Serious how to break up without hurting him??

[moonlight1]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

 

[slenderpill]

just say it straight up not that difficult

 

[vivi]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

Tell him to kill himself

 

[Jawggernaut Mewlord]

I'm afraid that's not possible, you'll have to do with

 

[Nenestar]

Say the truth

 

[moonlight1]

just say it straight up not that difficult

the problem is that i don’t wanna hurt him yk I like him but I don’t wanna date

 

[rovea]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

Tell him that you found a 6’4 Chad that mog him

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Holy chit n***a this is what small dih does to a mf done traumatised this one

 

[moonlight1]

Tell him that you found a 6’4 Chad that mog him

I’m the true 6’4 Chad idk I just wanna be alone

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Say that ur in love with a demon and it requires ur soul and full attention

Tell him it’s for his own hood since the demon will get jealous and kill him if u don’t leave him

 

[moonlight1]

Say that ur in love with a demon and it requires ur soul and full attention

Tell him it’s for his own hood since the demon will get jealous and kill him if u don’t leave him

he knows I’m a devout catholic tho so this is mot working

 

[homiespidy]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

honestly u should have made that decision before getting into a relationship

 

[Bideltoid]

You leaving him and not hurting is impossible.
Tell him truth and that's it, he will get used to it.

 

[homiespidy]

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Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

not really possible

 

[BigDihDiddy]

he knows I’m a devout catholic tho so this is mot working

Tell him u found out ur gay won’t fail since he’s not gonna see u with another guy now that you’ve decided to go celibate

 

[homiespidy]

Tell him u found out ur gay won’t fail since he’s not gonna see u with another guy now that you’ve decided to go celibate

girls cant be gay

 

[moonlight1]

honestly u should have made that decision before getting into a relationship

true tbh. but i kinda never accepted the relationship yk. He confessed to me and I said i liked him but my parents wouldn’t let me into a relationship probably but rhat i was willing to wait. But by that i meant WAITING as friends but he started treating me like a gf after that and I didn’t wanna be rude so I was just accepting

 

[BigDihDiddy]

j

Tho tbh seems brutal a foid becoming gay after dating u

Ion know tbh she has to say the truth atp

 

[homiespidy]

true tbh. but i kinda never accepted the relationship yk. He confessed to me and I said i liked him but my parents wouldn’t let me into a relationship probably but rhat i was willing to wait. But by that i meant WAITING as friends but he started treating me like a gf after that and I didn’t wanna be rude so I was just accepting

tell him u dont want physical contact and shit
talk it out before ending

 

[moonlight1]

Tell him u found out ur gay won’t fail since he’s not gonna see u with another guy now that you’ve decided to go celibate

Before we started dating I already told him abt the celibate and also I told him that I have very strong homosexual tendencies

 

[homiespidy]

Before we started dating I already told him abt the celibate and also I told him that I have very strong homosexual tendencies

r u never gonna have sex?

 

[TonyDr]

the problem is that i don’t wanna hurt him yk I like him but I don’t wanna date

The whole idea of breaking-up with him is gonna hurt him anyways, be upfront so that guy will gonna pursue an other girl instead of hoping you're changing your mind

 

[moonlight1]

r u never gonna have sex?

if i continue with my celibate for my whole life then yes, i’ll never even kiss tho.

 

[homiespidy]

The whole idea of breaking-up with him is gonna hurt him anyways, be upfront so that guy will gonna pursue an other girl instead of hoping you're changing your mind

@moonlight1 put him on ur friend after the break up or smth

 

[Born Superior]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

be a nun

 

[moonlight1]

be a nun

I’ve been thinking abt this a bit but I think I’ll just continue with my temporary or lifelong celibate but without becoming a nun

 

[Born Superior]

I’ve been thinking abt this a bit but I think I’ll just continue with my temporary or lifelong celibate but without becoming a nun

but why do you want to be celibate

 

[moonlight1]

but why do you want to be celibate

I think I kinda feel a calling towards this idk. I wanna at least try unless someone changes my mind, which is not being the case with this guy

 

[Born Superior]

I think I kinda feel a calling towards this idk. I wanna at least try unless someone changes my mind, which is not being the case with this guy

I think you’ll change. I’ve had chances to be in relationships before, but I turned them down because I felt they were a waste of money and effort. Most teenage relationships don’t last anyway.

 

[Mota]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

quantos anos tens? é um bocado exagerado decidir já seguir celibato para a vida toda, ainda vais ver muito tempo.
acaba com ele, não vai haver uma forma “correta” de o fazeres. tens de pensar em ti e na tua vida, isto vai lhe magoar de qualquer forma

 

[rovea]

quantos anos tens? é um bocado exagerado decidir já seguir celibato para a vida toda, ainda vais ver muito tempo.
acaba com ele, não vai haver uma forma “correta” de o fazeres. tens de pensar em ti e na tua vida, isto vai lhe magoar de qualquer forma

I dont speak French unfortunately, @TonyDr translate this plz

 

[ADAM]

Would it be this way if he was Chad?

 

[moonlight1]

I think you’ll change. I’ve had chances to be in relationships before, but I turned them down because I felt they were a waste of money and effort. Most teenage relationships don’t last anyway.

there’s high chances i’ll change my mind but i think i wanna be alone at least for one more year idk, but maybe i’ll actually keep it

 

[moonlight1]

quantos anos tens? é um bocado exagerado decidir já seguir celibato para a vida toda, ainda vais ver muito tempo.
acaba com ele, não vai haver uma forma “correta” de o fazeres. tens de pensar em ti e na tua vida, isto vai lhe magoar de qualquer forma

tenho 15 anos

 

[moonlight1]

I dont speak French unfortunately, @TonyDr translate this plz

it’s portuguese

 

[moonlight1]

Would it be this way if he was Chad?

idk

 

[Finnishmogger]

Less than a week n****r

 

[moonlight1]

Less than a week n****r

yea but he has a shit ton of mental health problems so it will probably hurt him a lot idk

 

[Mota]

tenho 15 anos

demasiado cedo para uma decisão dessas ahahaha. quanto ao rapaz, faz o que quiseres, tens demasiado tempo para namorar, pensar, aprender com erros etc

 

[Finnishmogger]

yea but he has a shit ton of mental health problems so it will probably hurt him a lot idk

Don’t stay with him because of that atleast.

 

[moonlight1]

Don’t stay with him because of that atleast.

yea i’m decided i will break up today

 

[vivi]

Tell him u found out ur gay won’t fail since he’s not gonna see u with another guy now that you’ve decided to go celibate

Traumatizing the n***a with this one imagine your dick game being so bad she turns lesbian

 

[Finnishmogger]

yea i’m decided i will break up today

Good luck!

 

[Mota]

I dont speak French unfortunately, @TonyDr translate this plz

oui oui baguette

 

[moonlight1]

I’ll text him now, wish me good luck

 

[vivi]

I’ll text him now, wish me good luck

Imagine he just says no

 

[Gengar]

Less than a week ago I started dating a boy and this time has been enough for me to decide I don’t want to be in a relationship, specially with him but also in general. I plan on following celibacy for my whole life or at least a few more years and he knows that because we were friends before dating and I told him abt my will to follow celibacy for my whole life a bit before.

Are you a KHHV or…? Also, what made you decide dating isn’t for you (at the moment)?

 

[moonlight1]

Imagine he just says no

if that happens i’ll just block him and pretend he doesn’t exist

 

[TonyDr]

quantos anos tens? é um bocado exagerado decidir já seguir celibato para a vida toda, ainda vais ver muito tempo.
acaba com ele, não vai haver uma forma “correta” de o fazeres. tens de pensar em ti e na tua vida, isto vai lhe magoar de qualquer forma

Woah mais quel charo, en portugais et tout...

 

[Gengar]

just say it straight up not that difficult

You guys don’t understand that not everyone can be as straightforward as you guys. I have trouble turning someone down, for example. The idea of hurting someone makes us feel super uncomfortable. Been there, done that. I’ve never been able to say it in a straightforward fashion. Ever.