Personality. be friendly. Everyone likes a person who smiles with their eyes and who is genuinely happy to see people. When you’re out or in social situations actively engage with people, have your own shit going on so you’re confident in who you are and your worth but take an active interest in getting to know the people around you, don’t be a pushover but always be kind and considerate of others so people want to have you around and invite you places.
Also men love when women are funny and good looking so it’s important to have a good sense of humor and not take anything too seriously.