Guide how to appeal to women more as a women advising men.

[notfoidlol]

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her. although some girls don’t mind mistreatment and simply see you as a side or an option, if your really invested in finding a solid and stable love interest that you can settle with and commit to long term you can’t just run along with that mentality

the girls want gentlemen, they want good old-fashioned men that’ll sweep them off their feet with non sexualizing compliments that wont make them feel invaded and dehumanized.

1. replace words such as “fine” and “bad” with “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “stunning”

2. most girls rely on what they hear. dont build up a reputation that will ruin your chances with a serious and loyal woman, so for example dont be cheeky and flirty with your female friends, don’t tell anybody your business only close trusted friends that wont spread it to the entire world.

3. dress appropriately and avoid wearing clothes that you only see teenage boys wearing. unless your still studying and around girls that don’t mind that behavior then sure. it goes both aways though, your clothing choices will affect the opinions made around you.

for example, compare a boy who wears all nike tech, smokes and drinks and is very impolite. Yes they may attract and appeal but not the same crowd that a sophisticated man would draw in. in contrast, the classy better dressed man will be picked as he seems to be more intelligent and well mannered.

4. it may sound a bit weird but sometimes you have to fake it til you make it meaning yes pick up the niche philosophy books, drink the matcha, buy the polo quarter zip, make yourself stand out. just because you see it often on tiktok doesn't it happens in real day to day life. i still see immature boys daily even though it is what’s popular on social media.

5. just be a gentleman, buy her those flowers, open the door for her, take her out on dates (doesn’t even have to be expensive it could be picnics or even just going to a pretty view), make an effort dont be a jerk and be completely inconsiderate of her feelings.

just thought that this would be helpful, may not matter if you’re still studying or not interested in serious relationships but if you are then little things like these Do infact matter. as much as being attractive matters, there are certain acts that will literally make you less attractive and desirable to a woman.

 

[Decay]

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her.

It’s not being shallow, it’s noticing that most people are shallow. This post must be satirical, i assume.

 

[Starlet]

 

[fashist]

-Be chad

 

[notfoidlol]

It’s not being shallow, it’s noticing that most people are shallow. This post must be satirical, i assume.

its really not though, yes looks are important i never stated it wasn't but you have to understand there are other qualities that matter aswell. besides, whole point of the post was to advise men actively Looking for a serious relationship. because as much as looks draw in that doesn’t mean that she’ll stay solely because of your appearance.

 

[Decay]

its really not though, yes looks are important i never stated it wasn't but you have to understand there are other qualities that matter aswell. besides, whole point of the post was to advise men actively Looking for a serious relationship. because as much as looks draw in that doesn’t mean that she’ll stay solely because of your appearance.

Other qualities may matter, sure, all of which simply do not matter if you’re good looking enough. “Being a gentleman” and “treating her right” suddenly becomes optional.

 

[Hyaluronic]

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her. although some girls don’t mind mistreatment and simply see you as a side or an option, if your really invested in finding a solid and stable love interest that you can settle with and commit to long term you can’t just run along with that mentality

the girls want gentlemen, they want good old-fashioned men that’ll sweep them off their feet with non sexualizing compliments that wont make them feel invaded and dehumanized.

1. replace words such as “fine” and “bad” with “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “stunning”

2. most girls rely on what they hear. dont build up a reputation that will ruin your chances with a serious and loyal woman, so for example dont be cheeky and flirty with your female friends, don’t tell anybody your business only close trusted friends that wont spread it to the entire world.

3. dress appropriately and avoid wearing clothes that you only see teenage boys wearing. unless your still studying and around girls that don’t mind that behavior then sure. it goes both aways though, your clothing choices will affect the opinions made around you.

for example, compare a boy who wears all nike tech, smokes and drinks and is very impolite. Yes they may attract and appeal but not the same crowd that a sophisticated man would draw in. in contrast, the classy better dressed man will be picked as he seems to be more intelligent and well mannered.

4. it may sound a bit weird but sometimes you have to fake it til you make it meaning yes pick up the niche philosophy books, drink the matcha, buy the polo quarter zip, make yourself stand out. just because you see it often on tiktok doesn't it happens in real day to day life. i still see immature boys daily even though it is what’s popular on social media.

5. just be a gentleman, buy her those flowers, open the door for her, take her out on dates (doesn’t even have to be expensive it could be picnics or even just going to a pretty view), make an effort dont be a jerk and be completely inconsiderate of her feelings.

just thought that this would be helpful, may not matter if you’re still studying or not interested in serious relationships but if you are then little things like these Do infact matter. as much as being attractive matters, there are certain acts that will literally make you less attractive and desirable to a woman.

I like it, honestly maybe just add a bit of spice to the formatting and you’re good

 

[notfoidlol]

Other qualities may matter, sure, all of which simply do not matter if you’re good looking enough. “Being a gentleman” and “treating her right” suddenly becomes optional.

Nooo it doesn’t. i and so many of my friends have dropped men who would be considered “htn” because of their attitude. its only optional if your dealing with immature girls who dont care.

 

[Hyaluronic]

Other qualities may matter, sure, all of which simply do not matter if you’re good looking enough. “Being a gentleman” and “treating her right” suddenly becomes optional.

You’re right but this seems to be more of a ltr thread for mtns-htns, no woman that’s good for ltr is gonna tolerate an abusive htn and nobody here is chadlite

 

[Decay]

You’re right but this seems to be more of a ltr thread for mtns-htns, no woman that’s good for ltr is gonna tolerate an abusive htn and nobody here is chadlite

Many women romanticise abuse, of course they’ll LTR an abusive HTN.

 

[Hyaluronic]

Many women romanticise abuse, of course they’ll LTR an abusive HTN.

Well those aren’t really ltr material, those are whores with mental issues

 

[Hyaluronic]

A lot of women will ons with a mtn+ but nobody wants to ltr them and they probably acknowledge it

 

[Decay]

Nooo it doesn’t. i and so many of my friends have dropped men who would be considered “htn” because of their attitude. its only optional if your dealing with immature girls who dont care.

Sure, you say this but you would choose an abusive “chad” over a gentlemanly “LTN” that qualifies for everything you could ever want in personality. You’re basically just virtue signalling.

 

[notfoidlol]

Many women romanticise abuse, of course they’ll LTR an abusive HTN.

yes the only time that abuse is romanticized is when she is unwell. the culture surrounding the romanticization and disregard of abuse is a completely different topic. usually after experiencing abuse some people experience coping mechanisms that make them look up to the person that caused such pain. but that does Not mean whatsoever that women want to be abused at all.

 

[notfoidlol]

Sure, you say this but you would choose an abusive “chad” over a gentlemanly “LTN” that qualifies for everything you could ever want in personality. You’re basically just virtue signalling.

dude what are you even saying, No i would not accept abuse from anybody just because they are chad. i dont think anybody in their right mind would at that.

 

[Decay]

yes the only time that abuse is romanticized is when she is unwell. the culture surrounding the romanticization and disregard of abuse is a completely different topic. usually after experiencing abuse some people experience coping mechanisms that make them look up to the person that caused such pain. but that does Not mean whatsoever that women want to be abused at all.

Then you would also consider women with r**e fantasies “unwell” too, yes? Because they’re 62% of the female population. Are you suggesting that 62% of the female population are mentally unwell?

 

[notfoidlol]

Then you would also consider women with r**e fantasies “unwell” too, yes? Because they’re 62% of the female population. Are you suggesting that 62% of the female population are mentally unwell?

using that argument is like saying “most people who commit suicide are men so that makes all men mentally ill” and where are these statistics coming from? out of every best friend that i’ve had i have never heard of a r**e fantasy. maybe your referring to consensual rough sexual acts then yes but r*pe? i dont know man.

 

[Decay]

using that argument is like saying “most people who commit suicide are men so that makes all men mentally ill” and where are these statistics coming from? out of every best friend that i’ve had i have never heard of a r**e fantasy. maybe your referring to consensual rough sexual acts then yes but r*pe? i dont know man.

 

[Decay]

using that argument is like saying “most people who commit suicide are men so that makes all men mentally ill”

If most men commited suicide then that would probably suggest that most men are mentally ill, yes. But most men do not commit suicide, most people who commit suicide are men. Bad analogy.

 

[notfoidlol]

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just reviewed that study, that was made in 2009. do you have any recent made studies?

 

[notfoidlol]

If most men commited suicide then that would probably suggest that most men are mentally ill, yes. But most men do not commit suicide, most people who commit suicide are men. Bad analogy.

yes, that is my bad. i should’ve worded it better but it was worded good enough for you to understand the point i was trying to get across.

 

[Decay]

just reviewed that study, that was made in 2009. do you have any recent made studies?

https://www.researchgate.net/public...and_How_It_Can_Help_You_Improve_Your_Sex_Life (2018)

https://link.springer.com/rwe/10.1007/978-3-031-08956-5_2202-1 (2022)

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619 (2020) this one focuses “BDSM” force-related kinks, although, it’s pretty much the exact same thing.

 

[Shkypot]

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her. although some girls don’t mind mistreatment and simply see you as a side or an option, if your really invested in finding a solid and stable love interest that you can settle with and commit to long term you can’t just run along with that mentality

the girls want gentlemen, they want good old-fashioned men that’ll sweep them off their feet with non sexualizing compliments that wont make them feel invaded and dehumanized.

1. replace words such as “fine” and “bad” with “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “stunning”

2. most girls rely on what they hear. dont build up a reputation that will ruin your chances with a serious and loyal woman, so for example dont be cheeky and flirty with your female friends, don’t tell anybody your business only close trusted friends that wont spread it to the entire world.

3. dress appropriately and avoid wearing clothes that you only see teenage boys wearing. unless your still studying and around girls that don’t mind that behavior then sure. it goes both aways though, your clothing choices will affect the opinions made around you.

for example, compare a boy who wears all nike tech, smokes and drinks and is very impolite. Yes they may attract and appeal but not the same crowd that a sophisticated man would draw in. in contrast, the classy better dressed man will be picked as he seems to be more intelligent and well mannered.

4. it may sound a bit weird but sometimes you have to fake it til you make it meaning yes pick up the niche philosophy books, drink the matcha, buy the polo quarter zip, make yourself stand out. just because you see it often on tiktok doesn't it happens in real day to day life. i still see immature boys daily even though it is what’s popular on social media.

5. just be a gentleman, buy her those flowers, open the door for her, take her out on dates (doesn’t even have to be expensive it could be picnics or even just going to a pretty view), make an effort dont be a jerk and be completely inconsiderate of her feelings.

just thought that this would be helpful, may not matter if you’re still studying or not interested in serious relationships but if you are then little things like these Do infact matter. as much as being attractive matters, there are certain acts that will literally make you less attractive and desirable to a woman.

Water but still useful info

 

[notfoidlol]

Water but still useful info

take it how you want. still things you should consider when searching for serious relationships.

 

[Deleted Member 95241]

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her. although some girls don’t mind mistreatment and simply see you as a side or an option, if your really invested in finding a solid and stable love interest that you can settle with and commit to long term you can’t just run along with that mentality

the girls want gentlemen, they want good old-fashioned men that’ll sweep them off their feet with non sexualizing compliments that wont make them feel invaded and dehumanized.

1. replace words such as “fine” and “bad” with “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “stunning”

2. most girls rely on what they hear. dont build up a reputation that will ruin your chances with a serious and loyal woman, so for example dont be cheeky and flirty with your female friends, don’t tell anybody your business only close trusted friends that wont spread it to the entire world.

3. dress appropriately and avoid wearing clothes that you only see teenage boys wearing. unless your still studying and around girls that don’t mind that behavior then sure. it goes both aways though, your clothing choices will affect the opinions made around you.

for example, compare a boy who wears all nike tech, smokes and drinks and is very impolite. Yes they may attract and appeal but not the same crowd that a sophisticated man would draw in. in contrast, the classy better dressed man will be picked as he seems to be more intelligent and well mannered.

4. it may sound a bit weird but sometimes you have to fake it til you make it meaning yes pick up the niche philosophy books, drink the matcha, buy the polo quarter zip, make yourself stand out. just because you see it often on tiktok doesn't it happens in real day to day life. i still see immature boys daily even though it is what’s popular on social media.

5. just be a gentleman, buy her those flowers, open the door for her, take her out on dates (doesn’t even have to be expensive it could be picnics or even just going to a pretty view), make an effort dont be a jerk and be completely inconsiderate of her feelings.

just thought that this would be helpful, may not matter if you’re still studying or not interested in serious relationships but if you are then little things like these Do infact matter. as much as being attractive matters, there are certain acts that will literally make you less attractive and desirable to a woman.

No way you just called men

if your shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her. although some girls don’t mind mistreatment and simply see you as a side or an option, if your really invested in finding a solid and stable love interest that you can settle with and commit to long term you can’t just run along with that mentality

the girls want gentlemen, they want good old-fashioned men that’ll sweep them off their feet with non sexualizing compliments that wont make them feel invaded and dehumanized.

1. replace words such as “fine” and “bad” with “beautiful”, “pretty”, and “stunning”

2. most girls rely on what they hear. dont build up a reputation that will ruin your chances with a serious and loyal woman, so for example dont be cheeky and flirty with your female friends, don’t tell anybody your business only close trusted friends that wont spread it to the entire world.

3. dress appropriately and avoid wearing clothes that you only see teenage boys wearing. unless your still studying and around girls that don’t mind that behavior then sure. it goes both aways though, your clothing choices will affect the opinions made around you.

for example, compare a boy who wears all nike tech, smokes and drinks and is very impolite. Yes they may attract and appeal but not the same crowd that a sophisticated man would draw in. in contrast, the classy better dressed man will be picked as he seems to be more intelligent and well mannered.

4. it may sound a bit weird but sometimes you have to fake it til you make it meaning yes pick up the niche philosophy books, drink the matcha, buy the polo quarter zip, make yourself stand out. just because you see it often on tiktok doesn't it happens in real day to day life. i still see immature boys daily even though it is what’s popular on social media.

5. just be a gentleman, buy her those flowers, open the door for her, take her out on dates (doesn’t even have to be expensive it could be picnics or even just going to a pretty view), make an effort dont be a jerk and be completely inconsiderate of her feelings.

just thought that this would be helpful, may not matter if you’re still studying or not interested in serious relationships but if you are then little things like these Do infact matter. as much as being attractive matters, there are certain acts that will literally make you less attractive and desirable to a woman.

no way you just said “shallow enough to believe that just because your looks attracted a girl that that’ll be enough to keep her” just to follow it up with “although some girls don’t mind mistreatment….”