How tf do you deal with a trifling gf

[dontmindme]

She wasn't always like this, but ever since we started discussing about our uni choices, she's been an absolute headache. I applied for the uni she was going and another better one (along with 3 others but they're irrelevant in this). I got a place in the better uni, I thought it'd be alright to go there, but instead I get into argument after argument with my girl over this, since she wants me to go to same uni as her. We're gonna be on different campuses anyway, so it won't even make a damn difference imo.

She also said that I'd probably cheat on her if I went to another uni and I'm ngl, she fogs me (with makeup on). That'd be such a dumb move on my part

We had another argument over the same shit, blocked me and then got her friend to try and loyalty test me. Does this girl not trust me at all??

How do I solve something like this, because speaking logically about shit aint working.

Ik there's chads and stacies here. Help a nіgger out s'il vous plait

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Im gonna be real here, there's no saving that unless she randomly has a come to Jesus moment or you do some crazy grand gesture of loyalty like holding her hand in the hospital during a near-death exerpeince

 

[dontmindme]

Im gonna be real here, there's no saving that unless she randomly has a come to Jesus moment or you do some crazy grand gesture of loyalty like holding her hand in the hospital during a near-death exerpeince

that's some romance anime bullshit

ffs man, idk what I did for her not to trust me

 

[RhodoniteRed]

that's some romance anime bullshit

ffs man, idk what I did for her not to trust me

let it die if she doesn't want to say it or give decent hints

 

[dontmindme]

let it die if she doesn't want to say it or give decent hints

let what die? the rs? you must be TWEAKING if you meant the rs jfl

she's htb (with makeup) I aint fumbling that

 

[Incognito]

She wasn't always like this, but ever since we started discussing about our uni choices, she's been an absolute headache. I applied for the uni she was going and another better one (along with 3 others but they're irrelevant in this). I got a place in the better uni, I thought it'd be alright to go there, but instead I get into argument after argument with my girl over this, since she wants me to go to same uni as her. We're gonna be on different campuses anyway, so it won't even make a damn difference imo.

She also said that I'd probably cheat on her if I went to another uni and I'm ngl, she fogs me (with makeup on). That'd be such a dumb move on my part

We had another argument over the same shit, blocked me and then got her friend to try and loyalty test me. Does this girl not trust me at all??

How do I solve something like this, because speaking logically about shit aint working.

Ik there's chads and stacies here. Help a nіgger out s'il vous plait

I’m usually someone who gives time, but since you’ve already tried reasoning with her, it’s time to set some firm boundaries. If logic hasn’t worked, you have to consider protecting your own future. Make it clear that her insecurity isn’t your responsibility, and that if she can’t accept your decision, then perhaps you need to rethink the relationship altogether.

An ultimatum that draws the lion out of its cave: if she accepts, the relationship is saved, if she declines, it reveals her arrogance and proves you’re better off without her.

 

[RhodoniteRed]

let what die? the rs? you must be TWEAKING if you meant the rs jfl

she's htb (with makeup) I aint fumbling that

You can try to set boundaries about her trust issues and compromise, but it honestly it sounds like it might be worth being alone if she doesn't let you do that since its gonna get nasty if nothing changes soon

 

[Spuffy]

every relationship i know has ended because of uni

also shes being immature so just break up

 

[dontmindme]

I’m usually someone who gives time, but since you’ve already tried reasoning with her, it’s time to set some firm boundaries. If logic hasn’t worked, you have to consider protecting your own future. Make it clear that her insecurity isn’t your responsibility, and that if she can’t accept your decision, then perhaps you need to rethink the relationship altogether.

An ultimatum that draws the lion out of its cave: if she accepts, the relationship is saved, if she declines, it reveals her arrogance and proves you’re better off without her.

You're completely right man. But it's a hard decision since she's the prettiest girl I've been with

I guess I'll have to grow a pair and put my foot down on this one

 

[Incognito]

let what die? the rs? you must be TWEAKING if you meant the rs jfl

she's htb (with makeup) I aint fumbling that

Listen, bro, never let yourself become the dependent one in a relationship. The person who’s willing to leave first usually holds the bargaining power. If you cling to her out of fear you won’t find another like her, you’ll end up not as her boyfriend, but more like her lapdog.

 

[MyDreamisToBe183CM]

She wasn't always like this, but ever since we started discussing about our uni choices, she's been an absolute headache. I applied for the uni she was going and another better one (along with 3 others but they're irrelevant in this). I got a place in the better uni, I thought it'd be alright to go there, but instead I get into argument after argument with my girl over this, since she wants me to go to same uni as her. We're gonna be on different campuses anyway, so it won't even make a damn difference imo.

She also said that I'd probably cheat on her if I went to another uni and I'm ngl, she fogs me (with makeup on). That'd be such a dumb move on my part

We had another argument over the same shit, blocked me and then got her friend to try and loyalty test me. Does this girl not trust me at all??

How do I solve something like this, because speaking logically about shit aint working.

Ik there's chads and stacies here. Help a nіgger out s'il vous plait

Cope ur a girl

 

[dontmindme]

every relationship i know has ended because of uni

also shes being immature so just break up

I can't believe imma lose a htb over ts

 

[dontmindme]

Listen, bro, never let yourself become the dependent one in a relationship. The person who’s willing to leave first usually holds the bargaining power. If you cling to her out of fear you won’t find another like her, you’ll end up not as her boyfriend, but more like her lapdog.

I guess that's true.

Tbh, before being blackpilled I didn't think like this, I was a lot more arrogant back then. This feeling is kinda new and it isn't helping my case at all. She's got me blocked rn so I'll have to speak with her IRL or phone if she stops having this tantrum, see how it goes

 

[Incognito]

I guess that's true.

Tbh, before being blackpilled I didn't think like this, I was a lot more arrogant back then. This feeling is kinda new and it isn't helping my case at all. She's got me blocked rn so I'll have to speak with her IRL or phone if she stops having this tantrum, see how it goes

Get that blackpill thinking out of your head, bro. Life’s not just black and white, it’s full of gray areas. You didn’t start seeing her as higher status until this pill made you start classifying people based on looks. Now you think her face equals higher status, but in a relationship, status comes from much more than just looks. There are deeper aspects that determine it.

 

[RhodoniteRed]

I guess that's true.

Tbh, before being blackpilled I didn't think like this, I was a lot more arrogant back then. This feeling is kinda new and it isn't helping my case at all. She's got me blocked rn so I'll have to speak with her IRL or phone if she stops having this tantrum, see how it goes

You're probably MtN so you get to live a greypilled life and don't have to take that kind of shit to keep a relationship

 

[dontmindme]

You're probably MtN so you get to live a greypilled life and don't have to take that kind of shit to keep a relationship

tbf I've only been rated high mtn and higher but that doesn't really change much lol

And yeah you're right, it's just that I've grown really attached to this girl AND it was during our relationship I started really delving deep in the bp. Maybe that shit made things worse

 

[RhodoniteRed]

tbf I've only been rated high mtn and higher but that doesn't really change much lol

And yeah you're right, it's just that I've grown really attached to this girl AND it was during our relationship I started really delving deep in the bp. Maybe that shit made things worse

High MtN is still enough opportunities to need to tolerate that just to avoid being alone, but yeah talk to her about it and depending on how it goes you might have to reconsider

 

[neverlookback]

i feel like if i got shot i would have to shoot my girlfriend as well so i don't die alone and sad

its actually very poetic if you think about it

 

[neymar]

Did u pass or fail the loyalty test? I asked on org but it’s hard to tell

 

[neverlookback]

Did u pass or fail the loyalty test? I asked on org but it’s hard to tell

are you ignoring my comment bro?

i feel like if i got shot i would have to shoot my girlfriend as well so i don't die alone and sad

its actually very poetic if you think about it

rep it up!

 

[neymar]

are you ignoring my comment bro?

rep it up!

What did you say

 

[neymar]

are you ignoring my comment bro?

rep it up!

Am I your fucking rep slave

 

[dontmindme]

Did u pass or fail the loyalty test? I asked on org but it’s hard to tell

oh shit I didn't see that, yeah Im pretty sure I did I mean, I even gave her a zesty answer for added effect. Should’ve added an emoji now that I think about it

Oh wait I did

 

[neverlookback]

What did you say

nevermind its stupid

 

[dontmindme]

i feel like if i got shot i would have to shoot my girlfriend as well so i don't die alone and sad

its actually very poetic if you think about it

Yh they call that a lover’s suicide I think. I’ve seen it in documentaries

 

[neymar]

oh shit I didn't see that, yeah Im pretty sure I did I mean, I even gave her a zesty answer for added effect. Should’ve added an emoji now that I think about it

Oh wait I did
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Super sassy bro

 

[neverlookback]

oh shit I didn't see that, yeah Im pretty sure I did I mean, I even gave her a zesty answer for added effect. Should’ve added an emoji now that I think about it

Oh wait I did
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bro who says that shit

 

[neymar]

oh shit I didn't see that, yeah Im pretty sure I did I mean, I even gave her a zesty answer for added effect. Should’ve added an emoji now that I think about it

Oh wait I did
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Offtopic but I met my ex from a loyalty test (she was the test) then she hit me up a few months later and said she couldn’t forget about me after ratting me out to my talking stage
Ofc she wasn’t loyal to me

 

[dontmindme]

bro who says that shit

All according to plan

 

[RhodoniteRed]

oh shit I didn't see that, yeah Im pretty sure I did I mean, I even gave her a zesty answer for added effect. Should’ve added an emoji now that I think about it

Oh wait I did
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Ohhh, then the problem is you mate

 

[dontmindme]

Offtopic but I met my ex from a loyalty test (she was the test) then she hit me up a few months later and said she couldn’t forget about me after ratting me out to my talking stage
Ofc she wasn’t loyal to me

bro

Was it at least an upgrade

 

[dontmindme]

Ohhh, then the problem is you mate

Fym?

I declined her friend in the gayest least suspicious way I could

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Fym?

I declined her friend in the gayest least suspicious way I could

Wait, is that screenshot related? Fuck I need to get my laptop screen fixed

 

[neymar]

bro

Was it at least an upgrade

At the time which was years ago yeah. Now the old girl is way hotter and i forever fumbled that

 

[dontmindme]

Wait, is that screenshot related? Fuck I need to get my laptop screen fixed

that's her friend trying to loyalty test me, she even sent a pic where she's showing off her tits (not naked but like obviously pressing them toggether if u know what I mean)

I'd never let my friend send that kinda shit to my bf if i were her though, that's crazy

 

[dontmindme]

At the time which was years ago yeah. Now the old girl is way hotter and i forever fumbled that

Happens to the best of us man...

 

[RhodoniteRed]

that's her friend trying to loyalty test me, she even sent a pic where she's showing off her tits (not naked but like obviously pressing them toggether if u know what I mean)

I'd never let my friend send that kinda shit to my bf if i were her though, that's crazy

I though that you actually said you jerked it in that screenshot which in that case it is a fail

 

[dontmindme]

I though that you actually said you jerked it which in that case it is a fail

Noooo I'm the one in purple lmao

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Noooo I'm the one in purple lmao

Oooooof

 

[Spuffy]

I can't believe imma lose a htb over ts

it happens. just accept it and keep living. its so over

 

[Peater]

Noooo I'm the one in purple lmao

Is ts u?

 

[dontmindme]

it happens. just accept it and keep living. its so over

I'd rather start doing some romeo and juliet bullshit than give up just yet

 

[dontmindme]

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Is ts u?

that's not even me, but you're so weird for that honestly

 

[Peater]

that's not even me, but you're so weird for that honestly

So it is u?

 

[dontmindme]

So it is u?

these n*****s man...

 

[Peater]

that's not even me, but you're so weird for that honestly

Hi angel how r u

 

[Peater]

these n*****s man...

I just had a question tbh

 

[Randomized Shame]

Not worth saving at that point. I would never tolerate my girl blocking me like that or accusing me of possibly cheating in that kind of manner. From the way you described it, it wasn't like her asking for reassurance or comfort, it was straight up accusatory.

 

[dontmindme]

Not worth saving at that point. I would never tolerate my girl blocking me like that or accusing me of possibly cheating in that kind of manner. From the way you described it, it wasn't like her asking for reassurance or comfort, it was straight up accusatory.

I left out a lot since it'd be too long to read.

Now looking back at it, I've painted her in a really bad light... yikes

It really isn't as bad as I made it sound. But it is still bullshit, I'll speak with her tomorrow. She just gets really childish

 

[Randomized Shame]

I left out a lot since it'd be too long to read.

Now looking back at it, I've painted her in a really bad light... yikes

It really isn't as bad as I made it sound. But it is still bullshit, I'll speak with her tomorrow. She just gets really childish

The problem is the testing thing, to be honest. I would've disliked that. Even if you passed, it means she took you for a liar. That your word alone was not enough to be trusted, it had to be verified.

Of course you know her better than I do, but it's sometimes easier to excuse behavior when you see her personality in it's entirety. Sometimes situations don't require that additional context, y'know? However, I don't want to speak on behalf of your relationship.

Talking it out with her is the best thing you can do. It's not normal for someone to explode like that, though. Unless you said something that would've caused that reaction, the response seems to be unjustified. Sometimes we (as in men) have a tendency to say something fucked up by accident and not realize it, and it hurts our girl's feelings. You should ask her directly why she felt the need to block you, or why she's concerned about you cheating, and so on.