How it really is to go from incel to above average looking

[Ben07]

So i used to be really ugly, like to the point where people bullied me bad. Like beating me up for no reason, destroying my stuff, spreading rumours abt me etc. You understand what i mean.

I was insanely fat and ugly. And that made me think, why me? i didnt choose this life. Do i not matter because of the fact that i am ugly? This went on most of my life untill around 14-15 where pubrty and weight loss saved be.

So how really is it to go from truly incel to above avrg? Well its good but prob not as you belive. If you truly used to be an incel your mindset doesnt rly change. Im still a shut-in and dont speak to people because i still know how it was. I still lived in a living hell, Just because i dont get shit anymore bc of my looks ive still went thru it yk. I dont speak to people at all, and my family thinks somthing is wrong with me bc of it but idc. People are evil in the flesh and 99% of ppl wouldnt care abt me if i was the way i used to so i dont want to open up to them. Im still living like i used to excpect the fact that i dont get bullied anymore

And felt like writing this bc watched a anime that kind off resonated with me (lookism).

 

[Whitepill]

Its better
Still nothing compared to normal people who have been above average their whole life

 

[N30N]

I can relate. I went from a truecel who was bullied and treated like shit, fat, ugly, and lacked any female interaction to an above average looking person. (Through looksmaxing and puberty) I can attest that your mindset does not change unless you willingly force it to change. Your formative years sculpt your mind. Even your experiences don't really change that much unless you are NT and actually make an earnest effort. Of course looking better helps, but it won't flip your life around 180°.

 

[NotMango3198]

I can relate. I went from a truecel who was bullied and treated like shit, fat, ugly, and lacked any female interaction to an above average looking person. (Through looksmaxing and puberty) I can attest that your mindset does not change unless you willingly force it to change. Your formative years sculpt your mind. Even your experiences don't really change that much unless you are NT and actually make an earnest effort. Of course looking better helps, but it won't flip your life around 180°.

You and OP are both just fat and acne -> not fat no acne, and act like it’s a miracle