanalyzing and censoring your words.
its also pretty interesting too bc i dont think listening is a good thing if nobody wants to talk to u in the first place
u will have to strike up conversation first, so u will have to tell stories or play bits. but yeah i would say if u were a kid and u were decently sociable as a kid then there is no reason why u cant be sociable now. if u weren't sociable as a kid it is probably over tho ngl. and theres more nuance but thats bc as a kid u censor yourself less and say whats more on ur mind

 

[looksmaxxed]

unless if u have something like OCD or a pathalogical paranoia which affects how u respond to regular things, it is probably indicative of an actual issue
what the other guy is saying is stuff for ppl who do not have social issues and just want to improve their socializing. if u have real socializing issues where u r too slow to even hold conversation for a few minutes, there is an underlying issue where u are overanalyzing and censoring your words.
its also pretty interesting too bc i dont think listening is a good thing if nobody wants to talk to u in the first place
u will have to strike up conversation first, so u will have to tell stories or play bits. but yeah i would say if u were a kid and u were decently sociable as a kid then there is no reason why u cant be sociable now. if u weren't sociable as a kid it is probably over tho ngl. and theres more nuance but thats bc as a kid u censor yourself less and say whats more on ur mind

made my day mate

 

[Rololongs]

I've had this question for a long time, but I didn't know who to ask, so I resorted to org
for a long time i havent been able to make friends, just being awkward or distant, which will end up with me getting blocked or left out
i cannot hold a conversation for more than 4 minutes without it becoming weird or cold
any help?

well honestly depends if you're in school join clubs I mean to me they're kind of geeky it's full of dorks but probably the best way to get friends or try out sports to