How much of your happiness do you derive from your looks

[ratedLTN2]

Seems like quite alot of you do so alot. When I was young and skinny it's all I ever felt good about myself due to bullying etc I relied on my looks attention from woman etc.

Seems alot of you had the opposite growth went from ugly to handsome rather than me handsome to ugly. Seems kinda like it fucked ur brains up

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

Seems kinda like it fucked ur brains up

TeenPill ruined my life

 

[ratedLTN2]

TeenPill ruined my life

How so?

 

[Ath]

dnr

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

How so?

I was a drug addict aspie sperg

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

A lot. Ever since my glow up 3 years ago. Getting more attention from women and having a pretty easy dating life is nice.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

When I was at my peak of attractiveness it was top 3 most miserable depressive times of my life and all people would notice was how skinny I got. It gave me some satisfaction but I still was unhappy

If looks were the main causation of my lack of happiness, it would be an easy fix. But i have been miserable even before caring a lot about my appearance. It's so many other factors

 

[ratedLTN2]

When I was at my peak of attractiveness it was top 3 most miserable depressive times of my life and all people would notice was how skinny I got. It gave me some satisfaction but I still was unhappy

If looks were the main causation of my lack of happiness, it would be an easy fix. But i have been miserable even before caring a lot about my appearance. It's so many other factors

Nicely thought out answer. I agree it gives some satisfaction that can't be denied.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Nicely thought out answer. I agree it gives some satisfaction that can't be denied.

Exactly. I gained weight and looksminned a lot after that peak and I genuinely saw how differently I got treated again. I think it made me more bitter, if anything

 

[ragnarok787]

Seems like quite alot of you do so alot. When I was young and skinny it's all I ever felt good about myself due to bullying etc I relied on my looks attention from woman etc.

Seems alot of you had the opposite growth went from ugly to handsome rather than me handsome to ugly. Seems kinda like it fucked ur brains up

I always relied more on my muscles , it was gay where i grew up to care about face as a man
Now yea i know i look good and it does open a lot of doors in my life datin wise. but i dont see myself different from others

 

[ragnarok787]

When I was at my peak of attractiveness it was top 3 most miserable depressive times of my life and all people would notice was how skinny I got. It gave me some satisfaction but I still was unhappy

If looks were the main causation of my lack of happiness, it would be an easy fix. But i have been miserable even before caring a lot about my appearance. It's so many other factors

This might sound blue pilled but
You need to learn we as humans are not just our flash your whole happyness and value should not come from that or being succesfull cause it will never be enough and once u loose it what then? We need to learn to be happy and love ourselfs for who we are

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

This might sound blue pilled but
You need to learn we as humans are not just our flash your whole happyness and value should not come from that or being succesfull cause it will never be enough and once u loose it what then? We need to learn to be happy and love ourselfs for who we are

You have a point. I just dont think I've ever experienced happiness where it's more than a fleeting moment. So I just measure it based on my success. Even if I lose it. Life is about winning and losing. It is hard to love youself when you are not willing to be loved.

 

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[ragnarok787]

You have a point. I just dont think I've ever experienced happiness where it's more than a fleeting moment. So I just measure it based on my success. Even if I lose it. Life is about winning and losing. It is hard to love youself when you are not willing to be loved.

because society conditioned us that , if you are not good looking or succefull in life you are not worthy of a love and respect . Which is not true but it is so hard to loose this mindset that was put into our minds from birth

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Overrated

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

dnr

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