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Here are some signs of a dominant girl
1. She has the decision and initiative
How it's displayed: she volunteers for plans, picks restaurants, suggests dates and trips, chooses meetup times, or organizes group plans without being asked
For example, she says “i booked us a table half past 7, want me to pick you up?” instead of “what do you want to do?”
2. She has clear boundaries and expectations
How it's displayed: she states what she wants and doesn’t mess around, she also enforces the limits aswell as expecting the same in return
For example, she says “i need sundays for myself” and reminds you when plans are near on that
3. She is confident and comfortable in making choices
How it's displayed: she is quick and confident about her decisions even for small things like where to sit, movie choice, route to take. She doesn’t hesitate or ask for permission for those things
For example, when you’re deciding on a movie night, she goes on to say “we’re watching this one, it’s great” and explains why
4. She takes responsibility
How it's displayed: she takes charge of technical things and follows through, such as paying for tickets, arrangeing rides, handings schedules, or fixing problems when they come up.
For example, your plans go sideways and she calmly calls to rebook or figures out a backup plan.
5. She leads emotionally
How it's displayed: shes the one to initiate serious talks, addresses conflicts face first, and set the emotional tone for the relationship like offering reassurance and setting boundaries
For example, she says “i think we should talk about how we spend time with friends” and leads the conversation
6. She is protective and decisive in public
How it's displayed: she steps up in social situations, introduces you, handles tough interactions, or defends boundaries like it's nothing
For example, if someone is rude, she speaks up for you and defuses it rather than waiting for you to intervene
7. She shows leadership in other areas
How it's displayed: she holds leadership roles at school and work, organizes teams, captains sports, leads projects, or runs clubs. Leadership outside the relationship can carry into it
For example, she’s the team captain or club organizer and she is similar in relationships
Some quick ways to confirm her prefrences
- ask about past relationships "how did roles work for you in past relationships?"
- ask about planning "do you like planning dates or you just wanna go with the flow"
- ask directly but in a casual tone "i like it when someone takes the lead sometimes, how do you usually prefer to handle decisions?"
1. She has the decision and initiative
How it's displayed: she volunteers for plans, picks restaurants, suggests dates and trips, chooses meetup times, or organizes group plans without being asked
For example, she says “i booked us a table half past 7, want me to pick you up?” instead of “what do you want to do?”
2. She has clear boundaries and expectations
How it's displayed: she states what she wants and doesn’t mess around, she also enforces the limits aswell as expecting the same in return
For example, she says “i need sundays for myself” and reminds you when plans are near on that
3. She is confident and comfortable in making choices
How it's displayed: she is quick and confident about her decisions even for small things like where to sit, movie choice, route to take. She doesn’t hesitate or ask for permission for those things
For example, when you’re deciding on a movie night, she goes on to say “we’re watching this one, it’s great” and explains why
4. She takes responsibility
How it's displayed: she takes charge of technical things and follows through, such as paying for tickets, arrangeing rides, handings schedules, or fixing problems when they come up.
For example, your plans go sideways and she calmly calls to rebook or figures out a backup plan.
5. She leads emotionally
How it's displayed: shes the one to initiate serious talks, addresses conflicts face first, and set the emotional tone for the relationship like offering reassurance and setting boundaries
For example, she says “i think we should talk about how we spend time with friends” and leads the conversation
6. She is protective and decisive in public
How it's displayed: she steps up in social situations, introduces you, handles tough interactions, or defends boundaries like it's nothing
For example, if someone is rude, she speaks up for you and defuses it rather than waiting for you to intervene
7. She shows leadership in other areas
How it's displayed: she holds leadership roles at school and work, organizes teams, captains sports, leads projects, or runs clubs. Leadership outside the relationship can carry into it
For example, she’s the team captain or club organizer and she is similar in relationships
Some quick ways to confirm her prefrences
- ask about past relationships "how did roles work for you in past relationships?"
- ask about planning "do you like planning dates or you just wanna go with the flow"
- ask directly but in a casual tone "i like it when someone takes the lead sometimes, how do you usually prefer to handle decisions?"
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