how much does style matter?

[snoopy12]

it's a little weird because the days i feel most true to myself with my makeup and hair and outfits are the days i get the least compliments
and its not that it doesnt suit me either
i usually go for a 60s babydoll look with teased hair, winged eyeliner, and a nude lip and i think it suits my features and coloring very well while dressing and doing my makeup more "basic" like slickbacks and sweats which i dont really like wearing at all gets me a lot more attention even though it doesnt suit me at all
i have very round feminine features
i think this kinda shows the style i feel most comfortable in
is it just that men don't like that kind of style? i dont understand what im doing wrong

 

[snoopy12]

a lot of ppl told me it was bc i had bangs even though i had them like my whole life and apperantly men hate bangs so i grew them out like last year and now everyones telling me to cut them again ughhh

 

[emeraldpill]

is it just that men don't like that kind of style? i dont understand what im doing wrong

Definitely a less popular one

 

[snoopy12]

Definitely a less popular one

really? i thought it was really cute
what isnt appealing about it?

 

[BigDihDiddy]

tbh the rare times ppl compliment chit like that ion even know what to say all the time

Would be annoying to keep getting the same compliments idk how to respond

 

[2ANA]

it looks a bit vintage

 

[snoopy12]

tbh the rare times ppl compliment chit like that ion even know what to say all the time

Would be annoying to keep getting the same compliments idk how to respond

wym

 

[emeraldpill]

really? i thought it was really cute
what isnt appealing about it?

I think it is appealing, Priscilla is the perfect woman

It’s just not popular

 

[snoopy12]

it looks a bit vintage

yeah i really love the 60s i follow that style i would say that was a decently long time ago

 

[snoopy12]

I think it is appealing, Priscilla is the perfect woman

It’s just not popular

yeah i usually do priscilla inspired makeup and hair but i feel like a lot of men, at least the ones i know dont like it

 

[emeraldpill]

it looks a bit vintage

It is 60 years old

 

[2ANA]

yeah i really love the 60s i follow that style i would say that was a decently long time ago

yeah dress however u want

 

[emeraldpill]

yeah i usually do priscilla inspired makeup and hair but i feel like a lot of men, at least the ones i know dont like it

Do what you want, not everyone is going to like it no matter what

It’s even less popular among younger guys but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t

 

[snoopy12]

yeah dress however u want

yeah well right now my problem is i get no attention from men at all and i know it sounds stupid and desperate like as if im doing everything for male validation but it does kinda make me sad
partially because i go to an all girls school and dont really know a lot of men but so many girls at my school have boyfriends

 

[snoopy12]

Do what you want, not everyone is going to like it no matter what

It’s even less popular among younger guys but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t

i guess thats true
still makes me sad

 

[missingdollparts_]

it's a little weird because the days i feel most true to myself with my makeup and hair and outfits are the days i get the least compliments
and its not that it doesnt suit me either
i usually go for a 60s babydoll look with teased hair, winged eyeliner, and a nude lip and i think it suits my features and coloring very well while dressing and doing my makeup more "basic" like slickbacks and sweats which i dont really like wearing at all gets me a lot more attention even though it doesnt suit me at all
i have very round feminine features
i think this kinda shows the style i feel most comfortable in
is it just that men don't like that kind of style? i dont understand what im doing wrong

60's fashion is so cute omg but honestly you shouldn't care about the compliments you're getting and if guys find you appealing. you will attract the right people by being yourself don't force yourself to dress "normal" if it makes you feel uncomfortable, literally don't care about people's opinions if they're gonna judge the real you then don't think too much about it <3

 

[2ANA]

yeah well right now my problem is i get no attention from men at all and i know it sounds stupid and desperate like as if im doing everything for male validation but it does kinda make me sad
partially because i go to an all girls school and dont really know a lot of men but so many girls at my school have boyfriends

how old are u?

 

[emeraldpill]

i guess thats true
still makes me sad

Would you rather do what you want and have less people think it’s cool but those who do obv have good taste in your opinion

Or the opposite

 

[snoopy12]

60's fashion is so cute omg but honestly you shouldn't care about the compliments you're getting and if guys find you appealing. you will attract the right people by being yourself don't force yourself to dress "normal" if it makes you feel uncomfortable, literally don't care about people's opinions if they're gonna judge the real you then don't think too much about it <3

i knowww i really wanna be in that mindset but i never meet any boys nobody ever really sees me as relateable and they dont approach me and it makes me sad
i'd say i mix it up quite i bit i dress for who im going to be around but still

 

[snoopy12]

how old are u?

17

 

[snoopy12]

Would you rather do what you want and have less people think it’s cool but those who do obv have good taste in your opinion

Or the opposite

i dont even know anymore i just want someone to like me LOL

 

[2ANA]

17

ahh its not too bad, u prolly should to be going to parties and hanging out with guys more then more people will hit on you

 

[snoopy12]

ahh its not too bad, u prolly should to be going to parties and hanging out with guys more then more people will hit on you

i dont really talk to a lot of people or have a lot of close friends so i dont get invited to parties
besides that i dont ever see guys my age
i mean im starting college next year so ill probably meet some people there but i want people in college to like me

 

[missingdollparts_]

i knowww i really wanna be in that mindset but i never meet any boys nobody ever really sees me as relateable and they dont approach me and it makes me sad
i'd say i mix it up quite i bit i dress for who im going to be around but still

I feel this

 

[snoopy12]

I feel this

love you sister

 

[missingdollparts_]

love you sister

love you too

 

[2ANA]

i dont really talk to a lot of people or have a lot of close friends so i dont get invited to parties
besides that i dont ever see guys my age
i mean im starting college next year so ill probably meet some people there but i want people in college to like me

u will meet people it will all work out ur a nice person

 

[snoopy12]

u will meet people it will all work out ur a nice person

thanks enrique i really hope so

 

[AXII.CO]

it's a little weird because the days i feel most true to myself with my makeup and hair and outfits are the days i get the least compliments
and its not that it doesnt suit me either
i usually go for a 60s babydoll look with teased hair, winged eyeliner, and a nude lip and i think it suits my features and coloring very well while dressing and doing my makeup more "basic" like slickbacks and sweats which i dont really like wearing at all gets me a lot more attention even though it doesnt suit me at all
i have very round feminine features
i think this kinda shows the style i feel most comfortable in
is it just that men don't like that kind of style? i dont understand what im doing wrong

it matters like your life depends on it

your entire social circle and ladder there after is mostly entirely based on your "style"

if you are still in school disregarding the facial appearances of people if you were to examine the packs based entirely on outfit preferences you can actually visualize who are going to make it in life and who are going to dwindle.

 

[AXII.CO]

really? i thought it was really cute
what isnt appealing about it?

Most men nowadays are too afraid to give a small light hearted compliment because the popularization of the BP

that's most definitely the reason

 

[snoopy12]

it matters like your life depends on it

your entire social circle and ladder there after is mostly entirely based on your "style"

if you are still in school disregarding the facial appearances of people if you were to examine the packs based entirely on outfit preferences you can actually visualize who are going to make it in life and who are going to dwindle.

awh that’s really unfortunate
yeah i’ve kinda realized that over time
i mean we wear uniforms to school so idk if it’s so much about school im okay there i kinda keep to myself on purpose but im talking more about when i’m out and about

Most men nowadays are too afraid to give a small light hearted compliment because the popularization of the BP

that's most definitely the reason

really? i mean i know i’m not the prettiest i kinda figured that was the reason because i feel like every other girl gets hit on all the time and i actually sometimes have guys say cute stuff to me when im dressed more basic, just not really when im dolled up

 

[grav]

Swag is everything

 

[snoopy12]

Swag is everything

is the 60s style in the post considered swag

 

[AXII.CO]

awh that’s really unfortunate
yeah i’ve kinda realized that over time
i mean we wear uniforms to school so idk if it’s so much about school im okay there i kinda keep to myself on purpose but im talking more about when i’m out and about

well if your school allows for facial piercings and dyed hair you can also use that as a visualizing marker.
There is not a such thing as an "out and about" reality
life stays like high school even outside of the education environment
I graduated last year and I've seen how the "adults" act and it's still so "immature."

You can dress how you'd like but just keep it in mind there is no such thing as "in school/outside of school" personification of yourself. you are what people see of you.

really? i mean i know i’m not the prettiest i kinda figured that was the reason because i feel like every other girl gets hit on all the time and i actually sometimes have guys say cute stuff to me when im dressed more basic, just not really when im dolled up

Not saying you are ugly but even ugly women have ugly men compliment them allll the time on a day to day basis. Maybe you're just not in a populated location and every guy there is just super ND and BP'd

 

[AXII.CO]

i actually sometimes have guys say cute stuff to me when im dressed more basic, just not really when im dolled up

This right here just answered what I was saying I lowkey DNr'd you ngl

You can dress how you'd like but just keep it in mind there is no such thing as "in school/outside of school" personification of yourself. you are what people see of you.

You have to dress the most open NT way for you to be approachable

 

[grav]

is the 60s style in the post considered swag

Yes uncle

 

[snoopy12]

This right here just answered what I was saying I lowkey DNr'd you ngl

You have to dress the most open NT way for you to be approachable

yeah LOL i mean i have asperger’s so i get im a lil unapproachable and not good at talking to people but do men really not like women who are styled like this or is it just a me thing?

 

[snoopy12]

Yes uncle

yey

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

style is cope. all that matters is how good you look in the morning waking up w morning breath completely rotted with all ur frauds removed

 

[AXII.CO]

yeah LOL i mean i have asperger’s so i get im a lil unapproachable and not good at talking to people but do men really not like women who are styled like this or is it just a me thing?

it's just the style

You literally can't lose as a woman

even if you're aspie you can and will still get guys fawning over you

just be NT like you said yourself

dress open and you'll get called.

 

[snoopy12]

style is cope. all that matters is how good you look in the morning waking up w morning breath completely rotted with all ur frauds removed

awh well now im confused

 

[snoopy12]

it's just the style

You literally can't lose as a woman

even if you're aspie you can and will still get guys fawning over you

just be NT like you said yourself

dress open and you'll get called.

idk i haven’t seen this being very true in my life but maybe once i get out more we’ll see

 

[AXII.CO]

idk i haven’t seen this being very true in my life but maybe once i get out more we’ll see

You'll see with time if you follow through with the advice

You already noticed it

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

awh well now im confused

idk whats confusing about it. foids dont have to looksmax at all if you only want casual sex, it only matters for locking in the highest quality man you can possibly get for marriage/get carried through life. this means you need to be attractive to them with all frauds removed, or else you'll just be a girl for a night

 

[snoopy12]

You'll see with time if you follow through with the advice

thank you for your help

 

[snoopy12]

idk whats confusing about it. foids dont have to looksmax at all if you only want casual sex, it only matters for locking in the highest quality man you can possibly get for marriage/get carried through life. this means you need to be attractive to them with all frauds removed, or else you'll just be a girl for a night

im confused bc everyone else is saying the opposite

so you’re saying i can only get married if im beautiful?
i just want people to see me as pretty for now i want a boy to like me that’s really it

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

im confused bc everyone else is saying the opposite

so you’re saying i can only get married if im beautiful?
i just want people to see me as pretty for now i want a boy to like me that’s really it

no you can get married without being beautiful ofc lol but your looks determine the max value male you can marry

you can be legit 0/10 obese foid and still have guys going for you

 

[snoopy12]

no you can get married without being beautiful ofc lol but your looks determine the max value male you can marry

i just want a nice boy who loves me idk

 

[AXII.CO]

no you can get married without being beautiful ofc lol but your looks determine the max value male you can marry

you can be legit 0/10 obese foid and still have guys going for you

she knows this stop overexplaining yourself LT. Chud

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

i just want a nice boy who loves me idk

yeah every foid has access to limitless amounts of men willing to BE that, but you want an attractive male, which limits your options depending on your own looks