how do i talk to guys

[kittycorn3]

im a pretty extroverted person irl but i struggle to get a word out even when it comes to someone i could potentially see romantically

im not a femcel but i think im just a chud

i also have no idea where to find guys. i live in a super interconnected city so they don’t have to go to my school (it’s small and i see everyone there as a friend even if they’re attractive i just think it would make things too awkward)

i don’t post at all on social media except for my spam account on instagram with only my friends so i don’t really get guys hitting me up first. not saying they would if i did im not really pretty anyway but I wouldn’t say I have high standards. i don’t really want to start posting but i don’t know how to reach out or what to say even if i do meet someone.

i got out of a pretty bad relationship a while ago but i miss the feeling at the start and i think i could be a good girlfriend rn i just don’t know where to find someone.

one of my friends is kind of cool and he’s cute but again it might make things awkward so other than that??? i have no idea what to do

 

[lotuus]

It’s fun to have little crushes, don’t focus so much on thinking of these guys as strictly just friends.
If you want to find guys to talk to, go to places you really like or conventions of things your into and make convo, it’s so hard not to be awkward- but when you get over it, it’ll work out, especially if you’re not terribly ugly.
Post on a main page, see what attention you get. No one really thinks ig posts are embarrassing unless its a shitty slideshow lol.

 

[vol]

6'3 hmu nga

 

[kittycorn3]

It’s fun to have little crushes, don’t focus so much on thinking of these guys as strictly just friends.
If you want to find guys to talk to, go to places you really like or conventions of things your into and make convo, it’s so hard not to be awkward- but when you get over it, it’ll work out, especially if you’re not terribly ugly.
Post on a main page, see what attention you get. No one really thinks ig posts are embarrassing unless its a shitty slideshow lol.

aw definitely yeah i just don’t wanna ruin things like i did last time. my ex was probably my bestfriend ever and i find that a lot of these guys are great hbs and horrible boyfriends. not that it has to go to that but i feel like id get hurt or embarrassed. i did meet him at this like theatre/drama festival though so that’s definitely a good idea to try to go to something like that again! i will try with the ig post but also ill hopefully get meet cute one day

 

[splanky]

im a pretty extroverted person irl but i struggle to get a word out even when it comes to someone i could potentially see romantically

im not a femcel but i think im just a chud

i also have no idea where to find guys. i live in a super interconnected city so they don’t have to go to my school (it’s small and i see everyone there as a friend even if they’re attractive i just think it would make things too awkward)

i don’t post at all on social media except for my spam account on instagram with only my friends so i don’t really get guys hitting me up first. not saying they would if i did im not really pretty anyway but I wouldn’t say I have high standards. i don’t really want to start posting but i don’t know how to reach out or what to say even if i do meet someone.

i got out of a pretty bad relationship a while ago but i miss the feeling at the start and i think i could be a good girlfriend rn i just don’t know where to find someone.

one of my friends is kind of cool and he’s cute but again it might make things awkward so other than that??? i have no idea what to do

what i used to do was find a guy i liked and then just like hang around him idk
like basically put yourself in places that you know he’ll see you and try to be physically nearby him so he can notice you and learn about you etc
he should eventually talk to you or give you an ioi first and then you can just talk to him like normal but the main thing is before you leave tell him i wanna see you again or when can i see you next that way he’ll know it’s not as just friends yk
method is absolutely unpatched and trust me id know

 

[Psl King]

im a pretty extroverted person irl but i struggle to get a word out even when it comes to someone i could potentially see romantically

im not a femcel but i think im just a chud

i also have no idea where to find guys. i live in a super interconnected city so they don’t have to go to my school (it’s small and i see everyone there as a friend even if they’re attractive i just think it would make things too awkward)

i don’t post at all on social media except for my spam account on instagram with only my friends so i don’t really get guys hitting me up first. not saying they would if i did im not really pretty anyway but I wouldn’t say I have high standards. i don’t really want to start posting but i don’t know how to reach out or what to say even if i do meet someone.

i got out of a pretty bad relationship a while ago but i miss the feeling at the start and i think i could be a good girlfriend rn i just don’t know where to find someone.

one of my friends is kind of cool and he’s cute but again it might make things awkward so other than that??? i have no idea what to do

you can talk to me. I also wanna get used to talking to girls. First of all how old are you?

 

[Dookiebootybutt59]

shii do you send?

 

[kittycorn3]

what i used to do was find a guy i liked and then just like hang around him idk
like basically put yourself in places that you know he’ll see you and try to be physically nearby him so he can notice you and learn about you etc
he should eventually talk to you or give you an ioi first and then you can just talk to him like normal but the main thing is before you leave tell him i wanna see you again or when can i see you next that way he’ll know it’s not as just friends yk
method is absolutely unpatched and trust me id know

i kind of like one of my friends he’s like pretty much perfect in every way but i don’t know how to signal to him that it’s like that even though ive felt kinda hmm about it the whole time

ALSO does that make me a pos??? like i genuinely love to talk to him as a friend and our convos are so fulfilling. I don’t want to ruin that and also I don’t want him to think that our friendship was fake the whole time if he doesn’t end up feeling the same way about me it’s so scary. im able to talk to him freely as a friend but when i like guys I absolutely just cannot speak even when they’re talking to me I lose it and start acting like an idiot and sometimes when I like start thinking about it when we’re together it happens and he must get so confused why im suddenly acting weird.

we’re gonna hang out in a couple days and he asked what I want to do. this is like our second hangout we don’t have any mutuals but we didn’t meet too long ago and I don’t know what I should suggest??

 

[Dookiebootybutt59]

i kind of like one of my friends he’s like pretty much perfect in every way but i don’t know how to signal to him that it’s like that even though ive felt kinda hmm about it the whole time

ALSO does that make me a pos??? like i genuinely love to talk to him as a friend and our convos are so fulfilling. I don’t want to ruin that and also I don’t want him to think that our friendship was fake the whole time if he doesn’t end up feeling the same way about me it’s so scary. im able to talk to him freely as a friend but when i like guys I absolutely just cannot speak even when they’re talking to me I lose it and start acting like an idiot and sometimes when I like start thinking about it when we’re together it happens and he must get so confused why im suddenly acting weird.

we’re gonna hang out in a couple days and he asked what I want to do. this is like our second hangout we don’t have any mutuals but we didn’t meet too long ago and I don’t know what I should suggest??

send him a video of 2 cats and say "this is us" trust me

 

[kittycorn3]

wait im sorry i dont wanna talk to guys in that way online but we can definitely talk in like a friendly way! sorry if i misinterpreted what you were saying aswell im 16

you can talk to me. I also wanna get used to talking to girls. First of all how old are you?

 

[kittycorn3]

THATS SO SCARY OKAY

we’re gonna play cs2 later for the first time maybe ill try and find a reel of like 2 cats in cs2 and send that. if i can’t find it I MIGHT have to make an alt account on instagram and make the page myself

 

[splanky]

i kind of like one of my friends he’s like pretty much perfect in every way but i don’t know how to signal to him that it’s like that even though ive felt kinda hmm about it the whole time

ALSO does that make me a pos??? like i genuinely love to talk to him as a friend and our convos are so fulfilling. I don’t want to ruin that and also I don’t want him to think that our friendship was fake the whole time if he doesn’t end up feeling the same way about me it’s so scary. im able to talk to him freely as a friend but when i like guys I absolutely just cannot speak even when they’re talking to me I lose it and start acting like an idiot and sometimes when I like start thinking about it when we’re together it happens and he must get so confused why im suddenly acting weird.

we’re gonna hang out in a couple days and he asked what I want to do. this is like our second hangout we don’t have any mutuals but we didn’t meet too long ago and I don’t know what I should suggest??

hmm well if you want to be his friend then be his friend, but if you want to be more than his friend then i think your best shot would be just making a move especially given that you guys seem to be somewhat close already

that doesn’t make u a pos it just means you like him, him thinking the friendship was fake would just depend on his perspective on love and friends

if you like him maybe though two can get coffee tg but idk if that’ll be too date like

i don’t really understand if you like him as more than a friend or if you don’t

 

[kittycorn3]

hmm well if you want to be his friend then be his friend, but if you want to be more than his friend then i think your best shot would be just making a move especially given that you guys seem to be somewhat close already

that doesn’t make u a pos it just means you like him, him thinking the friendship was fake would just depend on his perspective on love and friends

if you like him maybe though two can get coffee tg but idk if that’ll be too date like

i don’t really understand if you like him as more than a friend or if you don’t

I think I do like him as more than a friend but I also just like talking to him so much in general that even if he didn’t like me like that id still be okay. wait we’ve done stuff like that before like the cafe/coffee thing but I want something that like would give me an opportunity to do/say smt that would make it obvious? Now that im thinking about it the stuff we do together is kind of romantic I just don’t know how to tell if he likes me like that or not even just a bit

 

[overratedpalecel]

6'3 hmu nga

Bad approach

 

[kittycorn3]

Bad approach

too tall aswell i think 5’11 is the perfect height for me 6’0 max im 5’6 i like to be taller in heels i think its hot

 

[vol]

too tall aswell i think 5’11 is the perfect height for me 6’0 max im 5’6 i like to be taller in heels i think its hot

r u fr communist or just larping

 

[kittycorn3]

r u fr communist or just larping

not larping but im a 16 year old girl on a dependent visa outside of my home country so i just try to read a lot and contribute to mutual aid like we have a lot of natural distasters where i live so

 

[vol]

not larping but im a 16 year old girl on a dependent visa outside of my home country so i just try to read a lot and contribute to mutual aid like we have a lot of natural distasters where i live so

well gl w that ig

 

[kittycorn3]

well gl w that ig

uh thanks g

 

[yielded]

Honestly take your time it's a process trust yourself uh good spots are like sports games, fairs, other big events or some more lowk stuff like the farmers market thrift store or skate park or clubs at school

 

[kittycorn3]

Honestly take your time it's a process trust yourself uh good spots are like sports games, fairs, other big events or some more lowk stuff like the farmers market thrift store or skate park or clubs at school

definitely yeah but i don’t live in an english speaking country so it’s only people from international schools i could talk to
it’s genuinely terrifying trying to guess if someone speaks English or not