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how do i stop being such a baby

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I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
 
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I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
Might seem ignorant or misogynistic : might be related to hormone changes since you're a girl
 
Might seem ignorant or misogynistic : might be related to hormone changes since you're a girl
yeah, i kind of thought about this too but i've been a really extreme cryer for a long time. i tried to look up when hormonal changes can have effects the earliest, but it just showed me shit about menopause idk. i think it might be because of how aggressive my older brother is. and i know that sounds really stupid but he was actually a menace idk.
 
yeah, i kind of thought about this too but i've been a really extreme cryer for a long time. i tried to look up when hormonal changes can have effects the earliest, but it just showed me shit about menopause idk. i think it might be because of how aggressive my older brother is. and i know that sounds really stupid but he was actually a menace idk.
Oh wow
 
do you know when emotional hormonal changes can first start to happen or no
Nah sorry, just a guess since I've heard about it. I've heard poor sleep quality can also affect mood.
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
betteroff4
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
Was like this for a while, i can say it comes from being insecure and hormones
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
some ppl gotta go
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
Hey man, I get where you’re coming from. Feeling like that doesn’t make you weak - it just means your emotions are close to the surface. You probably react so hard because small things hit a deeper spot, not because the situations themselves are big.

Try not to hate yourself for it. Instead, notice what exactly makes you feel bad - is it embarrassment, rejection, disrespect? Once you can name it, it’s easier to control it. Then start exposing yourself slowly to small uncomfortable moments so you can build tolerance. That’s how you toughen up emotionally without going numb.

For online stuff: if someone mocks your voice or says something dumb, >>overtalk them<<. Keep speaking normally, stay confident, and don’t give them a reaction. The more you do it, the more your brain learns that nothing bad actually happens.

And yeah - working out, sleeping well, and taking care of your body helps more than people think. Over time, the crying and overthinking get lighter. Don’t rush it, just keep trying to stay aware and steady. You’ll get stronger, bro.
 
Turn it into anger
 
Because youre a neurotic fucking gfoid and
 
grow up and start being selfish
 
Turn it into anger
You are supposed to insult them because you will never see them again. You’ll never see that lady again so you should have called her a bitch and kept going
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
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I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
Same till I started SSRIs they stopped the crying but I'll still feel like utterly shit.
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
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Hey man, I get where you’re coming from. Feeling like that doesn’t make you weak - it just means your emotions are close to the surface. You probably react so hard because small things hit a deeper spot, not because the situations themselves are big.

Try not to hate yourself for it. Instead, notice what exactly makes you feel bad - is it embarrassment, rejection, disrespect? Once you can name it, it’s easier to control it. Then start exposing yourself slowly to small uncomfortable moments so you can build tolerance. That’s how you toughen up emotionally without going numb.

For online stuff: if someone mocks your voice or says something dumb, >>overtalk them<<. Keep speaking normally, stay confident, and don’t give them a reaction. The more you do it, the more your brain learns that nothing bad actually happens.

And yeah - working out, sleeping well, and taking care of your body helps more than people think. Over time, the crying and overthinking get lighter. Don’t rush it, just keep trying to stay aware and steady. You’ll get stronger, bro.
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yeah, i kind of thought about this too but i've been a really extreme cryer for a long time. i tried to look up when hormonal changes can have effects the earliest, but it just showed me shit about menopause idk. i think it might be because of how aggressive my older brother is. and i know that sounds really stupid but he was actually a menace idk.
My view on this is just live life and dont gaf about what people think (ironic coming from me being on this site) but lowkey look at life w a smile and overcome ur social anxiety by hangng with people (me) exactly like u
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
This is some estrogenic shit
 
go to the psychiatrist and ask for meds.
 
I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
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I literally cry every day, sometimes several times. Its over the stupidest stuff and I just constantly feel bad for myself its so selfish and annoying. once a lady at target yelled at me for putting my cart in the empty part of the parking lot. I cried so much and sometimes it still makes me sad. I'll get off a game just because they ask me why my voice sounds like that or mock a word i stutter even though I don't have a stutter, and I KNOW I don't so like why does it make me sad? I think I might know a reason why but it doesn't really make sense idk. how do I fix this bro I don't even know how to start
man up or go on antidepressants
open ur third eye and realize its never that serious :peepoComfy:
 

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